

{"id":25854,"date":"2018-07-25T11:35:23","date_gmt":"2018-07-25T11:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=25854"},"modified":"2023-05-06T10:34:18","modified_gmt":"2023-05-06T10:34:18","slug":"distance-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/distance-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder\/","title":{"rendered":"20 Long-Distance Relationship Advice for Couples"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-18153 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/3-1.jpg\" alt=\"Family Online Video Calling, Baby Touching Laptop With Hands Trying To Touch Second Person\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The saying is true that distance makes the heart go fonder, the fact that we haven&rsquo;t seen the face of our loved ones add to the anticipation, the building desire to be close to them, this wait not only makes our heart grow fonder of our beloved but also makes us love them harder in the process.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-a-long-distance-relationship\"><\/span><b>What is a long-distance relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>According to Definitions from Oxford Languages, a long-distance relationship means,<\/b><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A romantic relationship between two people who live far apart and so are unable to meet on a frequent basis.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For many people, having a long-distance relationship with someone who has an entirely different postal code may be hard.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, for those who are already invested in such emotional connections, one important long-distance relationship advice is to understand that such commitment is hard, but so worth it when you finally meet your beau!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suppose you take a quick detour through some known facts. In that case, about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/surviveldr.com\/long-distance-relationship-statistics\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3.75 million married couples are in a long-distance relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, be it the soldiers in a different city, ambitious minds in Silicon Valley, or just better opportunities. Today, more than ever, long-distance love is a reality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, the question arises, why do people opt for such emotionally exhaustive relationships, anyway? And more importantly, are they worth it in the end?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We address these questions and some essential <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-enhance-your-long-distance-relationship\/\">long-distance relationship<\/a> advice in this article!<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><strong><em>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/5-tips-on-creating-romance-in-a-long-distance-relationship\/\">6 Tips on Creating Romance in a Long-Distance Relationship<\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why-do-people-go-through-long-distance-relationships-willingly\"><\/span><b>Why do people go through long-distance relationships willingly?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-56719 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/long-distance-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"Back Top View Man Having Video Calling With A Cheerful Smiling Lady On Laptop Sitting On Sofa\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, when we talk about the will, we&rsquo;re really talking about circumstances surrounding the LDR.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One might raise doubts- <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do long-distance relationships work?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most people don&rsquo;t want to stay away from the apple of their eyes, but they are compelled to do so due to various factors, the job being the most prominent among them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, most couples meet up through institutions like high school and colleges, who often share different life ambitions. In the world we know today, most men and women are meeting up through various online dating websites, which link them to people all around the world with common likes and interests.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, most people form an LDR on the basis of trust, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/16-principles-for-effective-communication\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">effective communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and the belief that they are doing this for a better future together, a better life together. Their love for each other prevails over the hardships of a long-distance relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-do-long-distance-relationships-work\/\">How Do Long Distance Relationships Work?<\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Below are some reasons why people prefer long-distance relationships:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<h3><strong>LDR gives them the freedom<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Long-distance relationships give a lot of freedom to live on one&rsquo;s own without a partner&rsquo;s interference. For people, who prefer space and a lot of me-time, such relationships are a boon as they don&rsquo;t have to think about their partner before making plans and still enjoy the perks of love.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<h3><strong>Couples fight less<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Distance does make the heart grow fonder. In LDRs, couples avoid quarrels as they stay far apart and relatively, spend less time together. So, practically, less time means less room for misunderstandings and resentment.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<h3><strong>You learn patience<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You learn to be patient and wise in the relationship as you understand that the situation is temporary, and you wait for it to be over. And that is how you earn to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/patience-in-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be patient in the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, by holding onto your emotions and having faith that you both will meet soon.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<h3><strong>You have time to pursue your interest<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since you both are living away from your partner, you save time on hangouts and dates. That means you have more time to give to yourself and work on your passions, hobbies, and interests.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><strong><em>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/long-distance-relationship-ideas\/\"><em>5 Creative Romantic Long Distance Relationship Ideas for Couples<\/em> <\/a><\/pre>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1724 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Communication-advice-for-long-distance-.jpg\" alt=\"Lady Doing Meeting With The Staying Away From A Colleague Over Holographic Or Projector Screen\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Struggles-of-long-distance-relationships\"><\/span><b>Struggles of long-distance relationships<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, we cannot simply ignore the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/challenges-of-long-distance-relationships\/\">harsh realities you have to face while you are invested in a long-term relationship<\/a>, some of which we have outlined below:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Different time zones can take a toll on how much you communicate with each other; this can really strain your relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fact that you sometimes have to miss out on important events such as anniversaries and birthdays.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/static1.squarespace.com\/static\/569ecea9b20943c520056ca5\/t\/5cb04d0bec212de7c2d805d3\/1555057936518\/The+7+Essential+Practices+for+Overcoming+Insecurity.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">insecurity factor<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of being so many miles away.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it is a fact that LDRs are hard, most people are often even compelled to analyze when to let go of a long-distance relationship, but all of that depends on how much both of you are willing to make this work.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><strong><em>Related Reading: <\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/intimate-in-a-long-distance-relationship\/\"><em>Romantic Ways on How to Be Intimate in a Long-Distance Relationship <\/em> <\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"20-long-distance-relationship-advice\"><\/span><b>20 long-distance relationship advice<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to maintain a long-distance relationship?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/starting-a-long-distance-relationship\/\">Starting a long-distance relationship<\/a> might seem like an exciting idea. You would look at the bright side of things and be ready to face all odds. However, there are some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-survive-a-long-distance-relationship\/\">long-distance relationship advice to survive it<\/a> because such a relationship is purely based on understanding and trust.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, here are some long-distance relationship advice for handling the relationship:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the most essential long-distance relationship tips is to establish<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/communication-advice-for-long-distance-relationships\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">regular communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It is essential to talk about everything, whether it&rsquo;s about mundane things of the day. Send audio and video clips too to keep things interesting.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid bringing up situations that could crop up arguments. If your partner dislikes late-night partying, assure them beforehand before you make any such decisions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4218869\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practice honesty<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. No matter what, stay true to each other in the relationship. Manipulation can cause havoc in the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk dirty to each other just like you would do if you both were around. Keep your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/intimate-in-a-long-distance-relationship\/\">intimacy game strong by expressing your sexual desires<\/a> through teasing texts.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set low expectations in the relationship. You both must discuss some ground rules so that none of you are taken by surprise.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let people know you are in a long-distance relationship. You have to come clean and not hide your relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ensure you are serious in the relationship. Also, try to gauge your partner&rsquo;s intentions. There&rsquo;s no point in working hard over a long-distance relationship and putting in your efforts when either of you doesn&rsquo;t seek a long term relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do things you wouldn&rsquo;t have done if your partner was around. You can pursue a hobby and invest your time productively.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t over-communicate. It will only lead to misunderstandings if you both are talking to each other 24*7.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understand that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/let-there-be-some-space-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">space is also important in the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. So, make sure you both set boundaries in your life and avoid unnecessary interference.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Surprise your partner every once in a while with a visit. It&rsquo;s not nice to spend so much time apart. Make sure you both see each other in an interval of two or three months.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assumptions are a risky thing in a long term relationship. Long term relationships are more fragile. So, try to remain positive and don&rsquo;t believe everything you hear or you think in your head.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider your long-distance relationship like a normal relationship. The more you will think about the distance, the more it will weigh you down.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make it stress-free. Don&rsquo;t keep thinking about it all day long and hamper your routine. Remember, the more you think, the more unnecessary thoughts you will build in your head.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;Always remind your partner that you love them. Avoid engaging in boring and mundane conversations all the time. Every once in a while, get romantic and let your partner know they mean the world to you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another long-distance relationship advice is to engage in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/long-distance-relationship-activities\/\">LDR activities<\/a> like craft-building or early morning walks or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/long-distance-relationship-games\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">other games<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the essential <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-for-long-distance-relationships\/\">tips on long-distance relationships<\/a><\/span> is to pamper your partner with gifts. Send customized <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/gift-ideas\/long-distance-relationship-gifts\/\">presents and gifts for your partner<\/a> and express your love for them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t keep your expectations too high. Remember, your partner isn&rsquo;t perfect. So, you must not hope everything will always be fine in the relationship. There&rsquo;s beauty in being flawed too.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember, it&rsquo;s okay to fight, sometimes. The argument is healthy, and it often brings a positive outcome. So, don&rsquo;t consider it a sign of breakup at every instance.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accept different dynamics and changes in the relationship. Every relationship goes through different phases, and yours will go through many too. Consider it normal, and don&rsquo;t feel anxious.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><pre><em><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/make-him-feel-special-in-a-long-distance-relationship\/\">9 Ways to Make Him Feel Special in a Long Distance Relationship<\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the video below, Kim Eng shares there is nothing wrong with expectations, but we should not become overly attached.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, we need to inquire into the source of those expectations to determine whether they are healthy and reasonable or arise from the unconsciousness of the pain-body. Watch this video as a piece of fruitful long-distance relationship advice.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9sluTShqrY4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are-long-distance-relationships-worth-it-in-the-end\"><\/span><b>Are long-distance relationships worth it in the end?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-do-long-distance-relationships-work\/\">how to make a long-distance relationship work?<\/a>&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We&rsquo;ll be honest with our long-distance relationship advice. Engaging yourself in the LDR with someone who is so many miles away from you is hard, and it is not something you can take lightly. It will take effort, time, and a lot of trust to withhold the sentiment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, imagine when you finally meet your best friend, the person who you love, after all this time! You learn to appreciate their touch, smell, and their quirks.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You learn to understand how beautiful your bond is, and that it is worth everything. Imagine how lovely it would be to hold their hands and not put your hand on screens to connect?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The little moments make all the hardships worth it. Love can overcome anything if it indeed exists.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-on-how-to-build-trust-in-long-distance-relationships\/\">6 Ways on How to Build Trust in Long-Distance Relationships <\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-long-can-a-long-distance-relationship-last\"><\/span><b>How long can a long-distance relationship last?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-56720 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/long-distance-relationship1.jpg\" alt=\"Attractive Beautiful Lady Chatting Over A Video Call On Laptop And Giving A Flying Kiss\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s really no answer to this question. It can last until the relationship is back to normal after decades of deployment or it can last a few weeks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is up to both partners to decide how to make a long-distance relationship work. Some relationships are only a hundred miles away and fail, while there are some in different countries and succeed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is a matter of sacrifice. How much are you willing to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/small-sacrifices-for-a-happy-lasting-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sacrifice for your partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Both partners are unfulfilled in long-distance relationships, so if there is no hope of a future together, then there&rsquo;s no point in thinking about &ldquo;will long-distance relationship work&rdquo; between the two of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There needs to be a deadline, something both partners are looking forward to, a day sometime in the future that both of you can be together forever. That is the key to making a long-distance relationship succeed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are asking Do long-distance relationships work in different countries? Yes, it can. The distance itself isn&rsquo;t an issue. They can be one city away and it can still be a long-distance relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As long as the couple is discussing a realistic future together, the long-distance relationship has a chance of working.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A chance is just a chance. It still needs a lot of effort to succeed. Both partners have to work harder than normal couples to stay loyal and keep each other satisfied.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/how-to-survive-a-long-distance-relationship_n_58c96c4ae4b0934e249cbed4\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you are the type<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who is not willing to go through hoops for your relationship, then don&rsquo;t even bother thinking about &ldquo;do long-distance relationships work?&rdquo; It will not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">long-distance relationships are hard, unfulfilling, and full of challenges. Just like any other worthwhile endeavor like starting a business or staying married after 25 years.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before getting into it, think about how much you value your partner, what kind of future awaits you as a couple, and most importantly are you both on the same page. If all three questions are in the extreme positive, then go ahead and do it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion\"><\/span><b>Conclusion<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Long-distance makes the heart go fonder, some people prefer to wait for their loved ones to come back, and some decide to relocate. We live in a world where love can truly thrive if we only let it. A thousand miles can&rsquo;t possibly stop from a heart to love!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/managing-a-long-distance-relationship\/\">Managing a Long Distance Relationship<\/a> <\/em><\/pre>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The saying is true that distance makes the heart go fonder, the fact that we haven&rsquo;t seen the face of our loved ones add to the anticipation, the building desire to be close to them, this wait not only makes our heart grow fonder of our beloved but also makes us love them harder in the process. What is a long-distance relationship? According to Definitions from Oxford Languages, a long-distance relationship means, A romantic relationship between two people who live far apart and so are unable to meet on a frequent basis. 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