

{"id":3250,"date":"2015-11-26T04:48:03","date_gmt":"2015-11-26T04:48:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=3250"},"modified":"2026-03-20T06:36:32","modified_gmt":"2026-03-20T06:36:32","slug":"overcoming-marriage-problems-during-pregnancy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/overcoming-marriage-problems-during-pregnancy\/","title":{"rendered":"Overcoming the 3 Most Common Marriage Problems During Pregnancy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3252 size-full\" title=\"Marriage Problems During Pregnancy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/ovrcmng-probs-in-pregnncy.jpg\" alt=\"Marriage Problems During Pregnancy\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who needs <\/span><b>marital problems during pregnancy<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Preparing to be responsible for human life is enough to handle. When there are problems, they must be addressed immediately. Situations are not always ideal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those who find themselves expecting a child and facing marital issues or pregnant and unhappy in a relationship usually have no idea what to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They put the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pregnancy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> at the top of the list and try to avoid the problems in marriage like the plague.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is an understandable response but is not the way to handle marriage difficulties. Taking a passive approach to relationship stress during pregnancy will only hurt the relationship. Leaving them to fester allows them to grow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The conflict and tension have to be removed from the marriage so once the baby arrives, the focus can be put on being amazing parents and maintaining a happy marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Most common marriage problems during pregnancy<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a lot of <\/span><b>marriage struggles and pregnancy problems<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that can arise during pregnancy. If you are reading this, you are probably facing at least one and looking for a solution to maintain that strong marital bond.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of the most common relationship problems while pregnant are lack of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, distance, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> troubles. They are relationship stressors but these issues can be resolved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step to overcoming the knowledge of relationship issues during pregnancy and pinpointing how they came about.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li><b> Lack of communication<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of Communication happens gradually and many couples don&rsquo;t even realize it is happening. This relationship problem during pregnancy is common because there is a lot to think about at the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is easy for expectant parents to feel overwhelmed and stressed. As stated, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/4-circumstances-that-can-lead-to-communication-breakdown-in-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communication breakdown<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is gradual.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spouses may notice more arguing than usual, not being on the same page as often, more tension in the household and the flow just isn&rsquo;t the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This happens when spouses fail to address the little problems and allow frustrations to build over time.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\"><li><b> Distance<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Distance is often caused by one of two things. These two culprits are lack of communication and failing to meet each other&rsquo;s needs. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/3-reasons-why-a-lack-of-communication-in-marriage-can-be-detrimental\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Failing to communicate effectively<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> causes distance<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by adding fuel to the fire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That gasoline is composed of unresolved issues, questions, frustration, and misunderstandings. Fortunately, these elements can be cleared up if both parties take the steps to effectively communicate in a healthy manner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A cycle of negative patterns yields a negative outcome. As for need fulfillment, when emotional, intellectual and physical needs are not met, partners will start to drift. Dissatisfaction is kryptonite to a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s be honest, a peck in the morning, talking about baby 24\/7 and the usual, &ldquo;How was your day?&rdquo; isn&rsquo;t going to cut it.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\"><li><b> Intimacy<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical intimacy is also on the list of common <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/overcome-intimacy-problems-during-pregnancy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marriage problems during pregnancy.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Likely causes include existing tension between spouses as well as feeling undesirable and in some cases, fear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all know that intimacy goes out of the window when communication is compromised and couples become distant. That is a given, but pregnancy throws other curveballs. One of those curveballs is insecurity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a woman&rsquo;s body changes and her tummy grows, she can start to feel undesirable. Men may also avoid intimacy due to a fear of hurting the baby. All reasons are understandable but <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/role-of-passion\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couples must maintain the passion<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex is how mates stay physically and emotionally connected.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-23826 size-full\" title=\"Most common marriage problems during pregnancy\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Why-Do-Relationships-Fall-Apart-During-Pregnancy.jpg\" alt=\"Most common marriage problems during pregnancy\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2>Resolving these common marriage problems during pregnancy<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Notice the pattern? Being <\/span><b>pregnant and depressed about a relationship <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">really has a domino effect. Fortunately, couples can stop these issues in their tracks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Lack of Communication<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fixing communication requires time, understanding and support. When you notice that something isn&rsquo;t right, just ask. A simple, &ldquo;Honey, what is wrong?&rdquo; can lead to new insight. Otherwise, you will never really know.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Devote time to identify what isn&rsquo;t working and talk about it. Talking about problems seems easy enough but is often the hardest part. This is where understanding and support come in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talking openly and honestly requires a safe environment. Create an environment for openness and honesty and start displaying yourself and viewing your partner as a confidant.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To achieve that dynamic, work on trust and understanding. Do this by opening up your ears, suppressing the urge to argue and considering your partner&rsquo;s feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These small edits in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/communication-habits\/\">communication habits<\/a> break down walls by making sure that both parties are heard, understood and feel supported. There is no better time than pregnancy to become more understanding and supportive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Distance<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/top-10-causes-of-relationship-communication-problems\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Resolving communication issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will bridge the gap but learning how to fulfill your partner&rsquo;s needs again will add titanium supports to that bridge. Fulfilling needs is really quite easy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For emotional needs, start tapping into your spouse&rsquo;s heart again. Couples tend to put less effort into doing sweet things for one another as time goes by.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make your mate a priority and start verbally expressing your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on a regular basis. In addition to that, hold hands, be more affectionate and go out of your way to do something nice just because you&rsquo;re crazy about him\/her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you are expecting a child or are 90 years old, this should never stop.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intellectual stimulation is also crucial. Share something about that book you just read, discuss the film you watched a few nights ago, talk current events, politics or crack a joke.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is something so special about never knowing what witty thing your spouse is going to say next or how they will inspire you. A partner that will make you think is a keeper.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Intimacy<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Solving the above <\/span><b>relationship breakdown during pregnancy<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> establishes a united front and will successfully draw husband and wife closer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once the heart and mind are addressed, it is time to translate the love into the bedroom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Women struggling with adjusting to their new bodies should work with their husbands to maintain their sexuality. The best way to start is with exercise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pregnant women that consistently make an effort to do things that make them feel good will successfully boost their self-esteem. Commit to a fitness plan and take in the positive effects it has on both body and mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Along with exercise, highlight your good assets, treat yourself to a spa day or do a little maternal lingerie shopping. All three can make a woman feel gorgeous.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Husbands can also be a huge help by vocally and physically expressing their desire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If fear of hurting the baby is the cause of your intimacy problems, talk to your doctor. A doctor can address any concerns from a medical standpoint and provide advice for safe pregnancy sex.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intimacy and closeness should not be compromised due to pregnancy. After resolving the cause of intimacy issues, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/rekindle-intimacy-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">improve your sex life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by being more giving and open-minded.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A pregnancy gives couples an excuse to get creative and try new things. Focus on your partner&rsquo;s needs rather than your own to promote that much needed physical closeness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples that need some additional help should <\/span><b>consider seeing a marriage counselor.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> With marriage <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pregnancy couples may be able to address the challenges that arise in the relationship more successfully.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A third party can do a lot of good and stop couples from always having pregnancy-related marriage problems.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who needs marital problems during pregnancy? Preparing to be responsible for human life is enough to handle. When there are problems, they must be addressed immediately. Situations are not always ideal. Those who find themselves expecting a child and facing marital issues or pregnant and unhappy in a relationship usually have no idea what to do. They put the pregnancy at the top of the list and try to avoid the problems in marriage like the plague. It is an understandable response but is not the way to handle marriage difficulties. Taking a passive approach to relationship stress during pregnancy <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":630,"featured_media":3252,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[38],"tags":[2657],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3250"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/630"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3250"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3250\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":118593,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3250\/revisions\/118593"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3252"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3250"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3250"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3250"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}