

{"id":41674,"date":"2019-08-27T10:50:04","date_gmt":"2019-08-27T10:50:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=41674"},"modified":"2024-12-19T11:28:13","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T11:28:13","slug":"reasons-why-do-married-people-cheat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/reasons-why-do-married-people-cheat\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Reasons Why Married People Cheat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-79517\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/New-Project-2022-07-27T134429.315.jpg\" alt=\"Unhappy woman looking at couple flirting near bar counter \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do married people cheat? Short answer, because they can. Every relationship is based on mutual love and affection. It is unnecessary to be together 24\/7\/365 and keep track of every little activity your partner does.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Long answer, married people cheat because they want something more than what they have. Infidelity is a choice, and it always has been. Loyal partners do not cheat because they choose not to. It&rsquo;s that simple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, sometimes things lead to cheating without even consciously thinking about it. Further in this article, we will explore why do people cheat and how common cheating is in marriage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why-do-people-cheat-when-happily-married\"><\/span><b>Why do people cheat when happily married?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The reasons why do married people cheat are numerous. However, sexual unhappiness, emotional unavailability, boredom, low self-esteem, a sense of entitlement, and dissatisfaction in marriage are the most common reasons to begin with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may sound like an exaggeration, but marital infidelity puts your entire life on the line. A single mistake can change your life. Divorce will traumatize your children, and it&rsquo;s expensive. If that isn&rsquo;t risking your life, what is?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But many spouses still cheat, if we look at the underlying causes of infidelity, some of them are worth putting your life and marriage at risk, or so cheaters believe.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is-it-common-for-married-couples-to-cheat\"><\/span><b>Is it common for married couples to cheat?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you talk about cheating, a high percentage of people will agree that cheating is wrong, yet many end up straying away from their relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There could be many reasons <\/span><b>why married people cheat<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, ranging from childhood issues, frustration, lack of love to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/how-a-lack-of-physical-intimacy-can-hurt-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of physical connection<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, etc. we will discuss the reasons behind cheating in depth below. Still, first, we need to understand the gender difference in cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are few gender differences. According to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/ifstudies.org\/blog\/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Inter Family Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, men cheat more as they age.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that statistic is deceiving, and the graph increases as people age. That is not likely true. It probably just means people are more honest about extramarital activities when they get older.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/maggie-martinez\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Maggie Martinez<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, a licensed clinical social worker:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">A young person may cheat and not be honest about it with their significant&nbsp;other, possibly due to not seeing the severity of the consequences.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If that study is to be believed, the older people get, the more likely they are a cheating spouse. It also shows that it is more likely that the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/30-experts-explain-reasons-why-men-indulge-in-cheating\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">man is cheating on his wife<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But if you look real close, the cheating husbands statistic jump only past the age of 50. That is menopausal age, and women lose their sex drive during that time, which could explain why married men cheat at that age.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meanwhile, Mel Magazine has a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/melmagazine.com\/en-us\/story\/why-are-millennial-women-cheating-more-than-men\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">different interpretation of the study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. They believe that before the age of 30, wives are more likely to cheat on their husbands. The article gave plenty of examples of why women cheat on their husbands.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The wife cheating on husband trend is likely to increase as more women become empowered, independent, earn more, and step away from traditional gender roles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The feeling of being the &ldquo;superior income-generating partner&rdquo; is one reason why men cheat on their wives. As more women earn their own keep and have less fear of being left behind, the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/physical-signs-your-wife-is-cheating\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">wife infidelity trend<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> becomes more and more apparent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The reasons why married people cheat are the same. However, as more women become self-aware and step away from the &ldquo;kitchen sandwich maker gender role,&rdquo; more women find the same reasons (or rather, the same thought process) valid to commit marital infidelity.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-causes-and-risks-of-why-married-people-cheat\"><\/span><b>5 causes and risks of why married people cheat<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no single reason why married people engage in extramarital affairs. However, some reasons might increase the odds of infidelity in a married relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Usually, both partners are responsible for messing up their marriage, but some individual causes and risks lead to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/what-constitutes-infidelity-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheating in marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Addiction&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a partner is addicted to substance abuse such as alcohol, gambling, drugs, etc., it increases the chances of cheating in marriage. All these addictions might cloud one&rsquo;s judgment, and they might end up crossing the line they might not have crossed if they were sober.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Here is a video that might help you recover bad habits.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-moW9jvvMr4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Childhood trauma<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A person who has been exposed to physical, sexual, or emotional abuse or neglect might have a higher chance of cheating on their partner. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>Maggie Martinez, LCSW, further shares:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>With childhood&nbsp;trauma, the person may feel they are not worthy of a healthy relationship and, therefore, do something like cheat to sabotage it.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having childhood trauma or unresolved issues might make you cheat.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/effects-of-trauma-and-past-family-drama-on-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Childhood Trauma Affects Relationships?<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>3. Mental disorder&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People who have bipolar personalities might end up cheating. People with borderline personality disorder have a dysfunctional personality and might get so self-centered that they might cheat on their partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/mental-health-issues-are-a-deal-breaker-in-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Mental Health Issues Are a Deal Breaker in Marriage?<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>4. A history of cheating&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is a reason people say once a cheater, always a cheater. If your partner has a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/318978801_Once_a_Cheater_Always_a_Cheater_Serial_Infidelity_Across_Subsequent_Relationships\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">history of cheating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on their previous partners, they are highly likely to repeat the history.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Exposure to cheating while growing up&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People who have witnessed infidelity in their childhood have more chances to cheat on their partners. If they have already seen their parents having an extramarital affair are most likely to repeat it in their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Maggie Martinez highlights that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If, as children, we see our parents cheating, we are likely to believe that is normal behavior and carry this pattern into adulthood.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-Reasons-Why-Married-People-Cheat\"><\/span><b>15 Reasons Why Married People Cheat<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating is a dirty business. It is also rewarding and exciting, just like bungee jumping or skydiving. The cheap thrill and memories are worth risking your entire life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.insider.com\/why-people-cheat-2018-7#theyre-just-selfish-8\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">common reasons <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">why do married people cheat.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Self-discovery<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once a person has been married for a while, they start feeling like there&rsquo;s something more in life. They start to look for it outside of their marriage. The thrill of turning a new leaf clouds people&rsquo;s judgment, and they end up making mistakes such as cheating on their partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Fear of aging<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At some point in their lives, married people compare themselves to hearty young people (including their younger selves). They may be tempted to see if there&rsquo;s still juice in them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Boredom<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Been there, done that, with your partner and back. Things start to look boring once everything becomes repetitive and predictable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They say variety is the spice of life, and sharing your life with just one person contradicts that. Once people start to crave something new, it opens the door to infidelity.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-fight-boredom-in-your-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Fight Boredom in your Marriage<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-79516\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/New-Project-2022-07-27T134453.698.jpg\" alt=\"Couple cheating on each other at home \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Misaligned sex drive<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s apparent during the teenage years that some people want sex more than others. It&rsquo;s a biological difference known as libido or sex drive. Something in the human body does crave sex more than others.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you marry someone with a much higher or lower sex drive, your sex life will be unsatisfactory for both parties. Over time, the partner with the higher sex drive will look for sexual gratification elsewhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/reasons-of-no-sex-drive-in-your-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Common Causes of Low Sex Drive in Marriage<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>5. Escapism<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The mundane life of a dead-end job, a mediocre lifestyle, and unremarkable prospects for the future lead to depression, emotional disconnect, and anxiety. Neglecting <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-manage-your-relationship-and-marriage-duties\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marital duties<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> comes shortly after.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just like the self-discovery excuse, people start to look for their &ldquo;place&rdquo; in the world outside of marriage. A delusion based on their broken dreams they never had the courage or grit to work for in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Emotional deprivation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The day-to-day life of juggling child-rearing, career, and chores leave little time for romance. Partners start thinking about what happened to the fun person they married, the person who is always there to support them and have the time to cater to their whims.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They eventually start looking for that missing fun and romance somewhere else. It is the most common reason why do married people cheat.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/are-you-suffering-from-touch-deprivation\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are You Suffering from Touch Deprivation?<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>7. Revenge<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may surprise you, but revenge is one of the more common reasons why people cheat on their partners. It&rsquo;s unavoidable that couples have conflicts and disagreements. Trying to solve it sometimes only makes it worse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ultimately, one partner will decide to lash out their frustrations through infidelity. Either to relieve themselves or to deliberately piss off their partner through cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/why-revenge-cheating-is-not-a-good-idea\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6 Reasons Why Revenge Cheating is Not a Good Idea<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>8. Selfishness<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember a lot of partners cheat because they can? That&rsquo;s because they are selfish bastards\/bitches who want to have their cake and eat it too. They care very little about the damage to their relationship as long as they get to enjoy themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deep inside, most people feel this way but are responsible enough to restrain themselves. Selfish bastards\/bitches feel that the responsible group are just cowards who won&rsquo;t give in to their true desires.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/selfishness-in-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Selfishness in Marriage Is Wrecking Your Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>9. Money<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Money problems can lead to desperation. I don&rsquo;t even mean selling off themselves for cash. It does happen, but not as often to be included in the &ldquo;common reason&rdquo; for cheating. What is common is money problems lead to the other problems mentioned above. It leads to mediocrity, arguments, and emotional disconnect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-79515\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/New-Project-2022-07-27T134518.614.jpg\" alt=\"Man using mobile phone while wife is sleeping \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Self-Esteem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is closely related to the fear of aging. You can consider that reason as a self-esteem issue in itself. Some married people feel tied to their commitments and long to be free.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They might feel they are just living through life without living life. Couples see others enjoying their lives and want the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/self-esteem-makes-successful-relationships\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-Esteem Makes Successful Relationships<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>11. Sex addiction&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people are literally addicted to sex. They have a high sex drive that sometimes doesn&rsquo;t match with their partners, and they end up finding multiple partners to satisfy themselves.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As soon as these people find their married sex life unsatisfactory, they start prying their eyes elsewhere.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Are The Causes of Sex Addiction<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>12. Poor boundaries&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s important to set the proper boundaries with people. You should always know what is acceptable or unacceptable for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People with poor boundaries have a high risk of getting involved in an extramarital affair. Such people might have a problem saying no or rejecting others.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-unhealthy-boundaries\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Signs of Unhealthy Boundaries in Relationships<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>13. Exposure to a lot of porn<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ojp.gov\/ncjrs\/virtual-library\/abstracts\/impact-internet-pornography-marriage-and-family-review-research\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pornography<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has a negative impact on your mental health. If someone&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">has a lot of exposure to pornography, they end up setting unrealistic expectations in their mind.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When these expectations aren&rsquo;t fulfilled within the marriage, they might stray away to find it elsewhere. However, online cheating is also&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6 Proven Tips to Overcoming Porn Addiction Immediately<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>14. Internet&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The role of the internet in extramarital affairs has been downplayed. The internet provides many opportunities to commit infidelity, especially <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/top-10-signs-of-emotional-infidelity\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional infidelity<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is much easier to get acquainted with someone else on a social media platform. Since it doesn&rsquo;t require a lot of effort, online cheating becomes an easy escape as people believe they aren&rsquo;t cheating if they haven&rsquo;t met the person in real life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Obvious opportunities&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When people travel a lot because of their work or any other reason and stay away from their partner a lot, they might think of cheating as a perfect opportunity.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The absence of their partner might lead them to believe that they can hide even if they cheat on their partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-41514 size-full\" title=\"Emotional deprivation\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/6-Essential-Things-to-Do-to-Handle-the-Aftermath-of-a-Bad-Argument-With-Your-Partner.jpg\" alt=\"Emotional deprivation\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway&nbsp;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do people cheat? Those listed above are the most common reasons. Marriage is complicated, yet there is no proper reason to justify why do people cheat.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best way to protect your marriage is to work on your marriage regularly. Keep the communication clear and regular, practice forgiveness, express your physical needs, etc., to ensure your relationship doesn&rsquo;t lose its charm. Keep your marriage happy and satisfactory.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why do married people cheat? Short answer, because they can. Every relationship is based on mutual love and affection. It is unnecessary to be together 24\/7\/365 and keep track of every little activity your partner does. Long answer, married people cheat because they want something more than what they have. Infidelity is a choice, and it always has been. Loyal partners do not cheat because they choose not to. It&rsquo;s that simple. However, sometimes things lead to cheating without even consciously thinking about it. Further in this article, we will explore why do people cheat and how common cheating is <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1419,"featured_media":79517,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[23],"tags":[2689],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41674"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1419"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41674"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41674\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":106501,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41674\/revisions\/106501"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41674"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41674"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41674"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}