

{"id":41955,"date":"2019-09-06T06:47:45","date_gmt":"2019-09-06T06:47:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=41955"},"modified":"2023-05-06T04:23:25","modified_gmt":"2023-05-06T04:23:25","slug":"signs-she-loves-you-but-is-scared-to-commit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-she-loves-you-but-is-scared-to-commit\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Signs She Loves You but Is Scared to Commit Again"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-41672 size-full\" title=\"Wondering what your girl is thinking!\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/What-to-do-when-you-fall-in-love.jpg\" alt=\"Wondering what your girl is thinking!\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you one of those guys who think that it&rsquo;s really hard to read what a girl is thinking?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you currently in a situation where you are confused if the girl you like also has feelings for you or is just too friendly? We <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">don&rsquo;t want to get friend-zoned<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, right? That&rsquo;s why it&rsquo;s really hard to just assume that you have something going on.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, to better understand the signs she loves you but is scared and to better read what her actions are telling you, we first have to decipher why she is acting the way she is and what can we do to assure her that learning to love again is okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understanding-the-walls-she-has-built-around-herself\"><\/span>Understanding the walls she has built around herself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love is indeed a beautiful thing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An experience that we all want to treasure and who doesn&rsquo;t want to fall in love? As beautiful as it is, love can also be as scary, especially for those who have had their hearts broken.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you in a situation where you see that the woman you love shows all the signs she loves you but is scared? &ldquo;Is she scared of her feelings for me?&rdquo;, you might even ask yourself. If you do, then you might need to first see why she is like this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most girls really do want to be in a <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, having that label is very important. Though, sometimes, the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/fear-of-losing-someone\/\">fear of losing<\/a> the person<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> they love is far greater than the urge to be happy again. Why fall in love if it will also end soon? Why trust and love when you are just giving that person a license to hurt you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understand why she is like this and to start, here are the most <\/span><b>common reasons why she shows signs she likes you but is scared<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She has <\/span><b>been hurt before<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She has<\/span><b> been lied to<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">person she once loved cheated on her<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She <\/span><b>felt used <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and didn&rsquo;t really experience being loved.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She<\/span><b> thinks she is unworthy of true love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <\/span><b>people she loved left her<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs-that-she%E2%80%99s-falling-in-love-but-doesn%E2%80%99t-want-to-get-hurt-again\"><\/span>Signs that she&rsquo;s falling in love but doesn&rsquo;t want to get hurt again<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Any of us can feel scared of getting hurt, especially when we have already felt it once before. It&rsquo;s just that overwhelming fear of falling in love again and showing signs she&rsquo;s into you but afraid to admit it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As men, we, of course, would want to know what the real deal is, right?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is she scared or not interested?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, these clues are so vague that it causes confusion. We don&rsquo;t want to assume that she loves you, but is scared. We want to be sure before we move on to the next step.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> How to know if a girl likes you, but is hiding it?&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She doesn&rsquo;t give you signs that she wants to be your girlfriend, but <\/span><b>she&rsquo;s really not leaving your side<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> either. Confusing? Absolutely!<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\"><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> She may act like the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/perfect-girlfriend-quiz\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">perfect girlfriend<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and she allows you to act like a boyfriend, but you see that <\/span><b>she isn&rsquo;t someone who&rsquo;d want to settle your real score anytime soon<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. She&rsquo;s not playing you; she is just not ready yet.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Do you notice her <\/span><b>being sweet and happy then the next day distant<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? This is one of the realizations that she is having a hard time controlling that she&rsquo;s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/fall-in-love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">falling in love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>She&rsquo;s shy, she&rsquo;s concerned, sweet, and even a little too intimate with you, <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">but somehow, you also see <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">igns she is hiding her feelings for you. These are major signs that she&rsquo;s trying to hold back.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Another major sign she loves you but is scared of being hurt is that <\/span><b>she gets jealous<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Well, who can blame us? It&rsquo;s too confusing sometimes, especially with all the mixed signs that we can sometimes try to just move on &ndash; then <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/make-a-girl-jealous\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">she gets jealous<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> She says she doesn&rsquo;t like you, but you also see that <\/span><b>she&rsquo;s not really entertaining other men <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as well. She goes out with you; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/make-him-feel-special-in-a-long-distance-relationship\/\">makes you feel special<\/a> and all but she&rsquo;s not doing it with other men! She loves you but is afraid to admit it.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>She opens up with her past hurts and breakups<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This is one major give away to you as a man. Understand what she is trying to say when she opens up.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Do you see that she makes efforts? Do you see how <\/span><b>she takes care of you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Actions speak louder than words so you&rsquo;ll know.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A sign a woman is falling in love with you is when<\/span><b> she makes time for you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. She won&rsquo;t do this if she is just needy or being a sweet friend.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10. Lastly, you know she loves you by <\/span><b>the way she looks at you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You just know, the depth of her eyes will tell you&nbsp;she has feelings for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"walls-she-has-built-around-herself\"><\/span>walls she has built around herself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"More-than-just-promises-%E2%80%93-how-to-help-her-overcome-her-fear\"><\/span>More than just promises &ndash; how to help her overcome her fear<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-40846 size-full\" title=\"Help her to overcome fear\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/6-Positive-Thoughts-for-Those-Who-Need-Marriage-Help.jpg\" alt=\"Help her to overcome fear\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She may have shown you the signs she loves you but is scared to admit it. But how do you progress from here? The facts are there, but we all know how it&rsquo;s hard to change her mind, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/7-important-tips-to-build-trust-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">key to gaining her trust<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is to be yourself and to be true.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, it will take time and it will take a lot of effort and patience, but if you are true to her, then she would be all worth these sacrifices. Now that you are familiar with how to know if a girl has feelings for you, the next step is to win her over.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You no longer need to worry if <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/she-doesnt-want-relationship-with-you\/\">she is just playing<\/a> with your emotions or if she loves you but is scared of admitting it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">More than just promises, more than just words, actions would be the best key for her to finally let go of her inhibitions and learn to trust again.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each and every one of us has our reasons why we&rsquo;re not ready to love again &ndash; now we are just all waiting for that special someone to teach us that love is worth all the risk.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/breaking-promises-in-a-relationship\/\"><em>Breaking Promises in a Relationship &ndash; How to Deal With It<\/em><\/a><\/pre>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you one of those guys who think that it&rsquo;s really hard to read what a girl is thinking? Are you currently in a situation where you are confused if the girl you like also has feelings for you or is just too friendly? We don&rsquo;t want to get friend-zoned, right? That&rsquo;s why it&rsquo;s really hard to just assume that you have something going on.&nbsp; Well, to better understand the signs she loves you but is scared and to better read what her actions are telling you, we first have to decipher why she is acting the way she is <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":41672,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2498],"tags":[2579],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41955"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41955"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41955\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":77173,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41955\/revisions\/77173"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/41672"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41955"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41955"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41955"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}