

{"id":18243,"date":"2017-10-05T11:21:14","date_gmt":"2017-10-05T11:21:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=18243"},"modified":"2025-07-08T17:49:01","modified_gmt":"2025-07-08T17:49:01","slug":"signs-of-physical-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/signs-of-physical-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Physical Abuse in a Relationship: Signs, Coping Mechanisms &#038; More"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-49657 size-full\" title=\"Signs of Physical Abuse\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Signs-of-Physical-Abuse.jpg\" alt=\"Signs of Physical Abuse\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/stakeholders\/domestic-violence-statistics\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">About 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men in the US experience some sort of abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in their relationships, so if you think you are dealing with a problem that is not too common or you know someone afraid to talk for the same reason, you should think again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are so many indicators of physical abuse that can be easily recognized by the friends and family of the victim. At times, the traumatizing symptoms are so evident that a third person, too, would be able to make it out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, you might wonder why so many people are quiet about it.?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The number one reason for this is fear and only fear!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And this is why we&rsquo;re obligated to act and protect those in need and encourage everyone with this kind of problem to react and share their situation with a friend or a professional.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think you know someone who is physically abused, but you are not sure, <\/span><b>here are some signs of physical abuse in a relationship. They can be physical, behavioral, or emotional.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-physical-abuse-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>What is physical abuse in a relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical abuse in a relationship can be defined as any physical act or gesture that is used to intimidate, manipulate, or punish the victim.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abuse can occur in any type of relationship, including heterosexual, homosexual, and lesbian relationships. There are different types of physical abuse that can occur in a relationship, including assault, battery, and domestic violence.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/jenni-jacobsen\">Dr. Jennifer Schulz<\/a>, PhD in Psychology, says, <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical abuse can include a variety of different harmful behaviors, including hitting, slapping, kicking, choking, grabbing, or biting a partner.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs-of-having-a-physically-abusive-spouse\"><\/span><b>Signs of having a physically abusive spouse<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical abuse by a spouse can have devastating effects on the victim. So, how to tell if someone is being abused? Let&rsquo;s find out!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>A. Physical signs of abuse<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out these physical signs of a physically abusive relationship:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical signs of domestic violence can be very subtle in the beginning. <\/span><b>Victims of abuse may be willing to shrug off something like a push or a slap as an innocuous one-time <\/b><strong>thing done in the heat of the moment<\/strong> and not perceived as a use of physical force against them by a physical abuser.<\/li>\n<\/ul><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often, victims overlook reckless driving, occasionally throwing things as a manifestation of their partner having a bad day.<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, signs someone is being abused are more conspicuous as they become progressively worse over time, and the victim is physically abused to a degree of severity.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When signs of someone being abused, like <\/span><b>being force-fed, denied food, threatened, <\/b><b>strangled, hitting, and physical restraint continue, unsuspecting victims of domestic violence start walking on eggshells,<\/b> and the realization sinks in that abuse is not justifiable or a result of external stressors, making it acceptable.<\/li>\n<\/ul><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most common physical signs in an abusive relationship are<\/span><b> bruises and cuts<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If <\/span>you see these things in a friend more frequently than usual, then there&rsquo;s a high possibility that they are being abused.<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is usual?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A normal person can accidentally slip and fall, have cuts on the body by unmindful usage of any sharp object, and have normal bruises by doing normal household chores,&nbsp; but all of this is a rare occurrence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If bruises and cuts appear once a month or once in two months, or maybe more often, the person is always giving excuses for them, which seems illogical. The chances are big that abuse is happening in that relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other <\/span><b>signs of abuse include burns, black eyes, and often unexplained trips to the <\/b><b>hospital, etc.<\/b> All people care about hurting themselves, so if injuries occur, often it is a clear sign to raise the alarm about domestic violence.<\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>B. Behavioral signs of physical abuse<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-49671 size-full\" title=\"Behavioral signs of physical abuse\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/behavioral-signs-of-physical-abuse.jpg\" alt=\"Behavioral signs of physical abuse\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/defining-physical-abuse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Victims of physical abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> often try to hide the fact that they are being abused or enduring physical violence. They do that because of shame, fear, or simply because they are confused and don&rsquo;t know how to act or ask for help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever the reason is,<\/span><b> turning our heads the other way in these cases means that we are accomplices to such crimes.<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Classic behavioral signs and symptoms of physical abuse are constant confusion, amnesia,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/panic-attacks\/doctors-departments\/ddc-20376028\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">panic attacks<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, unexplained weight loss,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/articles\/addictions\/drug-abuse-and-addiction.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">use of drugs<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and alcohol, etc.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People under abuse rarely admit they are being abused, but their behavior often speaks something else.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They might look disoriented, confused, lost, go to work heavily medicated or drunk. All this is done to hide the physical abuse symptoms and cope with their difficult situation.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/jenni-jacobsen\">Dr. Schulz<\/a> adds, <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When victims of physical abuse are in public, they may defer to their partner, as if they are fearful to speak or give information.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>C. Emotional signs of physical abuse in a relationship or marriage<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-49668 size-full\" title=\"Emotional signs of physical abuse in marriage or relationship\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/emotional-signs-of-physical-abuse-in-marriage-or-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"Emotional signs of physical abuse in marriage or relationship\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there are no clear behavioral and physical signs of abuse, it doesn&rsquo;t mean that a person is not going under mistreatment of any kind. It might take longer to spot abuse, but emotional signs will inevitably occur.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Domestic violence is frustrating and exhausting, so after a while, the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/5-warning-signs-your-spouse-is-depressed-and-what-to-do-about-it\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">person will start feeling depressed<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or have no will to live.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear, phobias,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/isolation\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social isolation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and withdrawal are also signs of abuse.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-physical-effects-of-physical-abuse-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>5 physical effects of physical abuse in a relationship<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical abuse is an act of violence that occurs in a relationship. Physical abuse can cause physical effects on the abuser and the abused. Sometimes, people may not realize that they are being abused, or they may think that what is happening to them is normal or that it&rsquo;s their fault.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/the-effects-of-physical-abuse\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Physical &amp; Physiological Effects of Physical Abuse &amp; Healing<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-examples-of-physical-abuse-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>What are examples of physical abuse in a relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical abuse in a relationship can include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Punching, hitting, slapping, or kicking<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Strangling or choking<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Throwing objects at the victim<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using weapons to threaten or cause harm<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pushing, pulling, or shaking the victim<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Restraining or immobilizing the victim against their will<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Burning or scalding<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forced confinement or isolation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forced ingestion of substances<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-facts-about-physical-abuse-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>5 facts about physical abuse in a relationship<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical abuse is a topic that is often taboo in relationships, but it, unfortunately, happens more than people think. Here are five facts about physical abuse in a relationship:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Physical abuse in a relationship is a harmful and hurtful form of behavior that occurs when a person uses physical force against their partner. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/violenceprevention\/pdf\/elder\/EA_Factsheet.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to the U.S. National Library of Medicine<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, the most common types of physical abuse are hitting, pushing, kicking, choking, burning or scalding, biting, slapping, pinching, and shaking.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Physical abuse occurs across all kinds of relationships, including marriages, romantic partnerships, and family relationships. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/scite.ai\/reports\/testing-the-utility-of-the-Nl6epVm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to the United States Department of Health and Human Services (HHS)<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, between one in four and one in six women have been victims of physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetimes.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Physical abuse is one of the most serious forms of domestic violence because it often causes injuries that can result in serious injury or even death. The HHS <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.domesticshelters.org\/resources\/statistics\/homelessness-and-domestic-violence\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reports<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that around 33% of women who are victims of severe physical violence are injured, and 30% of them become seriously ill as a result.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Both men and women can be the victims of physical abuse in a relationship. However, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/apps.who.int\/iris\/bitstream\/handle\/10665\/77432\/WHO_RHR_12.36_eng.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have found that men are more likely to be perpetrators of physical violence against their partners than women are.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Anyone can suffer physically and emotionally from an abusive relationship, regardless of age, race, gender, sexual orientation, socio-economic status, religion, or political beliefs. In addition, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/nij.ojp.gov\/topics\/articles\/hidden-consequences-impact-incarceration-dependent-children\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> shows that the children of women in abusive relationships are at an increased risk of psychological problems and violent behavior later in life.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-cope-with-physical-abuse-5-ways\"><\/span><b>How to cope with physical abuse: 5 ways<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a person close to you has some of these signs of abuse, try and talk to them about it. The victim of the assault would probably deny it, but sometimes talk is exactly what they need to open up and start resolving the problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If the abuse is obvious, but the person still denies it, a 911 call becomes a must.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Their further instructions on such matters help resolve the problem in most cases. Seeking timely help is essential before things escalate to a life-threatening situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out the 5 coping mechanisms for how to handle physical abuse:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Know that abuse is never your fault<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No one deserves to be abused, and no one is responsible for their abuser&rsquo;s actions. Abuse is an act of violence or power that is inflicted against someone who cannot defend themselves.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, while it may not seem fair, there is no such thing as &ldquo;deserved&rdquo; when it comes to abuse. You are not to blame. In abusive relationships, people believe the victim is to blame for the abuse.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-stop-finding-fault-in-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Ways on How to Stop Finding Fault in Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>2. Take care of yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the most important things you can do when you are dealing with physical abuse is to take care of your own health and well-being.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in an abusive relationship can make a person feel extremely isolated and alone, so it&rsquo;s important to keep your friends close and encourage you to reach out for support whenever you need it.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/simple-steps-to-take-care-of-your-relationships\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Simple Steps to Take Care of Your Relationships<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>3. Get help<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re in an abusive relationship, the most important thing you can do is to reach out for help. Don&rsquo;t be afraid to tell someone that you&rsquo;re being abused- there are plenty of people who will be willing to support you and help you to get out of your situation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&rsquo;t have to go through this alone!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Leave the relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most important thing you can do if you&rsquo;re in an abusive relationship is to leave your relationship. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/when-to-leave-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leaving a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be difficult and scary, but you deserve to live a life free from abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think your relationship is no longer a healthy one, you need to walk away for your own well-being. Trying to change your partner&rsquo;s behavior will only lead to more problems down the road.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Educate yourself about abuse<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, educating yourself about domestic violence is one of the best ways to prepare yourself for a potentially abusive relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you know about abuse, the better prepared you&rsquo;ll be to recognize when a relationship has become abusive and to get the support you need when you need it. Learning more about domestic abuse can also help you to identify red flags before they become a problem for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/educate-child-to-accept-changes\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Educate Your Child to Accept Changes Optimistically<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, watch this video to understand why it is important to break the silence and report domestic violence:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/frFEdN7aMh8\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not underestimate the amount of danger you&rsquo;re in. Leave the abuser to their own devices; do not be fooled into staying even if they seem sincerely apologetic or remorseful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.safehorizon.org\/get-informed\/about-us\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seek refuge<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>You could stay temporarily with a trusted friend or a close family member<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who can provide you with care and strong support in this fragile state of mind. <\/span><b>Contact emergency services or get help from a <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/\"><b>relationship therapist<\/b><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to guide you on how to deal with physical abuse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not hesitate to talk to the police to protect you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can also call<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/stakeholders\/impact-and-state-reports\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">state and territory support lines<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to talk about the potential threats you face. Remember, Getting out of an abusive relationship is no easy feat, but help is available.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not let panic or fear of the unknown, uncertain future hold you back from stepping out of the destructible cycle of violence and violation.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>About 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men in the US experience some sort of abuse in their relationships, so if you think you are dealing with a problem that is not too common or you know someone afraid to talk for the same reason, you should think again. There are so many indicators of physical abuse that can be easily recognized by the friends and family of the victim. At times, the traumatizing symptoms are so evident that a third person, too, would be able to make it out. So, you might wonder why so many people <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":65737,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[85],"tags":[2709],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18243"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18243"}],"version-history":[{"count":23,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18243\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":110853,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18243\/revisions\/110853"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65737"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}