

{"id":3075,"date":"2015-11-17T10:19:39","date_gmt":"2015-11-17T10:19:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=3075"},"modified":"2022-10-16T04:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-10-16T04:01:13","slug":"how-to-deal-with-pregnancy-in-a-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/how-to-deal-with-pregnancy-in-a-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Learn How to Deal With Pregnancy in a Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3077 size-full\" title=\"How to deal with pregnancy in a marriage\" src=\"http:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/how-to-deal-with-pregnncy.jpg\" alt=\"How to deal with pregnancy in a marriage\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><b>Expecting a new addition<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/family\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">family<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is exciting. It is a <\/span><b>milestone in any marriage<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Yet, any regular<\/span><b> couple finds it really hard<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to <\/span><b>deal with pregnancy in a marriage<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5914250\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Health issues such as anxiety disorders<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> during pregnancy are pretty standard. For most expecting mothers, <\/span><b>pregnancy can fill them up with confusion<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, fear, sadness, anxiety, stress, and even depression.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Such <\/span><b>frequent mood swings<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of the young mothers can<\/span><b> disrupt the mental health and wellbeing of each individual <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/problems-you-may-experience-during-pregnancy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">impact negatively<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on their marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Also, read &ndash; <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/how-can-husbands-handle-their-wifes-pregnancy-cravings\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Husbands handle their wives; pregnancy cravings<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, <\/span><b>getting pregnant early<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can<\/span><b> trigger feelings of insecurity<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in young mothers, which only proper <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4610665\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communication skills<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can smartly waive off.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But looking at the brighter side of the picture, <\/span><b>building a family together<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is by far one of the <\/span><b>most amazing things to experience<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with another person.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although wonderful, <\/span><b>expecting a child<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is also <\/span><b>challenging<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Couples having a baby are filled with worry. They want to be great parents, keep the baby safe, and fully prepare for his\/her arrival.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But&hellip;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pregnancy and marriage can result in relationship tension.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/stressful-relationship-during-pregnancy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tension<\/span><\/a><b> is quite common<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, especially when you have to deal with pregnancy in a marriage, but when you&rsquo;re expecting a child, that should be the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/this-is-how-pregnancy-brings-couples-together\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">time to come together<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Things-to-consider-before-having-a-child\"><\/span>Things to consider before having a child<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-16028 size-full\" title=\"Things to consider before having a child\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/woman-thinking-with-hand-on-chin.jpg\" alt=\"Things to consider before having a child\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/With_great_power_comes_great_responsibility\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With great power comes great responsibility<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,&rdquo; a famous quote\/advice given by Ben Parker to young Spiderman speaks volumes about the responsibility which soon-to-be parents have to shoulder.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Becoming a mother<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is nothing short of <\/span><b>assuming the role of a super-woman<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. But, the question is, are you ready to deal with pregnancy in a marriage? Elders say that after the age of thirty, the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5264372\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chances of getting pregnant decrease for women<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Also, read &ndash; <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Surprise pregnancy at 40<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.urmc.rochester.edu\/encyclopedia\/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=90&amp;ContentID=P02481\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The chances of miscarriage, birth defects, and other adverse health issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> increase in expecting older mothers.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, getting <\/span><b>pregnant early<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a relationship can <\/span><b>create a rift between the pair<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, resulting in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/6-reasons-to-rethink-divorce-during-pregnancy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">divorce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, at times.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, there are many things to consider before having a baby. So, don&rsquo;t let your mother&rsquo;s warnings get onto your nerves. You can stay rest assured that your time to become a mother is not running out. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2017&rsquo;s study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> shows birth rates are highest for women aged 30-34.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, before you start thinking about having a baby, you might as well rethink about the following points &ndash;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you completed your education?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you financially secure?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you physically\/mentally fit to become a mother?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you ready to deal with pregnancy in a marriage?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you still have some living to do?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Answers to the above question will explain why you should wait to have a baby.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you are a hundred percent sure that you are ready to become a mother, you have to <\/span><b>start making preparations<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to <\/span><b>enter the next phase<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of your life, i.e., <\/span><b>motherhood<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And the first step towards motherhood is to <\/span><b>start babyproofing your marriage<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and prepare yourself accordingly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-prepare-your-marriage-for-pregnancy\"><\/span>How to prepare your marriage for pregnancy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Search for &ldquo;preparing for your pregnancy&rdquo; and you will discover that there&rsquo;s tons of advice out there. <\/span><b>Variety is nice,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but prepping your marriage for a baby is best kept simple.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First, you have to go in knowing that there will be a few minor problems (pregnancy can have that effect). You are bringing a life into the world! <\/span><b>Men and women respond differently<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to the news of becoming parents.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a woman learns she has a baby on the way, <\/span><b>she immediately goes into mommy mode <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">while <\/span><b>men want to provide<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and start taking a closer look at finances as a result.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Also, read &ndash; <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/the-important-role-of-fathers-during-pregnancy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The important role of fathers during pregnancy<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;In order to prepare your marriage, commit to talking whenever someone has a concern, <\/span><b>spend quality time together<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>work together as a team,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and make it a point to <\/span><b>keep things romantic<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes growing <\/span><b>parental instincts causes the romance to fizzle<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Go on dates, take time out of every day to talk, and do things for the baby together like decorating the nursery, just to ease out the tension that arises when you have to deal with pregnancy in a marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Marriage-problems-during-pregnancy\"><\/span>Marriage problems during pregnancy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-24190 size-full\" title=\"Marriage problems during pregnancy\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/There-are-many-effects-a-pregnancy-might-have-on-someone%E2%80%99s-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"Marriage problems during pregnancy\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life can go all wonky and wobbly when you have to deal with pregnancy in a marriage. And, you thought &lsquo;becoming a mother&rsquo; was difficult?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are some instances in which preexisting marriage problems carry on over into the pregnancy stage. Of course, the situation isn&rsquo;t ideal, but <\/span><b>marriage problems<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> during pregnancy <\/span><b>have to be addressed<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as soon as possible.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a couple is waiting to have a baby, it is important for them to come together for the sake of the marriage and the child. You can put things back in order after a heated conversation with your partner or avert the whole nasty episode from spiraling out of control by taking the necessary precautions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, this is a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/marriage-and-pregnancy-how-pregnancy-changes-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">time to <\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> life, not argue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have to deal with pregnancy in a marriage like a pro, then consider the following points:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Start a conversation &ndash;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Resolve any issues and ease tensions by starting a conversation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Honest &ndash; <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be honest and tell your spouse what is bothering you and then encourage them to do the same.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Fix the problem immediately &ndash; <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once the root of the problem has been exposed, fix it.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Plan a course of action &ndash; <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come up with a plan of action together, commit to it, and work until a resolution is reached.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Also watch: First-time dad tips during pregnancy.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Before-having-a-baby-%E2%80%93-THINK-LEARN\"><\/span>Before having a baby &ndash; THINK &amp; LEARN!!!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4o_OxYxar04\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is <\/span><b>not hard to deal with pregnancy<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a marriage. The responsibility to nurture an infant lies with both the parents. Not only mothers, but the child&rsquo;s <\/span><b>father also must adjust their lifestyle<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and commit to taking care of the newborn together with his wife as a team.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, do not pretend to be the &lsquo;selfish husband&rsquo; during pregnancy, and instead, fight shoulder-to-shoulder with your wife to work on your marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s face it; <\/span><b>every marriage has a few problems<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. But, learning how to deal with pregnancy in a marriage can help you through this challenging phase of life. It is <\/span><b>entirely up to you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and your partner to <\/span><b>secure the foundation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Expecting a new addition to the family is exciting. It is a milestone in any marriage. Yet, any regular couple finds it really hard to deal with pregnancy in a marriage.&nbsp; Health issues such as anxiety disorders during pregnancy are pretty standard. For most expecting mothers, pregnancy can fill them up with confusion, fear, sadness, anxiety, stress, and even depression.&nbsp; Such frequent mood swings of the young mothers can disrupt the mental health and wellbeing of each individual and impact negatively on their marriage. Also, read &ndash; Husbands handle their wives; pregnancy cravings Now, getting pregnant early in a relationship <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":3077,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[38],"tags":[2657],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3075"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3075"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3075\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":56006,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3075\/revisions\/56006"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3077"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3075"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3075"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}