{"id":27254,"date":"2018-09-14T09:55:05","date_gmt":"2018-09-14T09:55:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=27254"},"modified":"2022-09-14T11:33:25","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T11:33:25","slug":"is-your-partner-a-narcissist-heres-a-checklist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/is-your-partner-a-narcissist-heres-a-checklist\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Partner a Narcissist? Here’s a Checklist"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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A marriage that was meant to make you feel secure and loved is now making you feel feeble, tortured and depressed. No matter how much you show affection to your partner, it always seems little in front of their unacceptable demands and expectations. Living with a narcissist is challenging and devastating. <\/span><\/p>\n

During the narcissistic marriage problems<\/span>,<\/span> you lose the courage to face people and the courage to share your point of view. You begin to question your existence and spend nights wondering what went wrong. All your practical and most logical explanations seem to fall on a deaf ear when it’s about a narcissistic partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

A narcissist is a person who is mentally challenged; they show severe<\/span> personality disorders<\/span><\/a> and are extremely self-centered. They enjoy the company of those who praise them or their good and bad and always steer the conversations to the topic, which they perceive to be important. <\/span><\/p>\n

In public dealing, they avoid people having a disagreement with their opinions as they consider their views are the most perfect and legitimate ones.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The narcissist relationship pattern is tricky as a maze. They never treat their partners equally. They never give them the social or personal freedom. They want to be reported for every act. They want their partners to follow their orders and do things they ask them to.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>Is your partner a narcissist? Checklist of m<\/strong>ajor traits<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

If you are trapped in a complicated relationship, and you are wondering whether your partner is a narcissist or not you must go through the common personality traits present in a narcissist, as summarized below. <\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>1. Sense of superiority<\/span><\/h2>\n

A narcissist believes reside between the two extremities either good or bad, superior or inferior; there is no middle route to judge a person. <\/span><\/p>\n

They only trust themselves and try to do things on their own– as they alone can complete a task perfectly. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If a narcissist gets upset, hurt or angry they feel the right to hurt their partners in return at any level. They consider to drain out their emotions more important than considering the emotions of the person in front.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>2. An utter need to gain attention<\/span><\/h2>\n

A narcissist cannot survive without getting the attention they desire. If they are in a love relationship, they will dwell to be treated as the center of the universe.<\/span><\/p>\n

They will desire to be pampered, nurtured and to be taken care of and they don’t feel obliged to do anything in return. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Secondly, your validations will all go down the drain as your narcissist partner will consider those of others way more important and useful than yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anything you say will fall on a deaf ear. They will do whatever they can to gain public attention and praises on their acts, even if they have to wear a cat on their head.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>3. Rule breaker<\/span><\/h2>\n

A rule violation is a thing that most narcissist love to do. They tend to follow their will no matter what the laws bind them to do even at the cause of extreme consequences. By doing so, they put themselves and others in danger.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>4. Conversation interrupter<\/span><\/h2>\n

You may have a lot of stories to share, but a narcissist is fond of speaking and sharing than listening to your long list of life’s events. They blow their own trumpet over and over again.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>5. False image projection<\/span><\/h2>\n

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The hunger to be praised and to see appreciation in the eyes of people makes them create a completely false image of their personality. They makeup stories and mold the truth to gain as much appreciation as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>6. Charmer<\/span><\/h2>\n

Narcissists have the real devil inside. They are charismatic and in the beginning, treat you like a royalty. <\/span>They will showcase themselves as the most caring and loving being on earth. They will put you first and bind you in a way that you unknowingly fulfill their demands in the name of love. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But the moment the truth breaks in front of you and they begin to see your unleashing consciousness; their true self will come in front of you, leaving you in utter disbelief.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>Minor traits<\/span><\/h2>\n