

{"id":37362,"date":"2019-04-30T09:32:33","date_gmt":"2019-04-30T09:32:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=37362"},"modified":"2024-07-30T05:05:02","modified_gmt":"2024-07-30T05:05:02","slug":"sanctity-of-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/sanctity-of-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"The Meaning and Importance of Sanctity of Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75152\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/Signs-you-are-ready-for-marriage-3.jpg\" alt=\"couple in love\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you enjoy hearing stories of your parents and grandparents as to how they found their true love and how they got married? Then you may be a firm believer of how sacred marriage is. The sanctity of marriage is viewed as a crucial aspect of one&rsquo;s life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marriage isn&rsquo;t just the unity of two individuals through paper and law but rather a covenant with the Lord.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you do it just right, then you will have a God-fearing married life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Meaning-of-sanctity-of-marriage\"><\/span><b>Meaning of sanctity of marriage<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is sanctity of marriage?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The definition of sanctity of <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" title=\"Marriage means\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-marriage\/\">Marriage means<\/a> how it&rsquo;s viewed by people since the olden days was derived from the holy bible where God himself established the unity of the first man and woman.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to marriage mentor <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/christiana-njoku\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">You cannot discuss marriage in its entirety without mentioning its originator, the foundation on which it is built.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh&rdquo; (Gen. 2:24). Then, God has blessed the first marriage, as we are all familiar with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is the sanctity of marriage according to the bible? Why is marriage considered holy? Jesus did confirm the holiness of marriage in the New Testament with the following words, &ldquo;Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What, therefore, God hath joined together, let not man put apart&rdquo; (Matt. 19:5).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1177\/0265407513486975?journalCode=spra&amp;\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marriage is sacred<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because it&rsquo;s the holy word of God, and he made it clear that marriage is supposed to be holy and should be treated with respect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The sanctity of marriage used to be pure and unconditional. Yes, couples already faced challenges, but divorce wasn&rsquo;t the first thing that would come to their mind.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rather, they would seek each other&rsquo;s help to make things work out and ask the Lord for guidance so that their marriage would be saved. But what about marriage today? Do you still see the sanctity of marriage today in our generation?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The-main-purpose-of-marriage\"><\/span><b>The main purpose of marriage<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-74346\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/couple-marriage.jpg\" alt=\"Heterosexual couple sitting together as woman lovingly touches his face\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that the sanctity of marriage definition is clear, it is also important to understand the main <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/purpose-of-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">purpose of marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today, many young adults would argue why people still want to get married. For some, they might even question the main purpose of marriage because typically, people get married because of stability and security.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marriage is a divine purpose, it has meaning, and it&rsquo;s just right that a man and a woman get married to be pleasurable in the sight of our Lord God. It aims to solidify the union of two people and fulfill another divine purpose &ndash; to have children raised as God-fearing and kind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sadly, the sanctity of marriage has lost its meaning over time and has been changed into a more practical <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/9-tips-to-building-a-stable-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reason for stability<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and weighing of properties and assets.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are still couples who get married because of their <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/10-tips-to-bring-more-love-and-respect-into-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love and respect<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> not just with each other but with God himself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To understand more about the meaning and purpose of marriage, watch this video.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9FzX_VYR5ZQ\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-the-Bible-says-about-the-sanctity-of-marriage\"><\/span><b>What the Bible says about the sanctity of marriage<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you still value the sanctity of marriage and would still want to incorporate it in your relationship and future marriage, then bible verses about the sanctity of marriage will be a great way to remember how our Lord God loves us and his promise to us and our families. Here is what is said about the sanctity of marriage in the bible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.&rdquo;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; Proverbs 18:22<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For our Lord God will never allow us to be alone, God has plans for you and your future. You just have to have faith and a firm responsibility that you are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/am-i-ready-for-a-serious-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ready for a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; Ephesians 5:25-33<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is what our Lord God wants, for married couples to love one another unconditionally, to think like one and be one person dedicated to the teachings of God.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;You shall not commit adultery.&rdquo;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; Exodus 20:14<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One clear rule of marriage &ndash; one should never commit adultery under any circumstances because any <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/what-constitutes-infidelity-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">act of infidelity<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> won&rsquo;t be directed to your spouse but with God. For if you sin to your spouse, you also sin to Him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;What therefore God has joined together; let not man separate.&rdquo;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; Mark 10:9<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That whoever had been joined by the sanctity of marriage act will be as one, and no man can ever be separate them because, in the eyes of our Lord, this man and woman are now one.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, dreaming of that perfect or at the least <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ideas-of-a-perfect-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ideal relationship <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">surrounded by the fear of God? It&rsquo;s possible &ndash; you just have to look for the people who have the same faith as you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A clear understanding of the real meaning of the sanctity of marriage and how God can make your married life meaningful may be one of the purest forms of love not just with one another but also with our Lord God.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Importance-of-sanctity-of-marriage-today\"><\/span><b>Importance of sanctity of marriage today<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why is the sanctity of marriage important? How do you define sanctity of marriage today? Or maybe, the right question is, does the sanctity of marriage still exist? Today, marriage is only for formality.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s a way for couples to show the world that they have their <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/characteristics-of-a-good-partner\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">perfect partners<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and to show the world how beautiful their relationship is. It&rsquo;s just so sad that most couples today decide to get married without the essential bond &ndash; that is, the guidance of the Lord.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Christiana Njoku further says:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A marriage not built on the right foundation and knowledge is bound to fail.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today, anyone can get married even without preparations, and some even do it for fun. They can also now get a divorce anytime they want as long as they have money, and today, it&rsquo;s just sad to see how people use marriage so simply, not having any idea how sacred marriage is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, it just becomes even more important to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kofc.org\/un\/en\/resources\/cis\/cis301.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">preserve the sanctity of marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in today&rsquo;s day and age.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"An-agreed-statement-on-the-sanctity-of-marriage\"><\/span><b>An agreed statement on the sanctity of marriage<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-73419\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Tips-for-catholic-wedding-preparation-2.jpg\" alt=\"Couple exchanging rings at their wedding\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, the agreed statement on the sanctity of marriage talks about its importance in today&rsquo;s world, where lifestyles, changes in culture, and other factors have influenced the sanctity of marriage. You can read the full statement<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usccb.org\/committees\/ecumenical-interreligious-affairs\/agreed-statement-sanctity-marriage\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> here.&nbsp;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The sanctity of marriage is a topic of debate in various societies, especially today. While each religion may define the sanctity of marriage differently, fundamentally the idea is more or less the same. It is essential to understand the sanctity of marriage and its importance. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you enjoy hearing stories of your parents and grandparents as to how they found their true love and how they got married? Then you may be a firm believer of how sacred marriage is. 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