

{"id":17158,"date":"2017-09-06T09:55:57","date_gmt":"2017-09-06T09:55:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=17158"},"modified":"2025-11-24T08:53:10","modified_gmt":"2025-11-24T08:53:10","slug":"the-true-meaning-of-being-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-true-meaning-of-being-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"The True Meaning of Being in a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68005\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/happy-couple-6.jpg\" alt=\"Happy couple on a beach vacation\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does it mean to be in a relationship?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Defining a romantic relationship or being in a relationship may seem like a trivial task, but in reality, when we engage in one, we get so caught up in it that it becomes difficult to remember what it is truly supposed to be about.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes it&rsquo;s because we jump from one short relationship to another when none of them feels right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes it&rsquo;s because we&rsquo;ve struggled in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-turn-a-toxic-relationship-into-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">toxic relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for such a long time that dissatisfaction started to feel normal, or because we are so deeply in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that it blinds us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;\">To get back on the right course,&nbsp;<strong>we need to remind ourselves of the priorities<\/strong> and the signs of a healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-the-meaning-of-a-relationship\"><\/span>What is the meaning of a relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is important to touch base with what it means to be in a relationship. Here is a shot at summing up the real relationship meaning.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The meaning of being in love means <\/span><b>being there for each other<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, through thick and thin<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Striking the <\/span><b>balance between freedom and bondage<\/b><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Being vulnerable and having faith in each other<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, embracing the good and bad gracefully<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maintaining <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au\/health\/healthyliving\/relationships-and-communication\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">open and honest <\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with each other<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Giving each other space to pursue individual interests<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and allowing time to miss each other<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Motivating each other to be the best version of ourselves<\/b><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some, the definition of being in a relationship is <\/span><b>celebrating the tiny victories and helping each other overcome setbacks<\/b><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The meaning of a relationship lies in <\/span><b>dedication towards your partner and the partnership<\/b><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does a relationship mean for elderly couples? It is <\/span><b>companionship and sharing mutually enjoyed activities<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some useful insights to help you remember the true meaning of being in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understanding-each-other\"><\/span>Understanding each other<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a relationship not only means<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/couples-quiz-how-well-do-you-know-your-partner\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> knowing each other really well<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, for example, knowing the name of your partner&rsquo;s childhood pet, a favorite book, or what they hate about college or work, but it also means deeply understanding each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should know <\/span><b>what life goals and aspirations drive your partner, the values they cherish, their hopes and fears, their biggest virtues and flaws, and things they like and dislike<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about themselves.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;\">Only when you truly&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/understand-your-partner\/\" target=\"_blank\">understand your partner<\/a> can you understand their actions and therefore support them for who they are, no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Admiring-each-other\"><\/span>Admiring each other<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there is something that your partner does that you can&rsquo;t do or is good at something that you&rsquo;re not, and you admire them for that, it is a sign of a healthy bond.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every partner should feel like the other partner is someone worth admiring and they look up to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Having someone beside you that you could learn from constantly is a treasure you should preserve.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> This way, you point out the best in your partner and make them feel more confident.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If both partners learn from each other, admire each other for that knowledge, together they walk towards an improved version of themselves and eventually become wiser and healthier.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Admiration is one of the keys to keeping the spark alive.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/K1m5bw51UFM\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Having-fun-together\"><\/span>Having fun together<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We sometimes tend to forget this important ingredient. What is a relationship without fun? <\/span><b>If your partner makes you crack up, you are on the right track.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Developing your own language and having your own little jokes that nobody else understands; waiting to get home from work because you know that the time spent with your loved one is going to be enjoyable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;\">Having many&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/things-to-do-as-a-couple\/\" target=\"_blank\">activities that you like doing together<\/a> is a sign that you are a duo that can provide some positive energy and truly enjoy each other&rsquo;s company.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are feeling down, your partner can make you smile easily, and that&rsquo;s exactly how it should be, not the other way around.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Being-affectionate-with-each-other\"><\/span>Being affectionate with each other<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-47757 size-full\" title=\"Being affectionate with each other\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/being-affectionate-with-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"Being affectionate with each other\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy relationship<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, there&rsquo;s not a day that passes by in which partners don&rsquo;t say a kind word to each other, hug, or kiss. They should be all over each other and enjoy exploring each other&rsquo;s bodies.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Affection is what divides a romantic bond from a friendship<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner should be attractive to you and light up a fire inside of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, in long relationships, it is not so obvious, but it is important that it is still there, even if that feeling is dormant, and that your partner can still make butterflies flutter in your stomach from time to time.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em>Related Reading: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/types-of-relationships\/\"><em>Types of Relationships<\/em><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Taking-care-of-your-relationship\"><\/span>Taking care of your relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is a relationship if there is no empathy and a sense of responsibility toward nurturing the relationship?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both individuals should understand their responsibility to make it work and always try to be the best partner they can be in a true relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a relationship means not trying to fix the other person to satisfy one&rsquo;s own needs.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/developing-acceptance-skills-in-a-relationship\/\">They accept the other person for what they are<\/a> and help them if they can, but don&rsquo;t try to control or fix them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing your boundaries and limits in a relationship, being aware that you can always self-develop, and that your partner is never going to be perfect, is the key to a relationship full of respect and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/lesley.edu\/article\/the-psychology-of-emotional-and-cognitive-empathy\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">empathy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Being-a-team\"><\/span>Being a team<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-47758 size-full\" title=\"Being a team\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/being-a-team.jpg\" alt=\"Being a team\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p>What is a true relationship?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In essence, A true relationship does not happen overnight; it is <\/span><b>cumulative of healthy communication, care, intimacy, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/liberalarts.du.edu\/psychology\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><b>companionship<\/b><\/a><b>, deep love, mutual understanding, help, and unflinching support.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Both should smile together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are in a real relationship with someone that you respect, care for, admire, and look up to, and if it is mutual, you can be sure that you are in a happy, healthy place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a relationship means being on the same team and maintaining a healthy, trusting <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/238396582_Role_of_Friendship_Trust_and_Love_in_Strong_Latino_Marriages\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marital friendship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always work hard on your relationship because you care about it and want to nurture it, not because you want it to survive one more day or a week. <\/span><b>You and your partner are a team that fights together against the barriers that life throws at you, and for your goals and dreams.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Both of you must try to create the best versions of yourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner is someone who makes you smile when you are feeling down, who understands you when you can&rsquo;t even understand yourself, that brings up the best in you, teaches you valuable lessons, and can&rsquo;t wait to get home to you, then your relationship is what it is truly supposed to be about.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What does it mean to be in a relationship? Defining a romantic relationship or being in a relationship may seem like a trivial task, but in reality, when we engage in one, we get so caught up in it that it becomes difficult to remember what it is truly supposed to be about.&nbsp; Sometimes it&rsquo;s because we jump from one short relationship to another when none of them feels right. Sometimes it&rsquo;s because we&rsquo;ve struggled in a toxic relationship for such a long time that dissatisfaction started to feel normal, or because we are so deeply in love that it <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1391,"featured_media":68005,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2498],"tags":[2585],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17158"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1391"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17158"}],"version-history":[{"count":21,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17158\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":114095,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17158\/revisions\/114095"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68005"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}