That perfect marriage that was once there, the factors that destroyed it, now the everlasting blame game, all add fuel to the pent-up rage. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\nThus, ever so often that anger bursts through even without any obvious stimulus.<\/span><\/p>\n- \n
<\/span>General feelings of anxiety<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>Unhappy marriage leaves you on unstable shaky grounds. <\/span><\/p>\nThere is no contentment, just apprehension. Feelings of anxiety and dread increase, as you venture into a future which has no stability and hope.<\/span><\/p>\n- \n
<\/span>Mood swings<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>Everything is optimistic and goes well in a happy marriage. Both partners compliment each other. <\/span><\/p>\nAn unhappy marriage brings doubt, anger, and frustration into the marriage. Ever increasing emotional stress, acts like a trigger, oscillating between calm and despair. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\nThese mood swings are quite common and their frequency can increase with each passing day.<\/span><\/p>\nMood swings can be very notorious. Their emotional impact can generate an angry outburst from you over nothing or drown you in an emotionless state, unresponsive to any stimulant situation.<\/span><\/p>\n- \n
<\/span>Impatient behavior with oneself and others<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>When you are emotionally disturbed, it will definitely reflect on your behavior towards yourself and others. <\/span><\/p>\nUnhappy marriages, apart from other emotional stresses, bring agitation and impatience in your behavior. The calmness to deal with people, situations and even yourself, seems very difficult or even impossible. <\/span><\/p>\nTo understand the rationale of a situation becomes beyond your comprehension. This leads to abrupt impatient behavior very commonly seen towards others and yourself.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n- \n
<\/span>A decrease in attention span<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>Calm content life with a stable marriage gives patients and the ability to concentrate and focus on people and your surroundings. <\/span><\/p>\nAn unhappy marriage already has your mind preoccupied with your own sufferings. It becomes difficult to come out of that unhappy haze and focus on life around you. So, with time you find it very hard to pay attention for long, to what is happening around you.<\/span><\/p>\n- \n
<\/span> Memory problems<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>Unhappiness has shown to cause memory problems. Lapses in memory, confusion and forgetfulness are not uncommon. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\nEmotional stress can overburden the mind so much that even remembering daily chores becomes impossible. These memory lapses can further trigger the other emotional factors that we have discussed above.<\/span><\/p>\n- \n
<\/span>Risk of mental illnesses increases<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>A mind is a very powerful organ, with its positive and negative side. <\/span><\/p>\nUnhappiness, anger, loneliness, and depression closely associated with unhappy marriage can trigger the negativity of this organ. The extreme progression of these emotions can culminate into mental illness.<\/span><\/p>\n- \n
<\/span>Risk of Developing Dementia and Alzheimer’s Disease is Increased<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>Unhappy marriages have shown that emotional setbacks have led to an increased risk of developing conditions like dementia and Alzheimer’s disease.<\/span><\/p>\n- \n
<\/span>Thinking and decision making becomes difficult<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>Unhappy marriage destroys you emotionally. That means your cognitive functioning becomes impaired. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\nUnstable emotional state takes away your power to think and decide clearly. This effect can destroy your life as you continuously keep on taking the wrong steps and making the wrong decisions concerning your life.<\/span><\/p>\nAn unhappy marriage can have a very scary impact on you. Many opt for soothing activities like smoking, drug use, alcohol, gambling, etc. But all these only aggravate the emotional stress factors further. We hope this write-up will be helpful for you in understanding the emotional impact of an unhappy marriage enabling you to start changing things for the better.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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