

{"id":3597,"date":"2015-12-12T09:19:21","date_gmt":"2015-12-12T09:19:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=3597"},"modified":"2026-05-04T07:08:09","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T07:08:09","slug":"what-is-relationship-anxiety-and-how-can-you-deal-with-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-relationship-anxiety-and-how-can-you-deal-with-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Anxiety: Causes, Symptoms, Effects &#038; Ways to Deal With It"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72702\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/how-to-overcome-sexual-performance-anxiety.jpg\" alt=\"Couple having arguments and sexual problems in bed\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nimh.nih.gov\/health\/topics\/anxiety-disorders\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> at the beginning of a relationship is pretty common. It can never be wracking to begin a relationship! But what is <\/span><b>relationship anxiety<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Is relationship anxiety normal?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you don&rsquo;t know a person inside out yet and are deciding whether or not you should build a future together, it is only normal to experience new relationship anxiety. What are new <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-do-you-know-you-have-anxiety\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship anxiety symptoms<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Read on to know more.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-relationship-anxiety\"><\/span><b>What is relationship anxiety?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to the relationship anxiety definition, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5177451\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> happens while dating because you wonder whether the person you like so much will turn out the way you hope them to be, and you begin to wonder if you will be able to meet their expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it is common to be nervous when connecting with someone you like, anxiety and relationships aren&rsquo;t mutually exclusive, especially in the initial courting phase. Nor is it a bad thing! Love anxiety, feeling butterflies wings flutter in your stomach make dating exciting and enticing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, there is a negative side to anxiety. When you wonder if<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-anxiety-affect-your-relationship\/\"> <b>anxiety is ruining your relationship<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you&rsquo;re beginning to feel so insecure that you cannot function properly, it may be a sign that you&rsquo;re experiencing negative amounts of relationship anxiety that could impact your relationship&rsquo;s success!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you start doubting your partner and yourself and begin contemplating things like taking a relationship anxiety test, it may be time to get some help managing your thoughts and fears to save your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationship anxiety or relationship stress is a real issue that people struggle with. It isn&rsquo;t just a fear of commitment but actual stress and worry that arises at any relationship stage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This anxiety can hinder love lives no matter how badly the person experiencing the anxiety would like to find love. The worst part is that it can worsen as<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/the-role-of-romance-in-a-relationship-and-its-importance\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a romantic relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> becomes more serious.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The mind is very complicated, and some minds respond negatively to one of the most enjoyable aspects of life: love. Rather than taking in every moment, those with anxiety issues are plagued with worry, fear, doubt, and insecurity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T9pbL3Q6S7Q?si=vv-3ny7nqw29LPYC\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this describes you, you&rsquo;re certainly not alone. You will find the answer to how to get over relationship anxiety in the sections below.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But before jumping on the quest to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-relationship-anxiety-and-how-can-you-deal-with-it\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> deal with relationship anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you must understand the signs, symptoms, and causes of anxiety issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-relationship-anxiety-symptoms\"><\/span><b>15 relationship anxiety symptoms<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are some relationship anxiety signs and symptoms?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those with relationship anxiety can experience a wide range of symptoms that can compromise romantic relationships. Let&rsquo;s go over some of the common symptoms:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Fear of being judged by a partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those with anxiety about marriage and relationships may have <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-in-a-man\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">low self-esteem<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Due to low self-esteem, they fear negative judgment from their partner. Unlike others, perceiving constant negative judgment will take a huge toll on those with this issue.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Fear of being left by a partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This would be the ultimate rejection and intensify fears.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Fear of intimacy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional vulnerability presents a difficulty. Love anxiety symptoms are characterized by a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/what-to-do-if-you-have-a-fear-of-physical-intimacy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> fear of intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Neediness<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always wanting to be around your partner and the need for constant affection.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Causing conflict<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/types-of-conflict\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Causing conflict in the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when everything is going well is a relationship anxiety symptom. This is also called push-pull behavior. After causing conflict, those with anxiety problems encourage closeness. This back and forth often reinforces a person&rsquo;s feelings of anxiety and can further complicate their relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Inappropriate jealousy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is an extreme form of jealousy that goes beyond simply guarding a relationship you cherish. If you are the spouse or you have a spouse with anxiety and anger issues, it could be because of inappropriate jealousy.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-jealousy-in-a-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Signs of Jealousy in a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>7. Feeling compelled to test your partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is done to test a partner&rsquo;s love and commitment. Passing the test serves as reassurance.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Emotional instability<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be increased sadness, impulsivity, irritability, or anger.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/being-emotionally-unstable\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Being Emotionally Unstable Is Damaging Your Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>9. Need for constant reassurance<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those with this type of anxiety need reassurance to ease negative feelings, but the effects are only temporary.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Unnecessary defensiveness<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Negative behaviors may present themselves as a result of overwhelming anxiety.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Anxiety attacks<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety attacks may occur due to being flooded with negative thoughts and emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Socially withdrawn<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Becoming so consumed and concerned with a romantic relationship can cause a person to pull away from others close to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Lack of trust<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The inability to trust a romantic partner is caused by intrusive worries of being betrayed.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/lack-of-trust-in-a-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Handle a Lack of Trust in a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>14. Inability to sleep<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Worry can affect sleep cycles.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Decreased sex drive<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a direct result of the stress caused by anxiety in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are the symptoms that depict how anxiety ruins relationships. They cause cracks in the relationships and eventually destroy everything you have built together.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/reasons-of-no-sex-drive-in-your-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8 Common Causes of Low Sex Drive in Marriage<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-causes-of-relationship-anxiety\"><\/span><b>5 causes of relationship anxiety<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like other forms of anxiety, anxiety associated with relationships has an underlying cause. These could include &ndash;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Bad past relationships<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Someone who has had bad relationships can feel anxious about a new relationship. They may fear that the same things might happen again.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Childhood<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be anything from being hurt in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/negative-experiences-of-the-past-can-affect-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">past relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and going back to childhood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perhaps a lack of affection in the household or a fear of being emotionally vulnerable developed due to being exposed to negative relationships early on.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Trust issues<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Issues like relationship doubts can cause anxiety within a current relationship. Anything from a loss of trust to how two people communicate can also cause problems.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-resolve-trust-issues-in-a-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Resolve Trust Issues in a Relationship &ndash; Expert Advice<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>4. Low self-esteem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a person has self-esteem issues, they can also face relationship anxiety since fears such as not being good enough for their partner or feeling like their partner will leave them can crop up.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/low-self-esteem-in-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> How Low Self Esteem Affects a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>5. Poor communication skills<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are someone with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/top-10-causes-of-relationship-communication-problems\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">poor communication in relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you may face relationship anxiety. You will be unable to tell your partner what you need or how you feel, which can accelerate relationship anxiety.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-effects-of-anxiety-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>5 effects of anxiety in a relationship<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69680\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/separation-anxiety-1.jpg\" alt=\"Separation anxiety in relationships\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How does anxiety in relationships affect the union and the people involved?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stress, doubt, duplicity, worrying, high blood pressure, ill health, and eating too much or too little are just the start of a very long list of what can happen when anxiety enters into a relationship.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once any of these elements are introduced in a relationship, dishonesty, guilt, mistakes, and stress can enter.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your relationship is fairly new or weak, anxiety can doom it, usually sooner rather than later.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The effects of relationship anxiety may include &ndash;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Dependance<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A partner with anxiety may be very dependent on the other half. They may need more <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/ways-to-improve-emotional-support-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional and physical support <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">than someone who does not have anxiety troubles.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Too many questions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A person with relationship anxiety may have many questions all the time. After a while, this can be frustrating for the other partner, and they may find it challenging to cope with it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Resentment<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A person who does not have anxiety may eventually resent their partner for their behavior. While they may understand that it is not something an anxious person can control, it is natural to feel stuck and have difficulty understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/resentment-the-silent-killer-of-your-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognize the Red Flags of Resentment in Your Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>4. Separation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, when one person is anxious in the relationship, the two people may not be able to keep things together, even when they are in love. This can lead to relationship conflict and break up because neither is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/14-ways-to-keep-your-relationship-strong-healthy-and-happy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">happy in the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Isolation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people with anxiety may isolate themselves because they do not want to experience relationship anxiety. They may run away from relationships to keep themselves safe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to deal with someone who has anxiety?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fortunately,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/flaws-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> imperfections in a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be eliminated by taking the necessary steps to improve them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be done by establishing more trust, making sure that both partner&rsquo;s needs are met, making an effort to avoid negative language in the relationship and of course, continually <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/8-tips-to-improve-communication-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">improving<\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, how to stop relationship anxiety? For information on <\/span><b>how to get rid of relationship anxiety<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you need to get help.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-deal-with-anxiety-in-relationships\"><\/span><b>How to deal with anxiety in relationships<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69679\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/separation-anxiety.jpg\" alt=\"Sad Woman hugging pillow sitting on the couch\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to overcome relationship anxiety?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although relationship anxiety disorder is not an official disorder, there is help for those with this problem. The best way to start dealing with anxiety in a relationship is by helping yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You understand yourself the best, so commit to taking time to work on yourself. Many find anxiety reduction strategies helpful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to get over relationship anxiety? One really helpful strategy is plain acceptance. To ease your anxiety, you just have to accept it. By accepting your problem, you become more in tune with your mind and more specifically, your thought cycle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deep breaths, although overlooked, are a great tip for getting through those tough times. Taking a series of deep breaths encourages the body to relax.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another effective strategy for <\/span><b>overcoming relationship anxiety<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is going against your anxiety-filled thoughts. Developing the ability to know when your mind is playing tricks on you is a step in the right direction.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to deal with relationship anxiety? When the negative thoughts start coming in, question the thoughts rather than allowing yourself to be engulfed by them. You need to confide in your partner and let them know that you experience anxiety in relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For a person living with someone with anxiety needs to understand how important giving reassurance in relationships is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those that need additional help with anxiety in a relationship should also consider seeing a professional for<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/cognitive-behavioral-therapy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> therapy for anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final-thoughts\"><\/span><b>Final thoughts<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like anxiety, there is relationship anxiety help available. It can be treated with counseling and, in more extreme cases, medication.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When any form of anxiety begins to interfere with daily life and becomes challenging to manage, never hesitate to get help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationships are tough, and we all have our worries, fears, doubts, and insecurities, but they should never hinder love.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anxiety at the beginning of a relationship is pretty common. It can never be wracking to begin a relationship! But what is relationship anxiety? Is relationship anxiety normal? When you don&rsquo;t know a person inside out yet and are deciding whether or not you should build a future together, it is only normal to experience new relationship anxiety. What are new relationship anxiety symptoms? Read on to know more. What is relationship anxiety? 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