

{"id":36335,"date":"2019-04-05T06:00:59","date_gmt":"2019-04-05T06:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=36335"},"modified":"2023-04-05T06:00:59","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T06:00:59","slug":"how-to-make-a-girl-fall-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-make-a-girl-fall-for-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make a Girl Fall for You When She Doesn\u2019t Have Feelings for You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36339 size-full\" title=\"How to Make a Girl Fall for You\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/How-to-Make-a-Girl-Fall-for-You.jpg\" alt=\"How to Make a Girl Fall for You\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Telling someone you like them can be a daunting and terrifying experience. Each and every girl has different things they&rsquo;re looking for in a partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to start a relationship with the girl you like but worry that she doesn&rsquo;t feel the same way you have two options. Spill your guts and hope she likes you back or take the necessary steps to get her to fall madly in love with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being &ldquo;friend zoned&rdquo; by someone you are crazy about is one of the most discouraging feelings in the world. That&rsquo;s why we&rsquo;re looking at 7 tips on how to make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1-Find-common-ground\"><\/span>1. Find common ground<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it&rsquo;s true that opposites attract, research shows that s<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1177\/026540759301000205\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hared activities promote relationship satisfaction<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you, you should strive to find common ground with her. What hobbies and interests do you share? Do you hold the same social views?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can&rsquo;t find a connection, don&rsquo;t give up hope! You can easily find common ground by taking an interest in her hobbies and showing her yours. If she plays an instrument, why not ask her to teach you how to play? This is a fun and romantic way to connect with your crush.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2-Take-a-genuine-interest-in-her\"><\/span>2. Take a genuine interest in her<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the biggest relationship tips for how to make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you is to take a genuine interest in her. Really take the time to get to know her by asking open-ended questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask about her life, past relationships, her family, friends, or her goals for the future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Girls can tell if a guy isn&rsquo;t interested in what she&rsquo;s saying, so make sure you&rsquo;re giving her your undivided attention. Nod or interject as she&rsquo;s speaking to show her that you&rsquo;re really listening.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-Work-on-your-friendship\"><\/span>3. Work on your friendship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research indicates that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10902-017-9941-3?error=cookies_not_supported&amp;code=de52ad57-e2e3-4436-8d03-0111b8fccf3d\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couples are happier when they are best friends<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In fact, &ldquo;treating your spouse like your best friend&rdquo; came up in this <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/login.microsoftonline.com\/02f5d965-790b-4b52-9f49-2cd447eb85e1\/saml2?SAMLRequest=fVJdj9owEHy%2FXxHlPV%2BGEGIBUnr0WiQK6KB96Evl2BvOkmNTr0N7%2F76xuao9qb1983pmdjzrBbJeXWgzuCf9CN8HQHcXRT97pZGGq2U8WE0NQ4lUsx6QOk6PzactJWlOL9Y4w42KX5He5jBEsE4a7Umb9TLe795v9x82u298RsiM1201meTzohIApKyquShYVxMQvOy4yGek9cQvYHHUWMajpD8frLlKAXY3zlvGzYDOMiWZjjYanXSDg8h00QPrpXqOjm4QEjAYQBzAY5h2o1hOSJKXSTE55TUtpnQy%2F%2BpR6zEXqZkLE5%2BcuyDNMmXOUqe95Nag6ZzRSmpIuemznHSlqGdlUtV5m0zbkiR1N60TwsV0WkE7L6HIfFLkxXoI8Z3UQurz2%2Bm1NxDSj6fTITnsjycv0fzO9N5oHHqwR7BXyeHz4%2FaPXyY7TM%2FmmrIhDM%2F4DRyvRoWF79CQhl39g7HI%2FgaMhBfKhfrEN%2BuDUZI%2Fh76vB2N75v7%2FlCItQkeKpAtQCj2TqhHCAobF3KpRyvy4t8DcuFVnB4ijbHV3M%2FP6265%2BAQ%3D%3D&amp;RelayState=node%2F1114\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Australian study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on marriage as one of the biggest factors in a relationship&rsquo;s longevity. You can be a good friend by:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A good friend is someone who listens. When your crush is trying to tell you something, offer her your undivided attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Friends care. Ask her how her day is and show her that you respect her opinion.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do nice things for her. Friends love to celebrate their friend&rsquo;s successes and look for little ways to make each other smile.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have her best interest in mind. It can be hard to have her best interest in mind when you have feelings for her because sometimes her best interest might mean not being in a relationship with you at the moment. Show her support in all things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be honest with her. Good friends are honest and trustworthy. This doesn&rsquo;t mean you have to go spilling your guts about being in love with her, but it does mean that you should respect her privacy and keep her secrets. She will appreciate this quality in you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do things together. Great friends have fun together. Plan amazing activities like going on a weekend trip with a group of friends, heading to a museum, movie, concert, or show. Doing fun things (that also border one &lsquo;coupley&rsquo; things) will make it easier for her to picture being in a romantic relationship with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is an underrated but great tip to make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36340 size-full\" title=\"Work on your friendship\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Work-on-your-friendship.png\" alt=\"Work on your friendship\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4-Compliment-her\"><\/span>4. Compliment her<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It should go without saying that if you want to woo the girl of your dreams and get out of the friend zone, you need to make your intentions clear.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One way you can do this is by complimenting her. Tell her she&rsquo;s beautiful, tell her what you appreciate about her, and highlight her positive qualities in a flattering way. She will love the attention and will be touched that you have noticed these things about her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can&rsquo;t wait to express your feelings this is a great way to make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-Make-her-laugh\"><\/span>5. Make her laugh<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men love being funny, and women love to laugh. When it comes to getting a girl to like you, laughter is always the best medicine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies show that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/full\/10.1111\/pere.12095\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">shared laughter<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> makes couples feel more satisfied and supported in their relationship. Not to mention, couples who laugh together are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.semanticscholar.org\/paper\/Sexual-Selection-and-Humor-in-Courtship-Hall\/8346fa7458f5e05e6bde243ec36549b9692f7daa?p2df\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more likely to stay together<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> than those who don&rsquo;t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can get your girl to laugh by playing around, gently teasing her, and forming private &ldquo;inside jokes&rdquo;. This will help you make a personal connection together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making a girl laugh is the way to her heart. This is how you can make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6-Treat-her-special\"><\/span>6. Treat her special<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It should come as no surprise that one of the best love tips for getting your crush to like you back is to treat her like she&rsquo;s something special.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One way you can do this is by flirting with her. Strive to make her laugh, touch her arm, hold her hand, brush her hair out of her face, be sweetly sarcastic or utterly charming around her.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s good to remember that flirting is a talent that should be used carefully. If she sees you flirting with every girl you come across, it&rsquo;s going to make her feel less special when you try and flirt with her. Or she&rsquo;ll think you&rsquo;re just a flirty person in general and won&rsquo;t take you seriously when you&rsquo;re trying to romance her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you-you have to start by flirting to catch her attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7-Take-care-of-your-appearance\"><\/span>7. Take care of your appearance<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It isn&rsquo;t shallow to say that girls want to be attracted to the person they are dating. Therefore, it&rsquo;s important that you take good care of your personal appearance. She wants to be around someone who looks hot and smells great.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting someone to like you doesn&rsquo;t mean you have to become a gym shark or completely change your look, but it would be a good idea to pay special attention to your hygiene. Brush your teeth before hanging out with your crush, shower, shave, style your hair and wear deodorant or cologne if that&rsquo;s something that she likes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To make a girl fall for you when she doesn&rsquo;t have feelings for you, this is the least you could do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can make your crush fall for you by taking a genuine interest in her, being romantic, and building a deep foundation of friendship. If a girl doesn&rsquo;t like you after these amazing tips, odds are you&rsquo;re out of luck and it&rsquo;s time to move on.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Telling someone you like them can be a daunting and terrifying experience. Each and every girl has different things they&rsquo;re looking for in a partner. If you want to start a relationship with the girl you like but worry that she doesn&rsquo;t feel the same way you have two options. Spill your guts and hope she likes you back or take the necessary steps to get her to fall madly in love with you. Being &ldquo;friend zoned&rdquo; by someone you are crazy about is one of the most discouraging feelings in the world. 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