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We all have moments of self-doubt and insecurity in our relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n It might be a fleeting flash of a feeling; say you are feeling dowdy and you imagine that all the women your husband works with are impeccably dressed with hot, toned bodies.<\/span><\/p>\n You experience a brief moment of insecurity, but it passes.<\/span><\/p>\n Confidence in oneself is a relative experience; everyone’s sense of self-confidence can be put to the test in times of stress, fatigue, threatening circumstances or loss.<\/span><\/p>\n But there are those of us who have a deeper, more ingrained feeling of insecurity.<\/span><\/p>\n Their self-confidence is consistently low. Their sense of self-worth is not inner-driven.<\/span><\/p>\n It depends on external relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n This lack of self-esteem transfers over to all attachments, causing insecurities in marriage and other relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n Relationship insecurities put a serious, sometimes irrevocable strain on couples.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Let us examine where this emotion comes from, and how to stop feeling insecure in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n The most common cause of insecurity in a relationship is the lack of self-esteem.<\/span><\/p>\n A person who doubts their value is insecure in love and in other aspects of their life.<\/span><\/p>\n This type of person typically sees themself only in relation to other people.<\/span><\/p>\n They derive their identity, their self-affirmation from other people, and if this affirmation is not given, this person becomes more insecure.<\/span><\/p>\n Also watch:<\/strong><\/span>Feeling insecure in a relationship<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>What causes insecurity in a relationship?<\/span><\/h2>\n