{"id":1733,"date":"2015-08-26T11:11:52","date_gmt":"2015-08-26T11:11:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=1733"},"modified":"2022-11-09T12:58:40","modified_gmt":"2022-11-09T12:58:40","slug":"five-things-you-can-do-right-now-to-improve-your-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/five-things-you-can-do-right-now-to-improve-your-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Things You Can Do Right Now to Improve Your Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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When your marriage is in trouble, something as simple as negotiating how you’ll spend your weekend can feel daunting. It’s no surprise, then, that the prospect of steadily chipping away at your marital problems can feel downright intimidating.<\/span><\/p>\n

Saving your marriage<\/span><\/a> or<\/span> improving your marriage<\/b> doesn’t have to involve endless <\/span>therapy<\/span><\/a> sessions, late-night discussions, and sharing of painful feelings.. Sure, you need to get to the heart of your issues, but sometimes what makes a successful marriage is finding ways to enjoy life together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just like many other couples, you might be interested in knowing how to have a successful marriage or how to improve your marriage. You would definitely come across many successful marriage tips<\/a>, however, to understand how to make marriage better you need the utmost commitment to improve your marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n

With the assistance of these five ways to<\/span> improve your marriage<\/b>, you can feel a bit better about one another, enabling you to finally begin working on long-standing challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recommended – <\/b>Save My Marriage Course<\/b><\/a><\/h3>\n

<\/span>1. Schedule time together<\/span><\/h2>\n

Sure, spontaneity can be romantic, but when you’ve got kids to tend to, a demanding career, and a never-ending to-do list; it’s easy for time with your spouse to fall by the wayside.<\/span><\/p>\n

Research suggests<\/span><\/a> that couples who schedule a weekly date night are happier in their marriages and have more sex. Pencil your spouse into your weekend and you may finally get a reminder of why you fell in love.<\/span><\/p>\n

The fluidity of any husband and wife relationship or the art of a good marriage is contingent on how consistently a couple is able to spend quality time with one another, away from any distractions. <\/span><\/p>\n

And yes it would not always be easy to set aside your daily routines and forget about the worries of your life, but you most definitely would have to make some hard choice for a <\/span>better marriage. <\/b><\/p>\n

<\/span>2. Do something nice for your spouse<\/span><\/h2>\n

It’s easy to get wrapped up in the ways your spouse has done you wrong. Marriage is full of tiny insults. After all, no one is perfect. But reflecting on what your spouse does wrong is a recipe for chronic resentment—the arch-nemesis of love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stop focusing on what your spouse should do for you, and do something nice for him or her each day. The positive feelings you’ll cultivate will improve your marriage, and may even inspire your spouse to do something nice for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Break the routine, even a simple gesture of cleaning the dishes or taking out the trash can make a world of difference especially with a <\/span>marriage in trouble.<\/b><\/p>\n

What makes a marriage last is when both of you are willing to set aside your comfort every now and then and go that extra mile which portrays how much you care about your life partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

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<\/span>3. Go on an adventure<\/span><\/h2>\n

Miss the romance you felt in the first days of your courtship? That “spark” you felt was actually the spark of anxiety and uncertainty. Marriage may be safe and certain, but that certainty comes at the expense of the excitement of new <\/span>romance<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Get the spark back by doing something that makes you both anxious. Try signing up for a dance class, going rock climbing, taking the plunge on the trip you’ve been planning, or even embarking on a new sexual adventure.<\/span><\/p>\n

Breaking the monotony of mundane life is essential for <\/span>improving marriages<\/b>, just think of it as a way to bring back the lost spark. Going on an adventure would help both of you realize what there is to marriage and life.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>4. Share why you love one another<\/span><\/h2>\n

It’s easy for petty complaints and criticisms to take on a life of their own after years of marriage. Odds are good that you can itemize dozens of things your spouse does that annoys you, and you probably have a good idea of the myriad things you do that annoy him or her as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Get out of the negativity trap<\/b> by sitting down and taking turns sharing what you love about one another. You can get even more traction from this exercise by leaving your spouse a sticky note sharing reasons for your love every day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even better, write him or her an old-fashioned love letter. By focusing on the positive, you may find that you’re happier in your marriage, even when nothing else changes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Always remember that everyone likes to hear how and why someone loves them.<\/span><\/p>\n

And even though you might already know everything there is to know about each other, still sharing why after all this time that you love them would definitely make them more confident and secure about themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>5. Schedule sex<\/span><\/h2>\n

You already know that scheduling date night can make a huge difference in your marital satisfaction, so if sex has taken a backseat to the pressures of everyday life, why not schedule that, too?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sex isn’t a luxury; it’s a key component in your bond, so if you’ve been neglecting your <\/span>sex life<\/span><\/a>, don’t expect your marriage to get better.<\/span><\/p>\n

The key to scheduled sex is to make it as low-stress as possible. Send the kids to grandma and grandpa’s house and wait until you have several hours free of distractions. Then dedicate as much time as you need to engage in quality sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t shy away<\/b> from asking for what you need. For example, does engaging conversation get you going? Then plan for meaningful discussion, making sure you’ve scheduled enough time for the chatting and the sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes it can take a bit of effort to get back into the swing of marital sex, so this first scheduled sex session should be designed to meet both of your needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

It takes two to create a problem marriage, so if you’re having trouble getting along with your spouse, don’t just point the finger at him or her. By making a few small changes on your own, you really can rediscover the partner you once found thrilling and can <\/span>improve your marriage.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When your marriage is in trouble, something as simple as negotiating how you’ll spend your weekend can feel daunting. It’s no surprise, then, that the prospect of steadily chipping away at your marital problems can feel downright intimidating. Saving your marriage or improving your marriage doesn’t have to involve endless therapy sessions, late-night discussions, and sharing of painful feelings.. Sure, you need to get to the heart of your issues, but sometimes what makes a successful marriage is finding ways to enjoy life together. Just like many other couples, you might be interested in knowing how to have a successful <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1734,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[16],"tags":[2678],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1733"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":57417,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions\/57417"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1734"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}