

{"id":1054,"date":"2015-07-28T10:40:51","date_gmt":"2015-07-28T10:40:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=1054"},"modified":"2026-03-30T09:07:34","modified_gmt":"2026-03-30T09:07:34","slug":"5-proven-solutions-to-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/5-proven-solutions-to-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Effective Solutions to Divorce to Save Your Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-1058 size-full alignnone\" title=\" Best solutions to your divorce problems\" src=\"http:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/5-Proven-Solutions-to-Divorce.jpg\" alt=\" Best solutions to your divorce problems\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are numerous causes and effects of divorce. According to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/nchs\/fastats\/marriage-divorce.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> DivorceStatistics.org<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, 40-50 percent of all first-time marriages will end in divorce. Although the reasons for divorce vary, some of the top reasons for divorce include poor communication, financial strain,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/recognize-intimacy-issues-and-get-closer-as-a-couple\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> intimacy issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, built-up resentment, and deep-rooted feelings of incompatibility.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Currently, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/nchs\/fastats\/marriage-divorce.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">as per CDC<\/a>, the divorce rate per 1000 married women is 16.9. Many experts feel that this is a much more accurate measure of true divorce rate than the crude rateThe divorce rate per 1000 married women is nearly double that of 1960, but down from the all-time high of 22.6 in the early 1980s. Almost 50 percent of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce or separation.<\/p>\n<p>Researchers estimate that 41 percent of all first marriages end in divorce. 60 percent of second marriages end in divorce. 73 percent of all third marriages end in divorce. The United States has the 6th highest divorce rate in the world.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Increased stress in a marriage and the inability of couples to work through their problems make it very difficult for them to find ways to prevent divorce. Moreover, you need to find what is the main reason for divorce before you seek out how can divorce be prevented.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s a certain degree of pressure in a relationship when couples try to find a solution to some<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/8-common-problems-in-married-life\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> common problems<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And sometimes, for one or both spouses, these problems can serve as the grounds for divorce.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, what seems to be the good reasons for divorce in a troubled marriage tends to affect your spouse, children, and your loved ones in a myriad of negative ways.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, read this article for solutions to divorce that can help you make your marriage healthier and more fulfilling.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/separation\/make-the-separation-process-successful\/\" title=\"5 Golden Rules to Make the Separation Process Successful\">5 Golden Rules to Make the Separation Process Successful<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-practical-solutions-to-divorce-that-can-save-marriages\"><\/span><b>10 practical solutions to divorce that can save marriages<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7IM0nikuPxM?si=KT5jZJrJk6_ChqVg\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6313686\/#:~:text=Research%20has%20documented%20that%20parental,)%2C%20and%20depressed%20mood2.\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> reveal that divorce can lead to all sorts of psychological and behavioral problems in children; it can also cause them to have relational issues with their parents, siblings, and others due to their fear of abandonment. Also, divorce can be detrimental to the health of separated spouses.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apart from individuals, divorce also has a profound effect on our society. Aside from the fact that divorce costs taxpayers as much as $25,000-30,000, studies indicate that people who are married tend to be far more productive at work than those who come from a broken relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For these reasons and so many others, it&rsquo;s best not to look at divorce as an answer to a hurting marriage; instead, seek out ways to learn how to prevent divorce. Here are five that can help you find solutions to divorce and, in turn, avoid divorce:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Go for counseling<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Out of all of the ways to learn how to fix a divorce that will be shared in this article, this may be the most effective one.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, there are a lot of couples who will wait until they feel totally hopeless within their relationship before even considering seeing a professional marriage counselor, but the reality is that it&rsquo;s healthy for most couples to go at least a couple of times per year.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That way, they can get tips and tools to either get viable remedies for the problems they are having or to make their marriage even stronger.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marriage counseling is proven to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/feeding-your-marriage-with-love-care-and-intimacy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> improve physical and emotional intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, increase communication, and establish an overall better connection between spouses, which enables you to find solutions to divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/separation\/handling-separation-without-emotional-breakdown\/\" title=\"6 Ways to Cope With Separation and Divorce\">6 Ways to Cope With Separation and Divorce<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Talk about your needs<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If one or both of you have<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/8-tips-to-improve-communication-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> problems communicating with one another<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, that&rsquo;s just one more reason why it&rsquo;s such a good idea to see a marriage counselor. But if you do feel like both of you are able to talk and listen pretty well, don&rsquo;t hesitate to share your needs.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, couples end up resenting each other simply because they feel like their needs are being ignored, or they are going unmet. Just because you and your spouse share the same house doesn&rsquo;t mean that you can read one another&rsquo;s minds.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever you&rsquo;re expecting from the relationship, it&rsquo;s important that you share it. Only through sharing can you ultimately find an appropriate solution to divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, You can set up regular meetings in a quiet and private environment, ensuring both you and your partner have adequate time to express yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Spend more quality time together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a lot of couples who are not happy in their marriage simply because they don&rsquo;t feel like they relate to one another anymore. This can happen when things like financial pressures, hectic schedules, and their children&rsquo;s needs take precedence over spending time with one another.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, you can prioritize going on dates, taking vacations, and making<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/prioritize-your-relationship-partner-and-sexual-connection\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sex a priority in your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Don&rsquo;t treat these as &ldquo;luxuries.&rdquo; In order for a marriage to be healthy and lasting, these must be treated as <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">necessities<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Get some accountability and support<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although your spouse should be your main accountability partner, also look for some other married couples who can help to hold you accountable as well. Accountable to what? Accountable to the vows that you took on your wedding day.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone needs friends and mentors who can serve as a support system, and this is especially the case when it comes to married people.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, couples see divorce as their only solution because they don&rsquo;t have others around them to remind them that there are other solutions to divorce, ones that usually prove to be far better.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/separation\/separating-to-save-your-marriage\/\" title=\"10 Ways On How Separation May Help in Saving the Marriage\">10 Ways On How Separation May Help in Saving the Marriage<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Accept that your spouse is human, just like you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, on the surface, you know that your husband or wife is human. But here&rsquo;s the thing: When you think about all of the things that frustrate you, there&rsquo;s a pretty good chance that it&rsquo;s about them not being who you want or expect them to be.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humans are flawed, and they make mistakes. But the more you accept that as a reality, the more open you&rsquo;ll be to not being upset with your spouse when they disappoint you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acceptance of their humanity can make you more willing to give them what you want in return when you fall short: patience, forgiveness, understanding, encouragement, and love.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/kimberly-smith-lmhc-fl-lpc-mi-mac-qs-fl\">Counselor Kimberly Smith<\/a> states that,<\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">Understanding your partner&rsquo;s humanity will allow for compromise, which is vital for marriage because people change over time.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, the more willing you are to give what you want in your marriage, the more chance you have of finding solutions to divorce while also <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/3-tips-on-how-to-avoid-a-divorce\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">avoiding divorce.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Understand the biggest issues in your marriage<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understand what causes divorce in a marriage. Name the specific problem(s) that is causing your marriage to crumble down.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is it about your spouse that is driving you nuts? Is it a specific habit in them, or are there issues that you acknowledge you need to work on? Whatever it is, be specific in stating the marital problem before you can find a solution to it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You would be amazed how the solution for divorce outweighs the reasons to get divorced.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, if <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3230928\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">financial issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that are straining your marriage might be acting as the reasons to get a divorce, then take a step back and dwell on what you must do. Come up with a team approach to sort out your financial concerns.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make a list of all the issues that lead to disagreements, including the ones you refrain from talking about, to avoid conflict, which may help you find solutions to prevent divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Start over from scratch<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, starting from scratch is the best way to move forward. Forget about the fights, the negativity, the constant problems. Start all over again.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember why you both fell in love and built your marriage all over again from there. Do you remember the last time you talked for hours with your spouse, the long drives, or anything special you did together?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are looking for solutions to divorce, get silly about one another and infuse your relationship with love once again.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Change the negative patterns<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you always fight over the silliest things? Do either of you lose your temper at the drop of a hat? Do you nag each other even when you can make your point in a loving manner?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Break these negative patterns and embrace<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/keys-to-a-healthy-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> healthier habits in your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Be respectful towards each other, kiss in the mornings, and greet your spouse in the evenings.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember, it is these small habits that can actually make or break a marriage. Be mindful of these always.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Leave no stone unturned<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make every effort to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/five-things-you-can-do-right-now-to-improve-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> improve your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> if you are looking for divorce problem solutions. Understand that this will take time and effort from both partners. Prioritize your marriage and spouse and express gratitude to one another. Accept each other&rsquo;s differences and make decisions together as a team.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you both struggle to achieve this, then do not hesitate to seek help. Read books together on<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/relationship-therapy-3-fundamental-principles-of-building-a-great-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> how to build great marriages<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and attend seminars on how to solve divorce problems effectively. Do everything you can to make your marriage work.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Encourage individual growth<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage personal development and self-reflection for both partners if you are looking for ways to reduce divorce rates.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Individuals who actively work on personal growth contribute positively to the overall relationship. Self-awareness and self-improvement can lead to a healthier partnership and a more fulfilling life together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video to learn how to grow within a relationship:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/UlGJ0dm19SU?si=Z5keaKCHstrsyt60\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Implementing these solutions requires commitment from both parties and, in some cases, the involvement of professionals. Tailoring these strategies to your unique situation can significantly improve the divorce process and lay the foundation for a more positive post-divorce life.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/separation\/try-these-11-things-before-separating-from-your-wife\/\" title=\"Try These 11 Things Before Separating From Wife to Restore Your Marriage\">Try These 11 Things Before Separating From Wife to Restore Your Marriage<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Choosing the right approach to divorce problems and their solutions is a critical decision that varies based on individual circumstances. Whether opting for mediation, collaboration, or legal representation, understanding the unique benefits of each method is essential.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do I find the right approach to divorce for me?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assess your personal preferences, situation complexity, and priorities. Consult professionals to explore if mediation, collaboration, or legal representation aligns with your needs for a smoother divorce process.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the benefits of divorce mediation?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Divorce mediation is streamlined, cost-effective, and less adversarial. It promotes open communication, empowering couples to reach mutually agreeable decisions. This approach reduces emotional stress and fosters a cooperative environment.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the benefits of collaborative divorce?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Collaborative divorce prioritizes teamwork and mutual problem-solving. With each party represented by collaboratively trained professionals, couples work together to find solutions, ensuring a more amicable separation and preserving relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the benefits of using a divorce lawyer?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Legal representation by a divorce lawyer ensures adherence to laws and regulations. They advocate for your rights, negotiate on your behalf, and navigate complex legal processes. Having a lawyer provides a sense of security and guidance throughout the challenging divorce journey.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final-thoughts\"><\/span><b>Final thoughts<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When facing marital troubles, it&rsquo;s essential to remember that there are steps you can take to improve your relationship actively. By implementing these ten strategies, you can potentially help rebuild the foundation of your marriage and foster a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Firstly, communication is key; make an effort to listen attentively and express concerns openly and honestly. Additionally, seek professional help through couples therapy or counseling if needed. Prioritize quality time together, nurturing the emotional connection.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s also crucial to show empathy and understanding, make compromises, and forgive each other&rsquo;s shortcomings. Cultivate trust through transparency and avoid destructive behaviors such as blame or criticism.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, self-reflection is essential; recognize your own contributions to the problems and work on personal growth. Remember, with patience, effort, and determination to restore your relationship, you can overcome the challenges and build a stronger, happier marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are numerous causes and effects of divorce. According to DivorceStatistics.org, 40-50 percent of all first-time marriages will end in divorce. Although the reasons for divorce vary, some of the top reasons for divorce include poor communication, financial strain, intimacy issues, built-up resentment, and deep-rooted feelings of incompatibility.&nbsp; Currently, as per CDC, the divorce rate per 1000 married women is 16.9. Many experts feel that this is a much more accurate measure of true divorce rate than the crude rateThe divorce rate per 1000 married women is nearly double that of 1960, but down from the all-time high of 22.6 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":1058,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[16],"tags":[2680],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1054"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1054"}],"version-history":[{"count":26,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1054\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":119164,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1054\/revisions\/119164"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1058"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}