

{"id":15385,"date":"2017-05-18T11:01:23","date_gmt":"2017-05-18T11:01:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=15385"},"modified":"2024-10-24T07:19:34","modified_gmt":"2024-10-24T07:19:34","slug":"9-tips-for-coping-with-wifes-affair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/9-tips-for-coping-with-wifes-affair\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Tips for Coping With Wife\u2019s Affair"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-51230 size-full\" title=\"Tips for Coping With Wife&rsquo;s Affair\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Tips-for-Coping-With-Wife%E2%80%99s-Affair.jpg\" alt=\"Tips for Coping With Wife&rsquo;s Affair\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your wife is having an affair, or your partner is involved with someone else, it may feel like everything is falling apart. The foundation of your marriage is shaken, and it&rsquo;s completely normal to feel hurt, angry, betrayed, and raw.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might be asking yourself what to do now or how to deal with a cheating wife. You&rsquo;ll most likely be considering whether or not to leave your unfaithful wife.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing what to do is hard when you find out you&rsquo;ve been cheated on. In the beginning, however hard you try, you might find that you can&rsquo;t get over your wife&rsquo;s infidelity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, how to get over the wife&rsquo;s affair?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting over your wife&rsquo;s affair is going to be an arduous task. But hold on to your hopes tightly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, you need time to process what has happened and be kind to yourself as you move forward. But, if you have decided to stay back in the marriage, make sure to put in your best efforts.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-the-signs-of-a-wife-cheating\"><\/span><b>What are the signs of a wife cheating?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KFbjXHIkKpI?si=2Be71F7fcJ6LrrbR\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you almost felt, &ldquo;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">my wife is having an affair, but I&rsquo;m not sure?&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before you try to understand what you can do to cope with your wife&rsquo;s affair, it is important to understand if, at all, she is having one.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What are the signs your wife is cheating on you?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Is she really cheating on you, or is your relationship just broken?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some signs you should look out for.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You notice she has fallen out of love with you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She asks for more privacy than she ever did before<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She lies to you about where she is or who she is with<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She hides her phone from you<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To know more about the signs of a cheating wife, read <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/female-infidelity-signs\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">here.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-deal-with-your-wife-having-an-affair\"><\/span><b>How to deal with your wife having an affair<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-51231 size-full\" title=\"Accept your feelings\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Accept-your-feelings.jpg\" alt=\"Accept your feelings\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are nine tips to put all your racing thoughts on coping with a cheating wife to rest. Use this advice to deal with your wife&rsquo;s affair and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/stages-of-healing-after-an-affair\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">support your healing process<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Don&rsquo;t make any quick decisions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b><i>How to get over a cheating wife?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you first find out about your wife&rsquo;s affair, it&rsquo;s normal to react with, &ldquo;That&rsquo;s it, I&rsquo;m leaving!&rdquo; It&rsquo;s reasonable to respond, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ll do anything to improve this.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The important thing is not to make any quick decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Processing the emotional fallout of an affair takes time.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&rsquo;ll need time to get calmer and work through your intense emotions. You can only get the clarity you need to decide on your future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Work through the initial shock and betrayal first before trying to decide on what to do next.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Take good care of yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The stress of discovering infidelity takes a toll on your physical health as well as your emotional health. Now is the time to take good care of yourself physically.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That means eating healthy food, getting regular fresh air and exercise, and doing your best to get a good night&rsquo;s sleep.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You probably won&rsquo;t feel like doing any of those things right now, but they&rsquo;ll help you heal and reduce stress so you can handle the situation better.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/steps-to-practice-self-love\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">30 Ways to Practice Self-Love and Be Good to Yourself<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>3. Accept your feeling<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b><i>How to get over wife&rsquo;s affair?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are no &ldquo;bad feelings.&rdquo; Feeling everything from rage and grief to bitterness, despair, or hope is normal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever you feel, accept it. It&rsquo;s normal to feel this way when you confront the harsh reality and affirm that your wife is having an affair!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can help to keep a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/how-to-share-your-feelings-with-your-spouse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">journal to express your feelings<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Writing things down brings clarity that thinking or talking sometimes doesn&rsquo;t.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Seek professional help<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b><i>How to get over your wife having an affair?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t try to go through the pain of your wife&rsquo;s affair all by yourself. Whether you see a therapist alone or go to couples therapy with your wife, getting professional help is a wise choice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therapists are trained to support you as you work through your feelings and figure out what you want and need to heal.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/infidelity\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seeking therapy for infidelity<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will help you clarify how to cope with a cheating wife.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Be honest<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to handle an affair? Honesty may be the best policy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be honest with yourself about your relationship. Ask yourself what you need to heal the relationship and get back to a point where you can trust your wife and enjoy her company.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be honest with your wife, too. Let her know what you need.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will have some hard discussions about your wife&rsquo;s affair, but complete honesty now is vital if you both want to move forward.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-be-honest-in-a-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> How to Be Honest in a Relationship: 10 Practical Ways<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>6. Keep up hobbies and friendships<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Working through the aftermath of an affair can feel all-consuming.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes a lot of mental and emotional energy to process your feelings and talk to your wife about the affair and the future of your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/topics\/stress\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><b>Constant stress<\/b><\/a><b> is bad for your mental and physical health.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Combat the effects by making time for positive activities and interactions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep up with the hobbies you enjoy, or<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/articles\/healthy-living\/the-mental-health-benefits-of-exercise.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> get out and exercise<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You might not feel like it, but you&rsquo;ll be glad you did.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep up your friendships, too. You might not want to talk about your marriage problems to everyone (in fact, talking to too many people can make it harder to figure out what you need) but do confide in a trusted friend.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And even when you&rsquo;re not talking about your problems, being around good friends will support you and enliven your spirits.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Don&rsquo;t play the blame game<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel you can&rsquo;t get over your wife&rsquo;s infidelity, it may be essential to consider this tip.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter what was going on in your marriage before your wife&rsquo;s affair, she ultimately decided to go ahead.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Blaming yourself or her will only make things feel more hopeless and cause you more pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Blaming your wife won&rsquo;t help, either. Yes, she made a terrible decision, but the key to healing is dropping the blame game so you can focus on what you need.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The blame game is especially damaging if you want to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/6-ways-to-successfully-fix-save-a-broken-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">save your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-stop-the-blame-game-in-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Stop the Blame Game in Your Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>8. Give yourself time<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with an affair can be difficult.It takes time to heal from infidelity. Don&rsquo;t expect to be over it in a week, a month, or even a year.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t try to time your healing process.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be honest with yourself and your wife, keep working through your feelings, and accept that it will take time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t rush yourself. Let the process take as long as it needs to take.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Be open to forgiveness<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you stay with your wife or not, forgiveness will help you heal and leave the affair&rsquo;s pain behind you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forgiveness doesn&rsquo;t mean condoning what happened.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It simply means letting it go, so it&rsquo;s no longer an open wound that continues to hurt you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video to help you forgive your spouse after the affair.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/FNa8nYnposM\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coping with your wife&rsquo;s affair is painful and can feel like there&rsquo;s no end in sight.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take good care of your physical health and let yourself feel and express your feelings so you can start the healing process.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-not-to-do-after-finding-out-about-your-wife%E2%80%99s-affair\"><\/span><b>What not to do after finding out about your wife&rsquo;s affair?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that you know how to cope with your wife&rsquo;s affair, it is also vital to know the don&rsquo;ts in such a situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What to do when your wife has an affair?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What things should you not do after you find out about your wife&rsquo;s infidelity?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Think that you are alone<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often, we can end up in situations where we feel that it is only happening to us and that no one else will understand what we are going through. However, you will be surprised to know how many people go through the same things as you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As much as we may not want it, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/causes-of-infidelity-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">infidelity in relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is not a new concept. Therefore, more people know what it feels like to have a spouse cheat on you. Reaching out for help may not be such a bad idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Let someone else take the call for you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your wife cheated on you, you must decide what course you want to take. Do not let family, parents, or friends decide what you should do.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While these people may want the best for you, they cannot decide for you. You must think about what you want and go ahead with it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Do not try to self-medicate<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional turmoil like infidelity can break the relationship and adversely affect a person&rsquo;s mental health. If you feel your mental state is adversely affected by the incident, it is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">best to seek professional help.&nbsp;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What you should not do, is self-medicate, as it can lead to addictions and other health problems.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Do not stalk her or her new partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your wife cheated on you and is still seeing the person she cheated on you with, it is very natural for you to feel the urge to stalk her or her new partner. However, it would help if you didn&rsquo;t do so. This will only harm your mind and healing and will do no good.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If needed, getting off social media may also be a good idea for a little bit.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Do not act on impulse or rage<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anger, when you have been cheated on, is a natural emotion. However, we end up doing a lot of harm when we are angry, much of which we will regret later.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how furious you feel, please do not act on it in ways that can be dangerous. These include getting violent with your wife&rsquo;s new partner or harming them in any way.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/coping-with-anger-in-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feel anger towards your wife<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, ensure that you do not act on any impulse that can be violent or dangerous to her.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-51232 size-full\" title=\"Don&rsquo;t play the blame game\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Don%E2%80%99t-play-the-blame-game.jpg\" alt=\"Don&rsquo;t play the blame game\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some frequently asked questions about coping with a wife&rsquo;s affair.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Can a marriage survive a cheating wife?<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The answer to this question is both complex and simple. It can be both a yes, and a no.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether or not your marriage can survive after your wife cheats on you depends on both of you and if or not you want to give your marriage another chance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some factors that can play a role in this are<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Was the cheating a one-time thing, or was it a long affair?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does your wife still want to be in the marriage?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you still want to be in the marriage?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>2. How do I act around my cheating wife?<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have found out that your spouse or wife is cheating on you, and are unsure of what to do around them, here are some things to keep in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Do not try to reason, beg, or implore<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you ask them to stay, the more they will likely go away from you. Moreover, as much as you may feel that this is what you want, a little distance may help you see things more clearly.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Do not call them frequently or obsessively when they are not around you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Calling them too much to check where they are and who they are with may be a natural emotion for you, but it is best not to do it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Do not ask for reassurance<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While a little reassurance from your partner may feel like a respite at this time, you will not believe them unless your relationship is fixed. So, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/reassurance-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">seeking reassurance<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> may be futile.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Do not taunt or call them names<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Name-calling or giving them remarks about their cheating will do no good for either you or the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Do not force a conversation about the past or the future<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would help if you did not try to force a conversation about the past or the future with your partner when you find out about your wife cheating on you. Giving yourself and them the time to deal with what has happened is essential.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The-takeaway\"><\/span><b>The takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating and infidelity can be difficult to deal with, let alone cope with. They can break a relationship or marriage, but sometimes, they are still salvageable. If you feel your marriage can be saved, it is advisable to work with a professional to repair your damage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If your wife is having an affair, or your partner is involved with someone else, it may feel like everything is falling apart. The foundation of your marriage is shaken, and it&rsquo;s completely normal to feel hurt, angry, betrayed, and raw. You might be asking yourself what to do now or how to deal with a cheating wife. You&rsquo;ll most likely be considering whether or not to leave your unfaithful wife. Knowing what to do is hard when you find out you&rsquo;ve been cheated on. In the beginning, however hard you try, you might find that you can&rsquo;t get over <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":15386,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[23],"tags":[2688],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15385"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15385"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15385\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":105174,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15385\/revisions\/105174"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}