

{"id":11541,"date":"2016-12-02T10:46:45","date_gmt":"2016-12-02T10:46:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=11541"},"modified":"2025-04-03T04:37:46","modified_gmt":"2025-04-03T04:37:46","slug":"financial-abuse-in-a-marriage-what-you-need-to-know-and-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/financial-abuse-in-a-marriage-what-you-need-to-know-and-do\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Signs of Financial Abuse in Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-11542 size-full alignnone\" title=\"Financial Abuse in a Marriage\" src=\"http:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/2nd-3.jpg\" alt=\"Financial Abuse in a Marriage\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The scenario of financial abuse in marriage is all too common and all too chilling. Financial abuse is a very sick dynamic in a marriage. It can look like any of the following<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every expenditure is aggressively accounted for. Purchases at grocery stores and other venues are vigorously tracked, with the &ldquo;buyer&rdquo; given just enough money to complete the task.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other expenditures like health care expenses, clothing, and the like are discouraged. If a partner does not comply with these rigid demands, there is a &ldquo;price&rdquo; to pay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s be clear as we begin to talk about spousal financial abuse and delve deep into the dynamics of a financially abusive<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial bullying in marriage is a subset of<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/signs-you-are-experiencing-emotional-and-mental-abuse\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and can be just as corrosive as<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/defining-physical-abuse\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">physical abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this article, we&rsquo;re going to study the major signs of financial abuse in marriage and ways to deal with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-financial-abuse-in-a-marriage\"><\/span><b>What is financial abuse in a marriage?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/6472JwzNdAs?si=jajLrjiaI2Oc3qHU\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial abuse definition<\/span><b> translates into one partner exercising control over the other partner&rsquo;s access to financial resources<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, which diminishes the abused partner&rsquo;s capacity to be financially self-sufficient and forces them to depend on the perpetrator financially.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A partner in a <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-that-you-are-living-in-a-toxic-marriage\/\"><b>toxic marriage<\/b><\/a><b> attempts to assert control by taking overall assets<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. The underlying intent of the financially abusive partner is clear: keep the spouse from having the means to leave the union.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When one spouse creates a situation in which the other spouse does not have access to liquid assets, financial abuse, <\/span><b>also known as economic abuse<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, is in play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial abuse by a spouse is a silent weapon in a relationship and comes with serious consequences for the marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-some-examples-of-financial-abuse\"><\/span><b>What are some examples of financial abuse?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial abuse encompasses various harmful behaviors aimed at controlling or exploiting someone financially.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Examples include <\/span><b>restricting access to money, controlling all financial decisions, withholding funds for basic needs, forbidding employment, stealing or misusing assets, coercing into debt, or using financial dependence<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to manipulate and maintain power in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are all signs of financial abuse in marriage that need to be worked upon immediately.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-33858 size-full\" title=\"Anger with spending that benefits the abused one\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Why-Couples-Fight.jpg\" alt=\"Anger with spending that benefits the abused one\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-signs-of-financial-abuse-in-marriage\"><\/span><b>10 signs of financial abuse in marriage<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By taking stock of the early warning signs of financial abuse in marriage, you can find ways to escape the trap of money abuse in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s take a look at the signs and symptoms of financial abuse in relationships, and consider some ways to counter economic abuse in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Denial of access<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first among the signs of financial abuse in marriage is limited or no access to assets. If your partner does not provide you with free access to your money, this is a cause for concern.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While marital assets come from a variety of streams, they are marital assets. Not being able to access these funds when the need arises is a significant<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/red-flags-to-take-immediate-note-of\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">red flag in your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/the-two-kinds-of-abusers\/\" title=\"The Two Kinds of Abusers: Why It Is Hard to Leave Them\">The Two Kinds of Abusers: Why It Is Hard to Leave Them<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Intense monitoring of spending<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A spouse that requires a detailed expense report of marital finances, receipts, and anecdotal descriptions of your spending is a spouse with pronounced control issues. This hawk-eyed approach is one of the key financial abuse signs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Further, requiring that you remit every penny of change after expenditure is an area of concern. Monitoring is compounded by the advent of digital accounts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because digital interfaces afford consumers &ldquo;Real-Time&rdquo; monitoring of financial transactions and balances, the scrutiny from the one perpetrating financial abuse in marriage can be even more pronounced.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are just some of the glaring financial abuse in marriage facts.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/5-reasons-of-abuse-in-a-marriage\/\" title=\"6 Reasons of Spousal Abuse In A Marriage\">6 Reasons of Spousal Abuse In A Marriage<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>3. Unhappy with spending that benefits the abused<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you spend money on yourself for clothing, entertainment, food and the like and your partner goes nuclear, you have a problem as this can be one of the signs of financial abuse in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is nothing wrong with engaging in<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-pillars-of-self-care\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">self-care<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and spending a little bit of money to make it possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gauge the reaction of your partner when you report an expenditure. Is he furious? Run!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Your partner gives you an allowance<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not a child &ldquo;earning your keep&rdquo; or attempting to curry some favor with your intimate partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s not okay for your spouse to give you an allowance as this is derogatory and clearly one of the signs of financial abuse in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Again, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.justia.com\/family\/divorce\/dividing-money-and-property\/separate-vs-marital-property-in-divorce\/#:~:text=Marital%20property%20is%20generally%20any,employment%20benefits%2C%20and%20other%20assets.\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marital assets<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are marital assets. You are entitled to spend the marital money so long as you are doing it in a healthy and communicative way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;ve been restricted to the predetermined, inflexible amount of financial support, something&rsquo;s not right.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Further, if the &ldquo;allowance&rdquo; is taken from you, something truly unsavory and concerning is afoot. Don&rsquo;t stand for it!<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/protect-yourself-from-an-abusive-partner\/\" title=\"Best Ways to Protect Yourself From an Abusive Partner\">Best Ways to Protect Yourself From an Abusive Partner<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Demanding repayment<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your spouse\/partner is not a savings and loan account. Treating them like one can be among the signs of financial abuse in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you make household purchases out of marital funds, it is quite inappropriate for the partner to ask for repayment of the funds. Unfortunately, this happens too often.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Further, some extremely nasty spouses demand interest on marital funds that are to be repaid.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, it&rsquo;s ridiculous and yes, you do not have to live with it.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/i-may-have-an-abusive-husband-what-do-i-do\/\" title=\"How to Deal With an Abusive Husband?\">How to Deal With an Abusive Husband?<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-30543 size-full\" title=\"Emotional abuse, physical abuse, and the like should not be tolerated under any circumstances\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Withholding-communication-can-create-more-tension-and-fuel-anger.jpg\" alt=\"Emotional abuse, physical abuse, and the like should not be tolerated under any circumstances\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Not approving you working outside<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often the financial abuse individuals endure morphs into something far more nefarious.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner will not let you work outside of the home, the issue runs far deeper than finances. A dangerous situation exists if you are unable to leave home.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No one should ever feel restricted in this way. Even if you are made to feel guilty about working, be on your guard. You should never be made to feel shame about wanting to work outside the home.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would also be helpful to become aware of some key<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/ncadv.org\/dynamics-of-abuse\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dynamics of abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a relationship and seek help.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/should-you-save-your-marriage-if-you-have-an-abusive-husband\/\" title=\"Should You Save Your Marriage If You Have an Abusive Husband?\">Should You Save Your Marriage If You Have an Abusive Husband?<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>7. The double standard<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes an<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/should-you-save-your-marriage-if-you-have-an-abusive-husband\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abusive partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will make a whopper of a purchase with your joint money after you&rsquo;ve bought something small for yourself. A major one among the signs of financial abuse in marriage!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A massive, unexpected purchase after a rough fight is an indicator of financial abuse. This is, of course, all about control.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your abusive partner cannot stand the thought of you doing something good for yourself that reaches beyond them. They need to get over it.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/\" title=\"Tips On Dealing With Domestic Violence &amp; Abuse\">Tips On Dealing With Domestic Violence &amp; Abuse<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>8. Coerced debt<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial abusers may force their partners to take on debt or use their partner&rsquo;s credit without their consent. This is a marriage financial abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They may manipulate the victim into signing loans or credit agreements, which can leave the victim burdened with financial obligations they did not willingly enter into.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Hiding financial information<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keeping financial information secret is a common tactic of financial abusers. They may conceal bank statements, bills, or other important financial documents, preventing the victim from gaining a clear understanding of their financial situation and making informed decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Gaslighting and minimizing financial concerns<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial abusers often downplay or dismiss their partner&rsquo;s legitimate financial concerns, making them feel guilty or irrational for raising such issues. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/health\/mind\/what-is-gaslighting\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gaslighting<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tactics, such as denying financial actions or distorting financial realities, are used to manipulate the victim&rsquo;s perception and maintain control over the financial narrative.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-11543 size-full alignnone\" title=\"When your Partner Gives You an Allowance\" src=\"http:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/4th-1.jpg\" alt=\"When your Partner Gives You an Allowance\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-to-do-if-you%E2%80%99re-experiencing-financial-abuse-in-your-marriage\"><\/span><b>What to do if you&rsquo;re experiencing financial abuse in your marriage?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re experiencing financial abuse in your marriage, it&rsquo;s important to take steps to protect yourself and regain control over your finances. Here are five things you can do:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Seek support<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or professionals who can provide emotional support and guidance. Consider contacting local domestic violence organizations or helplines specialized in assisting victims of financial abuse. They can offer resources, counseling, and legal advice tailored to your situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Educate yourself about your rights<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take the time to learn about your financial rights and the laws that protect you in cases of financial abuse. Research local laws on divorce, property division, and spousal support.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding your rights can empower you to make informed decisions and take appropriate action. Alternatively, you can also try to learn ways how to resolve financial conflict in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Secure your financial information<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Safeguard your personal financial information by creating passwords and securing your accounts. Monitor your credit report regularly to detect any unauthorized activity. If necessary, open a separate bank account that the abusive spouse cannot access, and consider redirecting important mail to a safe address.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Develop a safety plan<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Create a plan to ensure your safety and financial well-being. This may involve setting aside emergency funds in a secure location, gathering important documents (e.g., IDs, financial records, insurance policies), and establishing a support network of people you can rely on in times of need.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Consult a professional<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seek advice from <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marriage counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> professionals experienced in dealing with financial abuse, such as attorneys, financial advisors, or therapists. They can provide valuable guidance on legal options, financial planning, and emotional healing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consultation with an attorney can help you understand the legal steps to protect your rights and potentially initiate divorce or separation proceedings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video as 4 women share their stories about financial abuse:<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/AJuCGXN7L9Y\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-financial-red-flags-in-marriage\"><\/span><b>What are financial red flags in marriage?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial red flags in a marriage can include secretive or controlling behavior around money, excessive debt without clear explanations, unexplained financial transactions, a lack of transparency regarding financial decisions, unequal financial contributions, and the inability to discuss or address financial issues openly and honestly.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Step-out-of-the-abuse\"><\/span><b>Step out of the abuse<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If financial abuse in marriage is your reality and your partner exhibits the red-flag characteristics of an abuser, then choosing to leave the abuser and establishing a financial plan for survival is a must-have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breaking free from financial abuse may require careful planning and support. Prioritize your safety, well-being, and financial independence as you navigate this challenging situation.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The scenario of financial abuse in marriage is all too common and all too chilling. Financial abuse is a very sick dynamic in a marriage. It can look like any of the following Every expenditure is aggressively accounted for. Purchases at grocery stores and other venues are vigorously tracked, with the &ldquo;buyer&rdquo; given just enough money to complete the task. Other expenditures like health care expenses, clothing, and the like are discouraged. If a partner does not comply with these rigid demands, there is a &ldquo;price&rdquo; to pay. Let&rsquo;s be clear as we begin to talk about spousal financial abuse <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":11542,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[85],"tags":[2709],"class_list":["post-11541","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-domestic-violence-and-abuse","tag-recognize-the-signs","has_thumb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11541","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11541"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11541\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":108068,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11541\/revisions\/108068"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11542"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11541"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11541"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11541"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}