

{"id":36924,"date":"2019-04-19T06:02:48","date_gmt":"2019-04-19T06:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=36924"},"modified":"2023-04-13T09:07:12","modified_gmt":"2023-04-13T09:07:12","slug":"interracial-marriage-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/interracial-marriage-problems\/","title":{"rendered":"Interracial Marriage Problems \u2013 5 Major Challenges That Couples Face"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36926 size-full\" title=\"Interracial Marriage Problems &ndash; 5 Major Challenges That Couples Face\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Why-Codependents-Stay-in-Damaging-Relationships.jpg\" alt=\"Interracial Marriage Problems &ndash; 5 Major Challenges That Couples Face\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love is boundless. When you&rsquo;re in love, one&rsquo;s race, religion, and country doesn&rsquo;t matter at all. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s quite easy to say these things today since<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/know-about-interracial-dating\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">interracial marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is quite common. However, decades back, this was considered a disgrace. Marrying someone from a different race was a matter of shame, and it was considered a sin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does the Bible say about interracial marriage? <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In Bible, one can find lines where it says that if both are believers, then marriage across race is not a crime. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This concept has come a long way from being considered harmful to becoming common in the present time. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s have a look at its history and what&rsquo;s the present scenario is in the US.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"History-of-interracial-marriage\"><\/span>History of interracial marriage<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today, interracial marriage statistics say that<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.creditdonkey.com\/interracial-marriage-statistics.html\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">around 17% of married couples<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are interracial. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did you know when was interracial marriage legalized? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was in the year 1967. It was Richard and Mildred Loving who fought for equality and legalized it. Since then, there has been a rise in marital unions across race. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The law supported the couples, but society&rsquo;s acceptance was needed. It&rsquo;s believed that the approval was around 5% during the 1950s, which rose to a whopping 80% by 2000s.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cross-cultural marriages were banned or were not accepted in the society due to the difference in beliefs. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s understandable that when two individuals from different race and beliefs come together, there is a merger of two communities. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With this merger, there will be certain clashes and differences that will emerge, and if they aren&rsquo;t addressed wisely, it may lead to the end of the marriage. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before getting into the problems of inter-cultural marriages, let us have a quick look at the US law and acceptance.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Interracial-marriage-in-the-US\"><\/span>Interracial marriage in the US<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36927 size-full\" title=\"Interracial marriage in the US\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Best-Places-for-Arranging-Your-Wedding-Celebrations-in-2019.jpg\" alt=\"Interracial marriage in the US\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As discussed above, the interracial marriage laws came into existence in the year 1967. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before this, there was an anti-miscegenation law that prevented individuals from marrying someone from a different race. However, there were very few couples who were courageous enough to get married to someone they love irrespective of their race and religion.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite interracial marriage legalized, anti-miscegenation law was revoked, and there still exists some social stigma related to black cross-cultural marriages. However, the intensity is much less now. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are broadly six types of cross-cultural marriages: Asians with White, Black with White, Native Americans with Asians, Asians with Black, Native Americans with White, and Native Americans with Black.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Interracial-marriage-problems\"><\/span>Interracial marriage problems<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The interracial marriage divorce rates are a bit high as compared to the same race divorce rate. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.divorcesource.com\/blog\/interracial-marriage-and-divorce\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;41% whereas the same race divorce rate is 31%.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Though the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/challenges-of-an-interracial-marriage\/\">interracial marriage<\/a> laws by State<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">are in place, there are cultural differences that lead to the separation. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s have a look at a few of them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1-Different-cultural-expectations\"><\/span>1. Different cultural expectations<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In cross-cultural marriage, both the individual are raised in a different environment and have different beliefs. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the time being, one can ignore each other, but soon when they start living together, there are certain cultural expectations. Each of them would want other to respect and follow certain rules. This, if not solved on time, can lead to arguments and later divorce.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2-No-acceptance-from-society\"><\/span>2. No acceptance from society<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The society is used to seeing people of the same race together. However, things are different in the case of cross-cultural marriages. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You both belong to a different race, and it is prominent when you both move out. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People around you, be it your extended family, friends, or even the general public, will find it hard to see through the companionship. For them, yours is a weird match, and it sometime might hit you hard on the face. Hence, you both need to stay strong during such times.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-Communication\"><\/span>3. Communication<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When people from two different races come together, they both face the linguistic problem. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s just not the language that comes as a hurdle, but the expressions and gestures as well. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are certain words and gestures that will have a different interpretation in different languages or regions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4-Compromises\"><\/span>4. Compromises<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compromises are a part of marriage; however, this doubles up in cross-cultural marriages. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In such marriages, both individuals have to adjust and compromise to fit in the family and expectations they have from each of them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Small things, like food and habits, can create unimaginable trouble between both.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-Family-acceptance\"><\/span>5. Family acceptance<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In such marriages, approval of the family members is essential. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the news of marrying someone out of the race emerges, both the families react frantically. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They need to ensure that the decision is right and start eliminating all possible situations that can damage the marriage in the future. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s important for individuals to win their family&rsquo;s confidence and get their approval before getting married. The reason being they will be the first one whom you can reach in case of any problem in future, who would guide you through and will stand next to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These marriages are quite common these days, yet the challenge to accept and adjust remains the same. Both individuals should respect each other&rsquo;s beliefs and cultures and should ensure that their marriage works out.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love is boundless. When you&rsquo;re in love, one&rsquo;s race, religion, and country doesn&rsquo;t matter at all. It&rsquo;s quite easy to say these things today since interracial marriage is quite common. However, decades back, this was considered a disgrace. Marrying someone from a different race was a matter of shame, and it was considered a sin. What does the Bible say about interracial marriage? In Bible, one can find lines where it says that if both are believers, then marriage across race is not a crime. This concept has come a long way from being considered harmful to becoming common in <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1419,"featured_media":36926,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2502],"tags":[2609],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36924"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1419"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36924"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36924\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65216,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36924\/revisions\/65216"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/36926"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36924"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36924"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36924"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}