

{"id":39122,"date":"2019-06-18T11:11:01","date_gmt":"2019-06-18T11:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=39122"},"modified":"2024-10-30T10:44:18","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T10:44:18","slug":"deal-with-a-jealous-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/deal-with-a-jealous-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Signs of a Jealous Husband and Ways to Deal With Him"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-39124 size-full\" title=\"How to Deal With a Jealous Husband\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/How-to-Deal-With-an-Overly-Jealous-Husband.jpg\" alt=\"How to Deal With a Jealous Husband\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy is the art of counting the other fellow&rsquo;s blessings instead of your own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This quote by Harold E. Hughes perfectly encapsulates the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-blame-game-is-destructive-to-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">destructive nature<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of jealousy, especially in romantic relationships. Subtle hints of jealousy can manifest in various ways, eroding the foundation of love and trust.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think of a husband who frequently questions your friendships or seems overly possessive. Think of situations when you are left feeling guilty for simply enjoying your life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These feelings can indicate that you&rsquo;re facing a jealous husband&rsquo;s problem, which, if unaddressed, can lead to larger issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you wondering how to deal with a jealous husband? Do you feel like your partner&rsquo;s jealousy is consuming your relationship? You&rsquo;re not alone.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/monitor\/feb05\/jealousy\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by the American Psychological Association shows that jealousy can trigger anxiety and resentment, potentially leading to conflicts that chip away at intimacy.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this article, we will explore signs of a jealous husband and offer effective ways to deal with him, ensuring that your relationship can thrive in a healthy, loving environment.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-does-jealousy-affect-relationships\"><\/span><b>How does jealousy affect relationships?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/full\/10.1177\/2158244013476054#:~:text=Research%20shows%20that%20jealousy%20is,approval%2C%20neuroticism%2C%20depression%2C%20and\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> reveal that partners who exhibit jealousy often struggle with trust and communication, making it crucial to recognize these signs early on.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy can cast a long shadow over relationships, often leading to misunderstandings and feelings of insecurity. When &lsquo;my husband is jealous&rsquo;, I notice how <\/span><b>quickly small issues can escalate into major arguments.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s not just about misplaced trust; <\/span><b>it can create a cycle of anxiety and resentment.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The more he questions your friendships or reacts to innocent interactions, the more distant you can feel from him.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This jealous husbands&rsquo; problem can turn everyday moments into minefields, leaving both partners on edge.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moreover, it can stifle open communication and create an emotional chasm. Instead of building connection, <\/span><b>jealousy breeds defensiveness and withdrawal<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You might find myself hesitating to share details of your day or avoiding certain topics altogether, which only deepens the divide.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As these feelings fester, they can undermine the love and trust that once held the relationship together.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-a-relationship-survive-jealousy\"><\/span><b>Can a relationship survive jealousy?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy can be a challenging force in any relationship, but it doesn&rsquo;t necessarily spell the end. Whether a relationship can survive jealousy often depends on how both partners handle it and the underlying causes.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<table><tbody><tr><td><b>Situations where jealousy can be overcome<\/b><\/td>\n<td><b>Situations where jealousy may be too much to handle<\/b><\/td>\n<\/tr><tr><td><b>Willingness to communicate<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: When both partners are open to talking about their feelings and insecurities.<\/span><\/td>\n<td><b>Controlling behavior<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: If jealousy leads to attempts to control, such as monitoring your every move.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr><tr><td><b>Commitment to change<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: When the jealous partner recognizes their behavior and is actively trying to work on it.<\/span><\/td>\n<td><b>Constant accusations<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: If accusations persist despite reassurances, leading to emotional exhaustion.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr><tr><td><b>Therapy and support<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Seeking couples counseling to understand and address the root of jealousy.<\/span><\/td>\n<td><b>Lack of trust<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: When trust is broken beyond repair, and jealousy becomes a constant state of mind.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-causes-a-husband-to-be-jealous\"><\/span><b>What causes a husband to be jealous?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-105371\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/618368312.jpg\" alt=\"Man staring in woman phone \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy in a relationship can often feel like an invisible wall that keeps you from fully connecting with your partner. If you&rsquo;ve ever wondered, &ldquo;Why is my husband so jealous?&rdquo; or &ldquo;Why my husband is very jealous and controlling?&rdquo; it&rsquo;s time to understand the root of jealousy.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy arises often because <\/span><b>he feels insecure about himself<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or his value in the relationship. These insecurities may lead him to question your love and seek constant reassurance.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Previous relationships that ended due to betrayal or infidelity <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can leave lasting scars. If your husband has been hurt in the past, those memories can trigger jealousy in your current relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, jealousy stems from an <\/span><b>overwhelming fear of losing the person they love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This fear can manifest as controlling behaviors or excessive monitoring of your activities, in an attempt to hold onto the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Trust issues<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, whether from past betrayals or current misunderstandings, can make it difficult for him to fully believe in the strength of your bond, leading to jealous tendencies.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7-common-signs-of-a-jealous-husband\"><\/span><b>7 common signs of a jealous husband<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sadly, it&rsquo;s not just the couple who would suffer but also the marriage and the children. While jealousy is a normal emotion as a perceived threat and can be felt by anyone, too much of it will build up damaging patterns that can lead to anxiety and paranoia.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/is-jealousy-healthy-in-a-relationship\/\" title=\"Is Jealousy Healthy in a Relationship\">Is Jealousy Healthy in a Relationship<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s review the signs of an overly jealous husband.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. He wants you all by himself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sure! It&rsquo;s cute to know that your husband wants you all by himself. It&rsquo;s sweet and romantic even but as months pass by and you notice that he won&rsquo;t let you go out or have fun anymore, where he insists that he should be with you every time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This starts to get more than clingy and can already feel that you&rsquo;re his prisoner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. He suspects the worst<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a jealous husband is very hard especially when he is no longer listening to reasons.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When he suspects the worst in you yet never in your wildest dreams have you thought of these situations could ever happen, how can you deal with someone who would accuse you of having an affair with his best friend or your boss?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. He&rsquo;s needy and emotionally dependent<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A jealous husband doesn&rsquo;t only feel jealousy, he can also be needy and emotionally unstable.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He needs your assurance for everything especially to pacify his paranoia. With our busy lifestyle, it can be draining to have to secure your husband emotionally all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/someone-is-in-love-with-you-or-just-emotionally-dependent\/\" title=\"How to Tell If Someone Is in Love with You or Just Emotionally Dependent\">How to Tell If Someone Is in Love with You or Just Emotionally Dependent<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>4. He competes with everyone<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">if you think a jealous husband only thinks of the opposite sex as his competition, then think again. Anyone can make husband jealous and it doesn&rsquo;t matter if it&rsquo;s your parents, your friends, workmates, and even your children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it is more than just jealousy &ndash; it becomes an obsession.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. He deprives you of your privacy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He needs the password of your social media accounts, he needs to know the password on your phone and who you&rsquo;re talking to everyday.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re smiling and chatting, he might as well get your phone and look at it. It&rsquo;s like being observed all the time and being accused of something that you aren&rsquo;t doing.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/privacy-in-a-relationship\/\" title=\"How Much Privacy in a Relationship Is Acceptable?\">How Much Privacy in a Relationship Is Acceptable?<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>6. He constantly questions your whereabouts<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your husband persistently asks where you&rsquo;ve been or whom you&rsquo;ve seen, even after you&rsquo;ve explained, it may indicate a deeper insecurity. While occasional curiosity is natural, constant questioning can feel like an interrogation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. He makes you feel guilty for spending time without him<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does he make you feel bad about spending time with your friends or even taking time to focus on yourself? A jealous husband may <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/cognitivescience\/wp-content\/uploads\/Humeny.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">use guilt as a tool<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to control your actions and keep you close.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-deal-with-a-jealous-husband-7-logical-ways\"><\/span><b>How to deal with a jealous husband: 7 logical ways<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of you who are in this situation would, of course, want to know how to handle a jealous husband, and we all know that this isn&rsquo;t easy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s a good thing that you have decided to take action and not let this go further anymore, as it&rsquo;s not just stressful&mdash;it&rsquo;s toxic and can escalate to abuse, fear, and poor self-esteem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, just how do we start?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Don&rsquo;t get defensive<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&rsquo;re too fed up with your jealous husband, the most common way on how to deal with a jealous husband is to fight back, but it will only look like you&rsquo;re defensive with your own behavior. It will not help the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not let your sentiments get in the way too. Tell your husband to calm down and listen attentively.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of reacting immediately, take a deep breath and try to respond in a calm, reassuring manner to de-escalate tension.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Talk &ndash; open up<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you&rsquo;ve heard your husband&rsquo;s side, ask him about why he is like that. Why does he feel that he&rsquo;s jealous and suspects something that you&rsquo;re not even doing?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allow him to explain his side and acknowledge his points too. If he says he&rsquo;s not comfortable that your workmate wants to chat late at night, then compromise, but make sure that you also know how to set boundaries.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Validate his feelings but make it clear that trust is essential, and the two of you need to work together to rebuild it.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Set boundaries<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Listen and acknowledge the reasons why your husband is threatening you and compromise if needed, but also take this opportunity to set boundaries.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Slowly, explain about letting you have your privacy and trusting you. As long as there isn&rsquo;t any history that can ruin his trust, there&rsquo;s no reason why you can&rsquo;t impose this rule.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make it clear that these boundaries are for the health of both individuals and the relationship as a whole.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Be patient but firm<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing this isn&rsquo;t easy and will take lots of time, but as they say, progress is progress.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There will be times when your effort may seem wasted, but don&rsquo;t give up and be patient. Hold on to your vows and try again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remind him that while change takes time, it&rsquo;s important for both of you to put in equal effort to improve the relationship.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/patience-in-marriage\/\" title=\"10 Easy Ways to Stay Calm and Patient in Marriage\">10 Easy Ways to Stay Calm and Patient in Marriage<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Encourage counseling<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your husband&rsquo;s jealousy starts to affect your mental health or relationship significantly, it may be time to consider professional help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage your husband to join you in seeking couples counseling or therapy. This will help address the root cause of his insecurities and give both of you tools to navigate these issues together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Normalize seeking outside help by emphasizing that counseling is a positive way to grow stronger as a couple.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Focus on self-improvement<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, jealousy can be a sign of feeling insecure about oneself. Encourage your husband to engage in activities or hobbies that make him feel accomplished and self-assured.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Support him in developing his interests and remind him that he is loved for who he is, which can help reduce his jealousy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give genuine compliments that acknowledge his qualities and efforts, helping him feel more valued.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch a psychologist, Dr. Ramani and a hypnotherapist, Grace Smith teach how to turn self sabotage into self improvement in this video:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/wVWAUpfezIA?si=jYZrYtk0AheHc6jc\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Reaffirm your commitment<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consistently reassure your husband of your love and commitment to your relationship. Sometimes jealousy stems from fear of losing you, and a little reassurance can go a long way in calming those fears.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell him that your love and commitment haven&rsquo;t changed, and remind him of the reasons you chose to be with him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make time for regular moments of connection, whether through quality time together, kind words, or small acts of affection, to reinforce your bond.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Keep-the-love-let-go-of-the-jealousy\"><\/span><b>Keep the love, let go of the jealousy<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy might feel like an impossible barrier, but with patience, understanding, and teamwork, it doesn&rsquo;t have to define your relationship. Remember, it&rsquo;s not about pointing fingers&mdash;it&rsquo;s about creating a space where love, trust, and individuality thrive.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&rsquo;re not alone in facing jealous husbands&rsquo; problems; it&rsquo;s a journey many couples experience, and it <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> possible to come out stronger on the other side. The key is consistent effort, open communication, and a willingness to grow together.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your husband is open to it, consider seeking professional help to gain new perspectives and tools for managing these emotions. You deserve a relationship built on trust and respect, so take that first step towards a better future today.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Start addressing jealousy not as an enemy, but as a challenge you can tackle as a team&mdash;one step, one conversation, and one day at a time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-39125 size-full\" title=\"He stalks you and deprives you of your PRIVACY\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/He-stalks-you-and-deprives-you-of-your-PRIVACY.jpg\" alt=\"He stalks you and deprives you of your PRIVACY\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jealousy is the art of counting the other fellow&rsquo;s blessings instead of your own. This quote by Harold E. Hughes perfectly encapsulates the destructive nature of jealousy, especially in romantic relationships. Subtle hints of jealousy can manifest in various ways, eroding the foundation of love and trust.&nbsp; Think of a husband who frequently questions your friendships or seems overly possessive. Think of situations when you are left feeling guilty for simply enjoying your life.&nbsp; These feelings can indicate that you&rsquo;re facing a jealous husband&rsquo;s problem, which, if unaddressed, can lead to larger issues. Are you wondering how to deal with <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1419,"featured_media":39124,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2502],"tags":[2604],"class_list":["post-39122","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-navigating-challenges","tag-fighting-respectfully","has_thumb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39122","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1419"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39122"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39122\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":105372,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39122\/revisions\/105372"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39124"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39122"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39122"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39122"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}