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As it is generally known; the isolation of the mind, spirit, body, and soul is hard on all humans.<\/span><\/p>\n We need interaction and relationships with other people to feel validated and accepted.<\/span><\/p>\n In a love relationship, when <\/span>love<\/span><\/a> blossoms, deal breakers in a relationship are the last thing to cross your mind. <\/span><\/p>\n A love relationship can seem to be the easiest but it is one of the most complex kinds of relationship you can be in<\/span><\/p>\n Before engaging in a love relationship most people think about the kind of person they would like to date, they often list the qualities we most desire in a partner—their dealmakers.<\/span><\/p>\n But more often than not, people tend to forget to set deal breakers in a relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n Deal breakers in marriage are the<\/b> qualities that would disqualify someone as a dating prospect or as a potential marriage partner<\/b>, regardless of how many other wonderful traits and characters they have.<\/span><\/p>\n Below is a list of some of the top deal breakers in a relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n If your answer is ‘yes’ to one or more of the following questions, please tread carefully in the relationship or walk away.<\/span><\/p>\n 21 of the biggest deal breakers in a relationship<\/b><\/p>\n Is there any form of abuse in the relationship?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n This should be a question you ask yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n If yes, you are <\/span>in love with a toxic person<\/span><\/a> and it is dangerous to your body, mind, spirit, and soul. <\/span><\/p>\n These are pertinent questions you have to ask yourself before getting more involved in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n A relationship is not going to progress if your spouse or partner is not supportive.<\/span><\/p>\n If your partner is supportive and compatible with you, that is great but what if they insult you? <\/span><\/p>\n If your partner insults and\/or is <\/span>ashamed of you for your appearance, weight, job, friends, or lifestyle choices<\/b>, they are being cruel and manipulative.<\/span><\/p>\n Does your partner put you above everything else?<\/span><\/p>\n Do they put a maximum value on you?<\/span><\/p>\n Does your spouse frequently bail on your plans to see their friends and they never invite you along? Although not possible at all times, y<\/span>our spouse must make you their number 1 priority<\/span><\/a> when you need them most.<\/span><\/p>\n The most important aspect of a relationship is trust and without <\/span>trust in a relationship<\/span><\/a>, the relationship is naught. <\/span>Most people lie to cover their backs<\/span><\/a>. It is one of the most common deal-breakers for people. <\/span><\/p>\n Some people can be very dominant and <\/span>controlling in a relationship<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n Does your partner try to use their dominative power over you? If yes, back out!<\/span><\/p>\n Always try to inquire whether your dating prospect is in another relationship with someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n Don’t be the girl or guy who gets cheated on, unless you both agree that exclusivity is not important to you.<\/span><\/p>\n You have to know whether <\/span>your spouse is swift to get angry<\/span><\/a> and how they explode whenever they are angry.<\/span><\/p>\n Do they talk to you about whatever is wrong or right in the relationship?<\/span><\/p>\n One of the common relationship deal breakers is someone who is unwilling to talk to you about pertaining issues.<\/span><\/p>\n According to <\/span>Maggie Martinez<\/span><\/a>, a licensed clinical social worker:<\/span><\/p>\n Your partners may become defensive when being faced with something you would like to see changed. This is not a sign of effective communication.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n You should be with someone that wants to<\/span> communicate effectively with you<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/span>What is a deal-breaker in a relationship<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>1. Do they abuse you<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>2. Do they have an alcohol or drug problem<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>3. Is your partner supportive<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>4. Are you your spouse’s priority<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>5. Does your spouse lie to you<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>6. Do they try to control you<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>7. Is your spouse in another relationship<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>8. How is your spouse’s temperament<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>9. How well does your spouse communicate with you<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>10. Do you fight a lot<\/span><\/h2>\n
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