

{"id":37040,"date":"2019-04-22T07:27:43","date_gmt":"2019-04-22T07:27:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=37040"},"modified":"2024-12-23T06:26:27","modified_gmt":"2024-12-23T06:26:27","slug":"signs-of-psychological-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/signs-of-psychological-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Psychological Abuse: Definition, Signs and Symptoms"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-37042 size-full\" title=\"Psychological Abuse &ndash; a Horror Story Behind Closed Doors\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Here-is-a-short-list1.jpg\" alt=\"Psychological Abuse &ndash; a Horror Story Behind Closed Doors\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you hear the word abuse, what&rsquo;s the first word that comes to your mind? You might be acquainted with someone who has experienced domestic abuse. We all know that more than <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/stakeholders\/domestic-violence-statistics\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a million cases of domestic abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are reported yearly, but we don&rsquo;t know that the cases that go unreported are much greater. Especially the cases of abuse behind closed doors.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/grady-shumway\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Grady Shumway<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, a licensed mental health counselor:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Domestic abuse often remains hidden due to fear, shame, or a lack of support, leaving many victims trapped in silence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">It&rsquo;s crucial to promote an environment where individuals feel safe to speak out and seek help.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the most common types of abuse that go unreported is psychological abuse in marriage; it&rsquo;s literally a horror story, and sadly many people who experience psychological violence don&rsquo;t go to the authorities or seek help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Together, let us understand the definition, signs, types, and symptoms of psychological abuse in marriage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-psychological-abuse\"><\/span><b>What is psychological abuse?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By definition, it is any cruel, abusive act that causes mental suffering, the feeling of being powerless, alone, fearful, sad, and depressed in a partner. Psychological abuse can be verbal and non-verbal and is used to create fear and a sense of irrational respect from the victim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What&rsquo;s alarming is that this kind of thing is really common.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yet, only a few people understand what psychological abuse is and how to offer help to a victim if they ever meet someone who experiences this type of abuse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since signs of psychological abuse don&rsquo;t show, such as bruising, we won&rsquo;t immediately see when someone is experiencing it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, the most common reason most cases go unreported is that most victims don&rsquo;t say anything because of fear or that twisted mindset that they must endure the torture for love, family, or whatever reason.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some might say that this kind of abuse isn&rsquo;t as bad as physical abuse, but most experts would argue that psychological abuse is as destructive as any form of abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anyone who has experienced violence will no longer feel safe in their own home or trust any other person, ultimately destroying relationships, self-esteem, faith in humanity, and even how you see yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore, abuse of any form will greatly affect children and how they see the world growing up.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:-<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/psychological-abuse\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Deal with Psychological Abuse in Relationships<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-know-if-you-are-being-abused\"><\/span><b>How to know if you are being abused<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychological <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuse in relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can sometimes be hard to see because most couples today show off how perfect they are in public and on social media.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, some might not even know they are already being abused because it&rsquo;s not so frequent.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But abuse is always like that; before you know it, you&rsquo;re stuck in an abusive relationship. So how do you know if you are being abused?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will know when something&rsquo;s wrong. Abuse always begins after marriage or engagement and may not be so frequent to start.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may take months or years to progress because the reality is; the abuser wants you to depend on them; that&rsquo;s why abuse mostly requires years of being together. As the years&rsquo; pass, the abuse gets worse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From yelling to calling names, from picking a fight to belittling your personality, from swearing to threats &mdash; abuse isn&rsquo;t limited to physical violence only.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs-of-psychological-abuse\"><\/span><b>Signs of psychological abuse<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We may not be familiar with the signs, but once we are, we can be more sensitive toward subtle symptoms of psychological abuse on a friend or loved ones. Sometimes, all the victim needs is a sign that you are willing to help and that there is still hope for them. Let&rsquo;s understand some of the signs of:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being called names like &ldquo;stupid,&rdquo; &ldquo;moron&rdquo; etc.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Frequent yelling<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Constant insults to you, your personality, and even your family<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Living in a life of torment<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uncertainty about when your abuser would strike &ndash; feeling threatened all the time.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Threatening to leave you, won&rsquo;t give you food, or take away your children<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being imitated in a sarcastic way to mock you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Constant bad-mouthing and swearing<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ignoring you and your needs as a person<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isolating you from your friends and family<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bringing back every mistake that you&rsquo;ve made and pointing out how incompetent you are<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comparing you with other people<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Torturing you over and over again using your weaknesses.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><pre><b><i>Related Reading:-<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/signs-you-are-experiencing-emotional-and-mental-abuse\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">50 Signs of Emotional Abuse and Mental Abuse: How to Identify It<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video explaining how gaslighting can manipulate your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iqQMS9c0Qfs\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Effects-of-psychological-abuse\"><\/span><b>Effects of psychological abuse<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The effects of psychological <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/identifying-mental-abuse-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuse in marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> may not be that obvious because there&rsquo;s no physical evidence. Still, once we have a clue, we can easily spot the effects of the psychological trauma of abuse.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No longer shows interest in personal development<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of eye contact<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Loss of interest in fun things<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nervousness with other people<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depression<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoiding the chance to talk things over<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sleep deprivation or too much sleep<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Paranoia<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The feeling of overall helplessness<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of self-esteem<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoiding contact from relatives or friends<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36715 size-full\" title=\"How to know if you are being abused\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Overcoming-Emotional-Trauma-of-Adultery.jpg\" alt=\"How to know if you are being abused\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Types-of-psychological-abuse\"><\/span><b>Types of psychological abuse<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As mentioned repeatedly, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/effects-on-victims\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">psychological abuse symptoms<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are not as visible as physical abuse, so it is important to educate yourself about different types of psychological abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some types of psychological abuse in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intimidation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coercion<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bullying<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ridicule<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humiliation&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gaslighting&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harassment<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Infantilization<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isolation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Silence<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Manipulation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Name-calling and threats<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bad Mouthing<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Examples-of-psychological-abuse\"><\/span><b>Examples of psychological abuse<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As we are discussing psychological abuse in depth, to provide some clarity, here are some examples of psychological abuse that might help you identify it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yelling or swearing at your loved one.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Constantly criticizing and picking on one person.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humiliation someone publicly or hurting their self-esteem.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Constantly blaming someone for your own problems.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Threatening someone to hurt them or leave them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unsuccessful in creating a safe and trustworthy environment for someone.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not being concerned about your loved one and refusing to help anyone but yourself.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><pre><b><i>Related Reading:-<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/what-is-emotional-abuse\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is Emotional Abuse?<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Coping-with-psychological-abuse\"><\/span><b>Coping with psychological abuse<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can cope up with psychological abuse. Not all of us are privileged to express what we feel but to do that, we need a strategy, and here are some ways to help you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Identify the problem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are not talking about psychological abuse but the reason behind it. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Differentiate between healthy and unhealthy behavior<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Don&rsquo;t react to your abuser&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure if you find yourself in a situation where your abuser is gaslighting you, try to avoid giving a reaction. Your reaction is their fuel. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-set-boundaries-with-a-narcissist\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set boundaries<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and be firm in your decisions. Stop giving them a sense of satisfaction by reacting to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Grady Shumway, LMHC, further shares:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>By staying calm and composed, you take away the control your abuser seeks, making it harder for them to manipulate the situation. Setting clear boundaries and focusing on your own well-being is key to protecting yourself emotionally.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>3. Plan&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that you can&rsquo;t really change a person or walk out of the situation immediately. It is best to make a plan, and you need to strategize it wisely. Seek help from trusted friends, family members, neighbors, and legal authorities if needed.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Collect proofs<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your abuser might go back on their words and deny that they have said anything cruel or gaslighted you. It would be best if you kept a record. You can write it down or record a video so that you have proof that it happened.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Try therapy&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people who have been through psychological abuse in marriage feel ashamed of telling others what happened to them as they think that no one would understand.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, it is important to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6479931\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">deal with this trauma<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and it would be best if you could get help from a professional. It will allow you to process your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/emotional-trauma-of-adultery\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional trauma<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and overcome it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can also join a support group, which will allow you to open up since people around you share similar experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/4-benefits-of-marriage-counseling\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The 10 Best Benefits of Marriage Counseling<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final-thought\"><\/span><b>Final thought<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychological abuse examples include swearing and calling you names when you do not meet the abuser&rsquo;s demand or if you say something that hurts their ego. They strike by threatening you that they will leave you or even take away your children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychological abuse tactics include threats of physical abuse, shaming and leaving you, and getting the kids if there are any. These threats are being used because the abuser sees that this is how they can control you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The abuser tends to see your weaknesses and holds you a prisoner with them. They will control you using words to weaken you, and soon you&rsquo;ll believe all these words. Most victims feel isolated and scared, so they don&rsquo;t seek help, but this has to stop.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you know someone or is someone who is experiencing psychological abuse in marriage, know that you are not alone in this battle. You are the one giving power to your abuser, and it has to stop. Call a trusted family member or a therapist and seek help. Don&rsquo;t tolerate abuse, for this will also be the world where your child grows. You always have a choice, so choose to be free.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you hear the word abuse, what&rsquo;s the first word that comes to your mind? You might be acquainted with someone who has experienced domestic abuse. We all know that more than a million cases of domestic abuse are reported yearly, but we don&rsquo;t know that the cases that go unreported are much greater. Especially the cases of abuse behind closed doors. According to Grady Shumway, a licensed mental health counselor: Domestic abuse often remains hidden due to fear, shame, or a lack of support, leaving many victims trapped in silence. 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