

{"id":30517,"date":"2018-12-04T05:28:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-04T05:28:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=30517"},"modified":"2024-01-30T09:08:36","modified_gmt":"2024-01-30T09:08:36","slug":"stop-dating-married-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/stop-dating-married-man\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Stop Dating a Married Man: 15 Effective Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-30520 size-full\" title=\"How to Stop Dating a Married Man 5 Tips to End the Toxic Relationship\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/How-to-Stop-Dating-a-Married-Man-5-Tips-to-End-the-Toxic-Relationship.jpg\" alt=\"How to Stop Dating a Married Man 5 Tips to End the Toxic Relationship\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Men&rsquo;s minds are raised to the level of the women with whom they associate.&rdquo;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &mdash; Alexandre Dumas Pere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Women, in general, are more mature than men falling within the same age bracket. But, when it comes to relationships, people normally say that age is just a number.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The whole idea of dating an older, mature, and experienced man can be exhilarating for many women.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you may have second thoughts after you begin dating a married man. Keep reading this article for information on how to stop dating a married man and other details you may be interested in learning more about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The idea of dating an experienced married man may be quite alluring<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Believe it or not, the undeniable charm and maturity an experienced and aged person brings with him is often irresistible. And if he turns out to be married, it is just the extra icing on the cake.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A married person may be more experienced than a single man and could possess a bundle of ideas to entice a woman and satisfy her needs.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The very thought of committing oneself to an immoral act often excites young women to their core. So, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/what-constitutes-infidelity-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">acts of infidelity<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and affairs beyond holy matrimony are not unheard of. In fact, they can occur for a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/33377428\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">number of reasons<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;and last long-term or short-term, depending on the reasons the affair started in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing the cold, hard truth and the unavoidable <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-a-toxic-relationship-and-its-common-types\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aftermath of such toxic relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, young women might look for every excuse under the sun to justify their judgment call.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is nothing wrong with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-express-your-love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">expressing your love for a person<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. But, if you have to be completely hush-hush about the whole affair, knowing that the slightest hint of the existence of the relationship can completely ruin a family, steering yourself away from such a relationship is the wise thing to do. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-on-how-to-end-a-dead-end-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stepping out of relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is not easy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are emotionally attached to a married man, you are already experiencing a great deal of uncertainty and suffering from emotional turmoil. Riding the roller-coaster ride is likely to take a toll on your health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every time you try to take a stand for yourself, your love for him and the thought of a happy ending deters you from stepping away from the affair.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He may present you with a bundle of excuses, woo you with his teary eyes, and manipulate you to stay back with his irresistible charm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In reality, he is another woman&rsquo;s husband and will likely choose his family over his mistress. Despite the incivility of the term &lsquo;mistress,&rsquo; the fact remains unchanged, and you should be aware of this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Watch this video for advice on how to know whether you are dating the right person:<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2fmL9Vt8w8A\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-stop-dating-a-married-man-15-crucial-tips\"><\/span><b>How to stop dating a married man: 15 crucial tips<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to how to stop dating a married man, it may be obscure what you need to do. However, here are 15 tips that might help you when you are confused about how to end a relationship with a married man.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Look out for the hidden hints in his words and expressions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Illicit affairs are built on a bed of lies, and they start pricking you as days go by. Try to look for those messages and hidden hints behind his sugar-coated words.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Study his expressions and body language as well. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/fremont.edu\/how-to-read-body-language-revealing-the-secrets-behind-common-nonverbal-cues\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Body language<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and facial expression often convey messages contrary to what the words reveal.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, if he cannot look you in the eye, he may be lying to you. The more you catch his lies, the more you will likely grow out of the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Understand &lsquo;once a cheater, always a cheater!&rsquo;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&lsquo;Cheating is a choice, not a mistake,&rsquo; and as the point states, once a cheater, a person will always <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5709195\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">remain a cheater<\/a>. Your lover has cheated on his wife to maintain this <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unhealthy relationship with you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to&nbsp;<\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/mert-eker\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Psychologist Mert &#350;eker<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">The feeling of trust is a feeling that is difficult to return once lost. Additionally, trust is essential for a romantic relationship to be a healthy and productive one. Your relationship with a man who cheats on his wife with you might not be long-term, as it is built on distrust from the very beginning.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is quite likely your man can deceive you for someone else. This should be a red flag for you. It also allows you to consider your options and what you want and deserve from a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Scare him with news of your pregnancy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may be quite evident from his behavior that your man is not picturing a future with you. Otherwise, he would never keep the affair all hushed up and under wraps. Also, the fact that there is no planning for the future from his end, apart from endless and baseless excuses, can affirm your doubt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If giving up on the relationship is not your style, then scare him with news of your pregnancy. His reaction will define your exact position in his life. He may suggest a number of things or try to end the relationship on his own terms.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this happens to you, don&rsquo;t think twice before you break up with a married man.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/pregnancy\/this-is-how-pregnancy-brings-couples-together\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This Is How Pregnancy Brings Couples Together<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-30525 size-full\" title=\"Look out for the hidden hints in his words and expressions\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Look-for-the-hidden-hints-in-his-words-and-expressions-2.jpg\" alt=\"Look out for the hidden hints in his words and expressions\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. End any possible path to reconnect with you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one of the important tips on how to stop dating a married man.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You must change your contact details and block him from all your social sites as soon as you decide to sever all ties with him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He will try not to lose you and may end up making a bundle of false statements coated in emotion. Try not to fall into his trap but try to see through his lies. If you can cut off all contact, this can help you while you are getting over a married man so that you can move on with your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Do not give in to your emotions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will likely be confronted with uncertain emotions inside you post-break-up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each time you come across his profile on social media or recall intimate moments, you are bound to develop the urge to dial his number. You might end up at his office or hang out in places that were secret hideouts for both of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that it takes time to get over someone, but try never to give in to your emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting yourself entangled with a married man will not end well for either of you. The sooner you realize, the better it is for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No one denies the fact that a married person can fall in love again if he is estranged from his wife or is a widower. But, if he is living a double life, this is a sign for you to stay away.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/control-your-emotions\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">14 Tips on How to Control Your Emotions in a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>6. Work on your self-esteem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another reason you should stop dating a married man is because it may negatively affect your self-esteem. If you are someone who has been in many relationships that haven&rsquo;t worked out or weren&rsquo;t right for you, it may seem easier to date a married man.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, there may be another person out there who is a better fit for you. You owe it to yourself to try to find them. Research suggests that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/35357851\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">self-esteem<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is important for multiple aspects of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Talk to a therapist<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might be necessary to talk to a therapist when you need to find out more about how to stop dating a married man. A therapist can offer expert advice on what steps you need to take to end this type of relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Additionally, they can help you determine what you are getting out of this affair and why you are choosing to date this man as well, which are things you should be aware of.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/seeing-a-therapist\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Seeing a Therapist Can Improve Your Life<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>8. Go on some dates<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have been dating a married man for a while, you may need to remember what a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/dos-and-donts-of-new-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> feels like. It is okay to go on a date or meet up with a friend, especially if you are used to hiding out or spending all your time in the bedroom when you meet up with your man.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Going out and being social can remind you what it is like to have a relationship with another person where it isn&rsquo;t a secret.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><b>9. Remember who he is<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are with your man, he may make you feel like you are the most important thing in his life. However, it is necessary to remember that he is married to someone else. Essentially, you are a secret from his family.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thinking about this may help you put your relationship into perspective, where you can decide if it is good enough for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><b>10. Be real with yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There may be other things in your relationship that you don&rsquo;t agree with as well. For instance, you may only engage in intimate acts and not much else when you are together. This could indicate he is using you and doesn&rsquo;t see you as anything but a sexual partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is okay to ask him about this, especially if you want to hear his true feelings about you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>As Psychologist Mert &#350;eker explains:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>For women, cheating is defined as a man&rsquo;s emotional intercourse with another woman, while for men, it is generally defined as sexual intercourse. Therefore, if a man is cheating on his wife with you, he may probably be using you for sex.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<pre><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/finding-real-love\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6 Tips for Finding Real Love<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>11. Determine what you need<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Overall, you have to take care of yourself when you are learning all about how to stop dating a married man. You must pay attention to what you want and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/needs-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">need from a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you aren&rsquo;t getting the things you want, it could be time to move on and explore your options.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is something you don&rsquo;t have to feel bad about, especially if you want a relationship that is exclusive and can&rsquo;t obtain that with your married beau.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-30522 size-full\" title=\"Scare him with news of your pregnancy\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Scare-him-with-news-of-your-pregnancy.jpg\" alt=\"Scare him with news of your pregnancy\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/h2>\n<h3><b>12. Speak with loved ones<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You likely have a friend or family member who always tells you the truth about what you are doing, even when you don&rsquo;t want to hear it. Talk to people you trust about what is going on and listen to what they have to say.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may be surprised at the helpful advice they can provide. They might also help you understand aspects of the relationship you weren&rsquo;t thinking about.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/devotion-to-loved-ones\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10 Ways to Show Devotion to Loved Ones<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>13. Think about the pros and cons<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take some time to think about the things you like and dislike in your relationship. Chances are there are many things you don&rsquo;t like about what is happening. When this is the case, it may be pertinent to end the relationship and start one where you can be sure that both parties are devoted to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s no need to ignore things you don&rsquo;t like, even if you feel like the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/most-important-things-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">good things in your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are especially noteworthy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Rehearse what to say<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may take some time and courage to be able to break it off with a married man. However, if you determine what you want to say ahead of time, it can help you practice for when the time comes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Go over these things in your mind, and when you are ready, it is time to have the talk. Remember that wanting to be the only <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/make-sex-more-romantic\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romantic partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in another person&rsquo;s life is reasonable. You don&rsquo;t have to feel bad about this.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Keep a routine<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After you have found out how to stop dating a married man, you may also need help getting your life back to normal. One way to approach this is by keeping a routine. You can start off each day with a workout, start a new hobby, or another task to help you start a new normal in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After a while, you may think about him less and feel better about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-the-consequences-of-dating-a-married-man\"><\/span><b>What are the consequences of dating a married man?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another aspect to consider when you are wondering how to stop dating a married man is that dating one can have consequences. Here are some of the most significant ones.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. It won&rsquo;t be a true relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is that when you are in a relationship with a married man, it isn&rsquo;t a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/signs-of-true-love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">true relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He may come over a few times a week and provide you with gifts and short amounts of his time, but after that, he likely has to go home, take care of his kids, or go back to work. This could leave you feeling like you need more out of a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. You may not get your needs met<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another consequence to consider is whether you are having your needs met. Are there certain things that you want out of a relationship? Are you getting them?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If not, you owe it to yourself to find someone who can give you these things. You don&rsquo;t have to settle for less, especially if there is no room for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/never-compromise-yourself-in-the-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">compromise in your current relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. The spouse may find out<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may understand in the back of your mind that your man&rsquo;s wife can find out about the relationship. This could cause you to feel guilty and a bit apprehensive. Imagine if you were a woman who had a mate who was cheating on you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think about how you would feel if you found out. Would you be angry with both of them? This is something that you should keep in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. It could harm his family<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the married man you are seeing has kids, you may also need to imagine what could happen if the family found out. This could be detrimental to his kid&rsquo;s well-being, leaving you feeling many different emotions about the situation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider if you want to be a part of the breakdown of any family (even if it isn&rsquo;t your fault) and how people may treat you afterward.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. You may feel guilt<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/online-marriage-counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">course of your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you may feel guilt about what you are doing. This can lead you to experience stress and anxiety, both of which are bad for your physical and mental health.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are feeling guilt, consider why you are feeling it. It may be time to make changes related to this.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion\"><\/span><b>Conclusion<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you are dedicated to learning how to stop dating a married man, there are many things to consider. You must be honest with yourself and take steps to change your situation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk to a therapist or lean on your support system for the advice and guidance you need. Taking a break from social media may also help. For the married man, I suggest taking a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/marriage-courses\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marriage course online<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, so he can strengthen his marriage instead of stepping out on it.<\/span><b><\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&ldquo;Men&rsquo;s minds are raised to the level of the women with whom they associate.&rdquo; &mdash; Alexandre Dumas Pere. Women, in general, are more mature than men falling within the same age bracket. But, when it comes to relationships, people normally say that age is just a number. The whole idea of dating an older, mature, and experienced man can be exhilarating for many women. However, you may have second thoughts after you begin dating a married man. Keep reading this article for information on how to stop dating a married man and other details you may be interested in learning <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":30520,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2498],"tags":[2581],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30517"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30517"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30517\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":94816,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30517\/revisions\/94816"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30520"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}