{"id":33235,"date":"2019-01-25T04:35:33","date_gmt":"2019-01-25T04:35:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=33235"},"modified":"2024-11-17T04:40:38","modified_gmt":"2024-11-17T04:40:38","slug":"loving-two-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/loving-two-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Is It Possible to Love Two People at the Same Time?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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It’s fairly common to have two people in love with you at the same time but is loving two people at the same time possible? Can you have feelings for more than one person? Or is it possible to love two people at the same time?<\/span><\/p>\n

Or does a person who loves two people have to eventually abandon one person in favor of the other? If a person does fall for two people at once, are they failing to fulfill their ‘loved ones’ needs?   <\/span><\/p>\n

While society, in general, will naturally fall to a conditioned answer of ‘No’, it is understandable to expect a black-and-white response to this question.<\/span><\/p>\n

Love seems to be something that can’t be boxed into a specific action or feeling.  There are so many counter-arguments why it’s acceptable as well. So there is no definite answer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Keep on reading to find out more in this regard and why we can’t have a definite conclusion about being in love with two people at the same time.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>How do we define loving two people at the same time?<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Is it possible to be in love with two people? Can you be in love with more than one person?<\/span><\/p>\n

Some people will say that even loving two people without any physical connection is wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

But others will believe that <\/span>feeling an emotion is nothing compared to spending time with somebody physically, which means that from the offset the boundaries that define loving two people are vague and will be different depending on your beliefs. <\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

So, I love a limited resource?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you argue that falling in love with two people at once will lower the attention and connection that is experienced by the committed partner, are you implying that love is limited?  Limited in the same way that time or money is?<\/span><\/p>\n

Isn’t it possible that if one person loves two people then they can have unlimited love for both of them?  <\/span><\/p>\n

It seems that it is possible to love more than one person equally at once, especially since you can love more than one child or friend simultaneously.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

Although if a person spends <\/span>physical time<\/span><\/a> with the two people they love, then that might suggest that one lover or the other is going to miss out on some attention.  <\/span><\/p>\n

This question alone circles us right back to the first question, so that we may assess it with the context of time as a limited resource but love as being unlimited.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Does that change your perspective on how you define loving two people? Whether it does or does not, this is an example of the changing nature and rabbit hole that the argument for falling in love with two people at once can present.  <\/span><\/p>\n

RELATED READING : <\/span>10 Key Points of Love Compatibility<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n

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<\/span>5 facts about loving two different people simultaneously<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Now that we somewhat have an understanding of “Is it possible to love two people at the same time?” let’s discuss this situation further. <\/span><\/p>\n

Loving two different people simultaneously can be a complex and challenging situation. Here are five important facts to consider:<\/span><\/p>\n