{"id":15025,"date":"2017-04-27T10:43:26","date_gmt":"2017-04-27T10:43:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=15025"},"modified":"2023-07-04T08:31:11","modified_gmt":"2023-07-04T08:31:11","slug":"husband-infidelity-signs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/husband-infidelity-signs\/","title":{"rendered":"Husband Infidelity Signs: How to Know If Your Man Is Cheating"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Do you suspect that your husband is unfaithful to you? Do you happen to see any husband infidelity signs of late?<\/span><\/p>\n

Cheating is hurtful and detrimental to a marriage. The act of intimate betrayal in a marriage can take decades to recover from it if you choose to stay together at all. <\/span><\/p>\n

If your heart is telling you that your husband is unfaithful, you should start listening. You’ll also want to learn about husband infidelity signs and what to do about them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Contrary to popular belief, not all men are cheaters. If you suspect your man is unfaithful, don’t give in to unfounded jealousy. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, is he cheating? And, how to tell if he’s cheating?<\/p>\n

Well, here are the standard husband infidelity signs to keep a lookout for before confronting your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>He has a different schedule<\/span><\/h2>\n

After being together for some time now, you know your husband’s routine. You know when he’s tired, happy, excited, and what his patterns are. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you notice a distinct shift in his everyday behavior with no real reason behind i<\/strong>t (such as troubles with his family, friends, or work), then these could be the signs that he is cheating<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

And, these are the husband infidelity signs, especially if he does not have an explanation for this shift in behavior!<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>He wants more alone time<\/span><\/h2>\n

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One of the big husband infidelity signs is that he wants more time alone. This is especially troublesome if you are living together. <\/span><\/p>\n

While we all need time to ourselves to practice our hobbies, meditate, and be with friends, spending too much time apart from your mate can be damaging to your relationship<\/a>. If this is out of the norm behavior for him, consider this as a sign of a cheating husband.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your husband is not verbally requesting more time away or making more plans with “friends,”<\/strong> you may simply notice he disappears more often<\/strong>. His bathroom trips may get longer, he spends more time at work, or he goes on long “drives” or jogs.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>Change in sexual style or preference<\/span><\/h2>\n

A change in sexual appetite can go one way or the other if your husband is having an affair. Some men experience a rush of testosterone while they are having affairs, leading to an increased sex drive<\/a>, with both you and the other person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Other men may display a lack of interest in having sex with you due to guilt, or simply because he is fascinated with someone else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever his reaction, if you notice a severe change in sexual appetite or style during sex, you should keep your eyes peeled<\/strong> for other physical signs he’s cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>His cell is under lock and key<\/span><\/h2>\n

You may not have “spied” on your husband by checking his phone, but odds are you have probably played on his phone one time or another. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, how to know he is cheating?<\/p>\n

If you have both had an open policy with your devices and now he seems to be reneging on the deal, then there may be trouble afoot. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he is taking phone calls in private and is no longer comfortable with you checking his texts, photos, or social media<\/a> on his devices, there is a strong possibility he is doing something you wouldn’t approve of.<\/span><\/p>\n

Watch out for these husband infidelity signs, and get enough proofs before rushing to any conclusion.<\/p>\n

<\/span>He’s experiencing mood swings<\/span><\/h2>\n

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Even at the slightest hint that you want an explanation for his behavior or whereabouts, he snaps at you, and suddenly, you are arguing about the smallest things. <\/span><\/p>\n

When men are under pressure or are experiencing guilt, they may pick a fight with you for seemingly no reason at all. This is also a sign that he has grown annoyed with you, possibly because his affections are being showered on someone else. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if your husband is overly nice out of the blue, you may be experiencing a different side of his guilty conscience.<\/span><\/p>\n

In either case, you need to be watchful. After all, these are the possible signs, and your husband is having an affair.<\/p>\n

<\/span>His spending has changed<\/span><\/h2>\n

Have you noticed a drop in funds, as of late? If your husband is seeing someone else, he may be showering the person with meals, gifts, hotel expenses, and events. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, how to find out if he is cheating?<\/p>\n

If your husband can’t identify where X amount of money has gone, it may be because he has given it to someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, watch the following video on rethinking infidelity for deeper insights into the complex emotions.<\/p>\n