

{"id":34102,"date":"2019-02-12T11:19:19","date_gmt":"2019-02-12T11:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=34102"},"modified":"2026-03-20T04:37:21","modified_gmt":"2026-03-20T04:37:21","slug":"how-to-maintain-a-healthy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-maintain-a-healthy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Maintain a Healthy Relationship and Build a Fulfilling Married Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75366\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/New-Project-2022-02-24T171331.076.jpg\" alt=\"Couple in love\" width=\"805\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-maintain-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Building and maintaining a healthy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can take work and be quite challenging. Thankfully, a relationship can develop and grow as long as both partners are willing to work on it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is true even if the start of the relationship was bumpy. Hence, not setting things right at the very beginning is not insurmountable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the relationship to work, both partners need to maintain and improve their relationship continuously. The answers to &ldquo;how to maintain a healthy married life&rdquo; might differ significantly from one couple to the next.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no universal recipe as no two couples are the same. However, some pieces of advice can be of help to the majority of partners learning how to maintain a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy married life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-a-healthy-relationship\"><\/span><strong>What is a healthy relationship?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A healthy relationship contains a balance of power between both partners. It involves trust, respect, honesty, etc. It takes continuous efforts and compromises from both people to maintain it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When partners respect each other&rsquo;s independence, decisions, privacy, space, and opinions completely, they build a healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>Related Reading:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/top-characteristics-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Top 10 Characteristics of a Healthy Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-makes-a-relationship-healthy\"><\/span><strong>What makes a relationship healthy?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A healthy relationship depends on four important factors: communication, trust, consent, and boundaries. You must be able to communicate everything to each other comfortably.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It helps you build trust and gain enough <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/improve-your-self-confidence-in-the-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">confidence in your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that you both feel comfortable understanding each other&rsquo;s needs.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some characteristics that can help you understand that a healthy relationship is more than feeling or caring for each other.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. You respect each other<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respect is the most important characteristic of a healthy relationship. It helps you overcome most issues as you consider your partner before speaking hurtful words and actions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2.<\/b> <b>You share vulnerability<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are willing to share your heart and most profound feelings, it helps you build a strong <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pre-marriage\/foundations-of-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">foundation of your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Being vulnerable helps you admit what you want from your partner at all stages of life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. You both are empathetic<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Empathy allows you to understand your partner&rsquo;s feelings better. It may not give you the solution to every problem, but when there is mutual empathy, you can be there to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/steps-to-becoming-a-supportive-partner\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">support your partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and understand their point of view.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Watch this video about the power of empathy to know how it can help you build a strong relationship:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/baHrcC8B4WM\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. You are kind to each other<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be as kind to your partner as you want them to be. You both should practice kindness to maintain a healthy married life. Kindness helps you uplift your partner, and that works both ways.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/top-characteristics-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Read this article for in-depth knowledge about characteristics that a healthy relationship needs and build a fulfilling married life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-Tips-to-build-maintain-healthy-relationships-and-marriage\"><\/span><b>15 Tips to build &amp; maintain healthy relationships and marriage<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even the strongest relationships need effort, and without it, a relationship can lose its charm in no time. If you want to know how to maintain a healthy married life or relationship, you need to work on maintaining and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/improve-and-enrich-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">improving the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> constantly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Here are some detailed tips to maintain a healthy relationship.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Put partner&rsquo;s glasses on to understand&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fatal mistake we, as humans, can commit is to assume instead of checking. We think that only because we think about a specific topic in one way, the other is seeing it the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to recall how often you have said, &ldquo;Take me, for example? I would have done it differently.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although that is true, you are not in a relationship with yourself, and the other person you are with has a different thinking process and a view of the world. Their actions stem from their perspective of the issue and life itself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Based on our previous experiences with the world and people, we modify our assumptions accordingly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, if we had a situation where we were betrayed, we are most likely going to try to exercise control to prevent analogous hurt. Without such experience, we might be more open towards others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our thoughts drive our behavior, and they are developed based on our life so far. Therefore, there is a significant chance your partner sees things differently than you are since their life experience was different.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, the first and foremost advice is to try their shoes on for size and check out how it feels.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be that as it may, understanding doesn&rsquo;t mean conforming. It is about figuring out what something means for our partner, not behaving as they would expect us to or how they would act.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>Related Reading:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-true-meaning-of-being-in-a-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The True Meaning of Being in a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>2. Maintain healthy boundaries<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Partners should be capable of compromising and tolerate some of the actions they don&rsquo;t like in the other. However, those should not be the ones they find crucial to remain in a relationship in general. Additionally, they should only expect the other to compromise on items not part of their identity and vice versa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Altering your partner to fit your expectations will merely make your partner unhappy and eventually you too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For starters, you will not respect them since they act as clay, allowing you to reshape them as you desire. Compromise is necessary for a relationship to work, but both partners should not tolerate any identity change requests.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/setting-healthy-boundaries-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Healthy boundaries in a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> help you maintain personal space.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Focus on your change<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We might argue that best is to find a person that doesn&rsquo;t need to change the core things that make us who we are, though to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-make-a-relationship-work\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">make a relationship work<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, some level of adjustment is necessary.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nevertheless, we need to be alright with any change we make about ourselves, and those should not be characteristics that define us. For this reason, a safe road to take is to focus on yourself and your change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you alter your behavior, your partner will have to adjust theirs too. This way, you can accomplish the change you would like to see in others&rsquo; behavior, but you focus on what you can control &ndash; your actions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75365\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/New-Project-2022-02-24T171401.711.jpg\" alt=\"Happy couple having fun\" width=\"805\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Have a wide support system<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you consistently go to your partner to satisfy your needs for comfort, fun, sex, etc.? Are they the sole person you share sadness, worry, and happiness with? If your answer is &ldquo;yes,&rdquo; you might consider expanding your social circle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One person alone can&rsquo;t and should not be the sole provider for our needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even so, there are some needs that we should rely solely on our partner for, such as sex. This is only true for some relationships, though, and it doesn&rsquo;t go for<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-an-open-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> open relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in which partners agree to date multiple people simultaneously.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do we want to have a wider social circle if our partner is excellent in providing what we need? There should be friends that can be there for us when our partner is unable.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No one can be there for us forever<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can try, but in case they can&rsquo;t, you should be able to turn to someone else instead of trying to extort it for your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Demonstrate appreciation instead of taking them for granted<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s face it &ndash; nothing is made to last forever, and everything needs maintenance. An unmanaged house will fall apart after some years. One might argue a house could be repaired for sure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While this might be accurate, the investment required for the repairs could be significantly higher than the one required for routine maintenance. Not to mention the neglect could make it damaged beyond repair. We could say similar goes for relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Express appreciation to your partner as often as you can. We talk about intimate and small actions like breakfast in bed, preparing <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/surprise-your-special-someone\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a romantic surprise<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or buying their favorite candy. Do it as and when you can, but it is also important to do it as often as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, there will be times when you are too tired or stressed to focus on the other. While this is normal, those periods should not last too long. What is considered too long? This depends on you, your partner, and your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/effective-relationship-communication-skills\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communicating that something is consuming your energy and focus away could help them be more patient and provide you with the needed support.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Fight smarter and fight fair<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There will be fights. No relationship is prone to this. Some will be more and some less <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/red-flags-to-take-immediate-note-of\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dangerous to the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you allow yourself to insult your partner and speak out of anger, you are inevitably endangering the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will wound them, and even though you might want to take those words back later, you won&rsquo;t be able to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alternatively, fight smarter by making a &ldquo;fighting break&rdquo; when you notice you are about to say something you will regret.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use this time to call your friend and vent before going back to talk to your partner. This is also one of the reasons you should have other people you can rely on who can calm you down when you are fighting with your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One crucial piece of advice on how to maintain a healthy married life is to remember &ndash; it is you two against the world, not one against the other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Standing together even when you are fighting is one of the primary <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/14-ways-to-keep-your-relationship-strong-healthy-and-happy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keys to a happy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Speak up on time<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should find adequate time and place to communicate when you have something to say.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wishing it away while letting it build-up is not an optimal strategy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of adding strikes, communicate because your partner might not even know they are doing something wrong. They might be willing to compromise and change to improve the situation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Additionally, when you speak up after weeks or months, your partner will feel blind-sighted and probably be unable to recall and &ldquo;defend&rdquo; themselves.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By doing this, you are negating the possibility of explaining why something is happening while it is occurring and correcting it before you start being annoyed.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>Related Reading:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/8-tips-to-improve-communication-in-your-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">20 Ways to Improve Communication in a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>8. Write down your feelings&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, it is best to write your emotions down, especially if you feel overwhelmed about something. It doesn&rsquo;t necessarily mean that you have to write about something terrible, a fight, or your partner&rsquo;s negative points.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to focus on the silver lining and write down positive things. It will help you look beyond the flaws.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Practice saying thank you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you start living together, a regular<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/10-ways-to-show-gratitude-to-your-spouse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> expression of gratitude<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> gets lost as you assume that your partner already knows how grateful you are for everything they do. However, that&rsquo;s not true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It helps to express gratitude regularly to build a strong marriage. It provides a sense of satisfaction.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10.<\/b> <b>Celebrate small things<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be it a small promotion of a new purchase or a new weight goal. Anything that you and your partner achieve, even if it&rsquo;s not that big, please celebrate it together. Make it a rule to appreciate every little thing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People who celebrate good times together have a better chance to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/keys-to-a-healthy-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> maintain a healthy marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75364\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/New-Project-2022-02-24T171435.668.jpg\" alt=\"Gay couple resting on table\" width=\"805\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Have regular conversation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most couples who have different work shifts tend to drift apart because they don&rsquo;t have enough time to sit down and communicate about their day or anything related to their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make a rule to eat at least one meal together and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/317333240_Communication_in_Personal_Relationships\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communicate for 15 minutes everyday<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even if it&rsquo;s raining fire in your work universe. When people take a day or two off of their communication with their partner, they slowly grow apart as it feels too much to start a conversation after a gap.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure that you don&rsquo;t let that communication gap come between you and your partner, and you regularly communicate about all the essential and personal information.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Ditch your phone&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the best <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/15-key-secrets-to-a-successful-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tips for a successful marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is not letting your phone become the third wheel in your relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would be best to avoid being on your phone around your partner as it divides your focus and narrows your chances of having a meaningful conversation or making an impactful memory.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are around your phone, your partner will slowly start to think that you are more attached to your phone than them. It can impact your relationship negatively.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Plan regular dates<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what if you have been together for years? To maintain a marriage, you have to put in some genuine efforts. It would be best if you plan two dates a month. You both can choose a place of your choice of one date each.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, it would be best to rule that no office or household conversations will be a part of this date. It would give you a needed break from your regular life and make you both feel like lovers.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>Related Reading:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/importance-of-date-night-in-a-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Importance of Date Night in a Marriage and Tips to Make It Happen<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>14. Hang out with each other&rsquo;s friends<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To make a marriage work, you also have to accept the people in your partner&rsquo;s life. Include each other&rsquo;s friends on special occasions and make sure you attend to them. Build a comfortable environment so that your partner feels comfortable with you around them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Sleep together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In 2014, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2014\/04\/140415203702.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a study by University of Hertfordshire psychologist Professor Richard Wiseman stated that people who sleep together have a higher relationship satisfaction rate<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> than people who sleep apart.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sleeping together is not hard to make a marriage work? A bit of spooning is one of the answers to how to maintain a healthy married life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s given that to make a relationship work or build a strong-healthy marriage, and you have to compromise every day. However, the satisfaction it brings is worth all the effort.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Follow the above tips, and if you still can&rsquo;t get on track, you can always opt for professional help. You can visit a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">therapist <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/marriage-courses\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">take a marriage course<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to make it better. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Building and maintaining a healthy relationship can take work and be quite challenging. Thankfully, a relationship can develop and grow as long as both partners are willing to work on it.&nbsp; This is true even if the start of the relationship was bumpy. Hence, not setting things right at the very beginning is not insurmountable. For the relationship to work, both partners need to maintain and improve their relationship continuously. The answers to &ldquo;how to maintain a healthy married life&rdquo; might differ significantly from one couple to the next.&nbsp; There is no universal recipe as no two couples are the <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1419,"featured_media":75366,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2502],"tags":[2603],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34102"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1419"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34102"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34102\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":118544,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34102\/revisions\/118544"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75366"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}