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The New York Times writer, <\/span>Tara Parker-Pope<\/span><\/a> says, “marriage is more fragile than it really is”. <\/span>Researchers<\/span><\/a> estimate nearly 50% of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce. <\/span><\/p>\n But the statistical figure which points out that 50% of marriages end in divorce<\/strong> eventually doesn’t apply to couples today, according to Parker-Pope.<\/span><\/p>\n Yes, relationships are delicate and fragile, they require your attention and care. Marriage problems<\/strong> are just a part of your life<\/strong>, but it doesn’t mean that these marriage issues will lead to breakup and divorce. There are ways to repair your marriage and it is never too late to start afresh if things are breaking apart. <\/span><\/p>\n Let’s cite a real-life situation here – <\/b><\/p>\n “Our marriage has changed. It’s not a particular problem, but it just seems as if we aren’t as happy together anymore. We are talking less, having<\/span><\/i> sex less<\/span><\/i><\/a> often, and it just feels as if we are growing apart. I’m really worried about this – what can I do to fix our marriage before it’s too late?”<\/span><\/i> – Anonymous<\/span><\/p>\n <\/span>Solution – <\/b><\/p>\n This is a great question – and the first thing you should know is that you are not the only one with this problem. This is a common issue and it is completely normal for a married couple to experience points of declining sex and communication. <\/span><\/p>\n But you can repair your marriage<\/strong> and fix the relationship between the two of you.<\/span><\/p>\n Most newlyweds experience a time of bliss during which the brain feels everything is new and sexy. But, over time, this fades and stability and routine can begin to set in. While this next stage of the relationship can be comforting and secure, it can also start to feel dull.<\/span><\/p>\n As most relationships progress, other factors such as careers and children can create fewer moments for good conversation and<\/span> intimacy<\/span><\/a>, leading to marriage difficulties and other issues. You have to start repairing a marriage and work towards rekindling<\/strong> the lost flame of passion<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n Now, the fact that you are already aware of these issues is a great first step in rectifying the situation. You would like something to change. And, to answer your question, ‘can my marriage be saved?’ yes, it can be saved. Both of you have to start working towards repairing a marriage. <\/span><\/p>\n Counseling helps<\/strong>, but therapies often fail to bring the desired result for most marriages. There are alternate ways to save a marriage without the help of a marriage counselor or therapist.<\/span><\/p>\n Here are some tips on how to make that change happen in the absence of professional help.<\/span><\/p>\n How to fix a marriage without counseling<\/b><\/p>\n Fixing a broken marriage is not that difficult. Be sure<\/strong> you and your spouse are both willing<\/strong> to make your relationship<\/strong> a top priority. <\/span><\/p>\n Through in-depth conversation, discuss how you can make this happen. This is one of the best ways to repair your marriage and take back your marriage to where it used to be once. <\/span><\/p>\n Create a free time specifically made for spending time together. <\/span><\/p>\n The weekly date night is a perfect way to accomplish this. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Date night requires time away from children and cell phones. Treat it as a crucial<\/strong>, regular part of your week<\/strong>. Spending quality time together is one way of making your marriage work. In fact, estranged couples can work together as a team to fix their broken marriage, if they really wish to do so. <\/span><\/p>\n So start planning a romantic evening tonight!<\/span><\/p>\n Despite the fact that planning a specific time or date for sex does not seem very romantic or exciting, but it is better than having none. <\/span><\/p>\n There are couples who have been living in a sexless marriage<\/a>. <\/span>Professor Denise A Donnelly<\/span><\/a> estimated that nearly 15% of married couples did not engage in sexual activity with their partners in the last six months to one year.<\/span><\/p>\n A <\/span>sexless marriage<\/span><\/a> is defined as a marriage where there is little or no sexual activity between partners. <\/span><\/p>\n Do you get the feeling like, ‘my marriage is failing?’ Are you finding ways to fix your marriage? <\/span><\/p>\n There is a high probability that a lack of intimacy or sex is one of the problems you are facing in your marriage presently. First, try to identify the root of the matter<\/strong> and then decide ways to repair your marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n And, if sex is the problem, then start planning time for that. Add it to your calendar as something to look forward to. When the day comes, act like you did in your early years of dating when you both wanted to impress each other. Set the mood with dim lights, candles, and music. <\/span><\/p>\n You can also consider dressing up and be seductive for your spouse to add to the fun.<\/span><\/p>\n Greater communication makes way for stronger intimacy<\/b><\/p>\n The above three points are some of the simple ways by which you can repair your marriage without therapy or consulting a counselor. Apart from these methods,<\/span> couples can always<\/span> improve their communication<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/span>1. Make your relationship a priority<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>2. Spend time together<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>3. Plan time for sex<\/span><\/h2>\n
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