

{"id":1784,"date":"2015-08-31T10:49:38","date_gmt":"2015-08-31T10:49:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=1784"},"modified":"2024-05-20T11:36:57","modified_gmt":"2024-05-20T11:36:57","slug":"signs-you-may-be-falling-out-of-love-in-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/signs-you-may-be-falling-out-of-love-in-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Signs You May Be Falling Out of Love in Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1834 size-full\" title=\"signs that you may be falling out of love\" src=\"http:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/lack-of-love.jpg\" alt=\"signs that you may be falling out of love\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are<\/span><b> instances in your life<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when you might feel that <\/span><b>everything is falling apart<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and you are <\/span><b>falling out of love in marriage<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Trust me! You are not the only one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most people can easily recognize the signs that <\/span><b>they are falling in love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, especially in a new <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. But the signs that you are falling out of love in a marriage, or any other relationship that has been continuing for a while, are not always the easiest to spot or recognize.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Lack of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/sexual-attraction\/\">sexual attraction<\/a><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><b>emotional connectedness<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are two of the most common factors contributing to the loss of love in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Falling out of love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is also not as uncommon as most people think. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wf-lawyers.com\/divorce-statistics-and-facts\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> says, nearly 50% of all marriages in the United States will end in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">divorce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. The same study estimates that 41% of all first marriages end in marital <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/separation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">separation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nearly an average of 66% of women have filed for divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lib.dr.iastate.edu\/cgi\/viewcontent.cgi?article=7728&amp;context=etd\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Falling out of love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can also lead to<\/span><b> disrupting the normal functioning<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of your mind and body. After all, our highest highs and lowest lows can be linked to a love relationship. You might have experienced the frequent loss of interest in day-to-day activities. This is nothing but a falling-out-of-love-in-marriage syndrome.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This also means you may be a step closer to <\/span><b>becoming a victim of depression<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and anxiety.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Reasons-for-falling-out-of-love-with-spouse\"><\/span>Reasons for falling out of love with spouse<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Marriages change over time<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You cannot expect the honeymoon phase to last forever, Right? And when you are in long-term relationships, <\/span><b>falling out of love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be quite an expected event.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you go looking for reasons, you are highly likely to come across a bundle of them. <\/span><b>Infidelity<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be an excellent reason to trigger feelings like falling-out-of-love-in-marriage in the betrayed partner. Then again, <\/span><b>infidelity and adultery<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be the <\/span><b>outcomes of passionless<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, loveless, and <\/span><b>sexless marriages<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s understand a few reasons before we begin identifying signs of falling out of love &ndash;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1-Parenthood\"><\/span>1. Parenthood<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-41655 size-full\" title=\"Parenthood\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Symbolic-representation.jpg\" alt=\"Parenthood\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><b>Catering to responsibilities<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that <\/span><b>come with raising a family<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You devote so much time to taking care of your kids that you hardly have enough time spared for your partner. And without realizing, you will find yourself falling out of love in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Raising children is a tough job<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. The little ones are more dependent on their mothers during their infancy. They hardly have time to spend on themselves, making love to their partner is the last thing that comes into their minds.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Slowly, they find themselves falling out of love with their husbands, and this behavior tends to affect the husbands in return.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quite a scary picture, you see!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2-You-have-stopped-caring-for-yourself\"><\/span><b>2. You have stopped caring for yourself<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is another reason why <\/span><b>people start falling out of love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in marriage. Gone are the days when you enjoyed dressing up and staying fit for your partner. But as the years went by and his position in your life became more permanent, you took a minimal interest in staying healthy and beautiful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, those efforts seem not so important to you anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And, long before you realize the damage done, you <\/span><b>start noticing signs<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> your <\/span><b>husband is falling out of love with you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/x7N2pu1EA1s\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-You-have-no-life\"><\/span>3.&nbsp;You have no life<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Start maintaining your life outside marriage<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This is a major blunder women usually commit once they settle into a relationship. But this very attitude can prove to be the final<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discarding your passion, hobbies, friends, and your hunger for life, in short sacrificing everything that defined you, will only push your husband away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not <\/span><b>falling out of love in marriage<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but you are encouraging your husband to look for better options than yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The reason behind men complaining about falling out of love can depend largely on their wives portraying this kind of attitude in life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, women buckle up!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These visible symptoms of falling out of love don&rsquo;t signify the end of marriage at all. Relationship expert, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/beyourownbrandofsexy.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suzanne Edelman<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> says, <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Most of these signs are fixable. You just have to be willing to openly discuss each issue and show you care enough to change the behavior<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But first, you have to <\/span><b>identify the signs<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of <\/span><b>falling out of love with someone<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs-you-are-falling-out-of-love\"><\/span>Signs you are falling out of love<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think that you may be falling out of love in marriage, <\/span><b>consider the following signs<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that might indicate<\/span><b> your feelings<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about your marriage relationship aren&rsquo;t what they used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1-Fewer-shared-interest-and-activities\"><\/span><b>1. Fewer shared interest and activities<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s <\/span><b>not unusual for couples<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to <\/span><b>have different interests<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or favorite activities such as one spouse who loves football and another who doesn&rsquo;t. But for a <\/span><b>couple in love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, these<\/span><b> different interests don&rsquo;t present conflict<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, couples may often share activities even though they aren&rsquo;t necessarily enjoyable to them, such as taking a partner to the opera despite not enjoying it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are falling out of love in marriage, however, you may notice that you are <\/span><b>spending less time doing shared activities<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or talking about shared interests.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2-No-expression-of-affection-towards-partner\"><\/span><b>2. No expression of affection towards partner<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is very common for <\/span><b>married couples<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to be very <\/span><b>affectionate and openly loving<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when they are newlyweds, only for the affection to level out over time&mdash;this isn&rsquo;t necessarily a bad thing and is usually just considered another stage in the development of a long-term relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if you find that you aren&rsquo;t expressing affection, enjoyment or gratitude to your partner very often&mdash;or significantly less often than you used to&mdash;then it may be a sign that you are falling out of love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially true if you <\/span><b>find yourself increasingly annoyed<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or irritated with your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-No-attempt-to-resolve-conflicts\"><\/span>3. No attempt to resolve conflicts<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-41272 size-full\" title=\"No attempt at resolving conflicts\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/3-Ultimate-Ways-to-Resolve-Marital-Conflicts-Like-a-Pro.jpg\" alt=\"No attempt at resolving conflicts\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples who are actively in love will almost always attempt to resolve conflicts in their relationships because they are invested in the relationship and naturally want the relationship to work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are falling out of love in marriage, however, you may find that you don&rsquo;t make the attempt to solve issues&mdash;in fact, you may begin to feel as if it&rsquo;s better to <\/span><b>just ignore the situation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> entirely, and that <\/span><b>resolving the conflict<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> isn&rsquo;t important in the long run.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, this has the side effect of making the relationship even more strained and troubled, which can result in a continuing loss of love towards your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-to-do-if-you-are-falling-out-of-love-in-marriage\"><\/span>What to do if you are falling out of love in marriage<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think that your feelings for your partner have diminished, you will have to make a very personal choice: you can either <\/span><b>work on attempting to rejuvenate your feelings<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or let the relationship go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Either option will require a lot of thinking or careful consideration, as both are serious steps which will impact your relationship and your life as a whole.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/marriage-assessment-quiz\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you feeling out of love? 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