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Most people experience stress from many different avenues: stress from the job, stress from having to deal with unpleasant neighbors, a crazy parent, children who hate studying and have upcoming exams, rising prices at the supermarket, and national and local politics.<\/span><\/p>\n

You name it, and you can stress about it! But what about the relationship between stress and sexuality?<\/span><\/p>\n

That is what makes us uniquely human. Animals do not stress about sexuality; nope, only we upright bipeds stress about sexuality.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let’s take a closer look at this and assess ways of reducing stress.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>What is stress in a relationship?<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Humans need a certain amount of stress in their lives. This may sound counter-intuitive, but stress is necessary for the physical operation of the human body. <\/span>Stress affects<\/span><\/a> the way a person’s muscles function. But that is physical stress. What about mental stress?<\/span><\/p>\n

Mental stress in a relationship is feeling agitated or aloof because something affects your mental peace. This stress could be because of the equation between you and your partner or things going on in one or both of your lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

The relationship between stress and sex drive ensures that a couple’s intimate life can take a huge hit due to the stress that a person is experiencing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Related Reading<\/i><\/b>: <\/span><\/i>6 Tips To Recognize and Do Away with Relationship Stress<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n
<\/span>10 causes of stress in relationships<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Stress and sex are often interlinked in a person’s life. The stress can be because of what a person experiences from external sources or due to various aspects of the relationship itself.<\/span><\/p>\n
Before we figure out whether can lack of sex cause stress, we can first analyze the various factors that can make a relationship extremely stressful. <\/span><\/p>\n
Some of the causes of stress in a relationship are:<\/span><\/p>\n
  1. Finances<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n
  2. Division of work<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Lack of trust<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n
  4. Unresolved issues<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. Imbalance of power<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. Infidelity<\/span><\/li>\n
  7. Sexual dissatisfaction<\/span><\/li>\n
  8. Health issues<\/span><\/li>\n
  9. Lack of empathy<\/span><\/li>\n
  10. Lack of respect<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>
    To learn more about the <\/span>causes of stress in a relationship<\/span><\/a> before understanding the link between stress and sex. <\/span><\/p>\n
    <\/span>5 ways stress affects your sexual life<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
    The reasons for stress in a relationship can be internal or external. But, irrespective of the reason for the mental pressure, the link between stress and sex ensures that one’s sexual life is impacted by their <\/span>mental health<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n
    Stress and sex have an undeniable link as stress causes hormonal changes that can affect one’s libido, sexual interest in their partner and physical ability to engage in sexual activity. Here are some key ways in which stress and sex are linked to each other. <\/span><\/p>\n
    1. Sexual arousal is a type of good stress<\/b><\/h3>\n
    Not only do many people not associate sexual arousal with stress, but many do not know that the “cure” for this stress is an orgasm. Outside factors making a person feel stressed can create a <\/span>low libido<\/span><\/a> or a <\/span>lack of sexual desire<\/span><\/a>.  <\/span><\/p>\n
    Related Reading<\/i><\/b>: <\/span><\/i>15 Ways to Handle Stress in Marriage<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n
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    2. Sometimes your brain overrides the desire<\/b><\/h3>\n
    Wondering how does stress influence sex?<\/span><\/p>\n
    If an outside factor stresses you, your brain “sensors” any sexual stimuli your partner will be trying to give you.  <\/span><\/p>\n
    Studies show<\/span><\/a> that our brain might push sexual stimuli away from our consciousness so we can concentrate on the problem at hand. When the stress is resolved, your brain will let you pay attention to sexually intriguing things and activities. <\/span><\/p>\n
    3. Stress affects hormone levels which in turn affects sexual matters<\/b><\/h3>\n
    Stress causes hormone levels to fluctuate. This, in turn, causes mood changes and sexual desire often goes down the drain. Long-term or chronic stress increases the <\/span>production of cortisol<\/span>, which often lowers libido and has other negative effects on the body.<\/span><\/p>\n
    The fluctuations in hormone levels showcase how stress and libido are interlinked. <\/span><\/p>\n
    4. Stress causes norepinephrine and epinephrine to be released<\/b><\/h3>\n
    How does stress affect a man or woman sexually?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n
    Research shows<\/span><\/a> that stress affects the release of norepinephrine and epinephrine in the body, affecting their sexual capacity. <\/span><\/p>\n
    Talk about vicious circles: if you are stressing about your performance in bed, these hormones will be released, making men less likely to reach orgasm. And there is a <\/span>physiological reason<\/span><\/a> why this happens.<\/span><\/p>\n
    To learn more about signs of hormonal imbalance in a person’s body, watch this video:<\/span><\/p>\n