

{"id":101267,"date":"2024-05-29T09:04:15","date_gmt":"2024-05-29T09:04:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=101267"},"modified":"2025-09-30T07:17:39","modified_gmt":"2025-09-30T07:17:39","slug":"emotionally-detached-signs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/emotionally-detached-signs\/","title":{"rendered":"29 Signs that Someone Doesn&#8217;t Care About Your Feelings"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-101274\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/2142787627.jpg\" alt=\"Couple having argument \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C.S. Lewis once said, &ldquo;Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.&rdquo; This thought highlights how meaningful our emotional connections are to our overall happiness.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, however, it feels like these connections are one-sided, that our feelings are not being seen or returned. Realizing that someone might not care about our feelings as much as we care about theirs can be very upsetting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From not sharing in your excitement to ignoring your worries, understanding signs of when someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings can help you see how healthy and balanced our relationships really are.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/warning-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/\" title=\"45 Warning Signs of a Toxic Relationship\">45 Warning Signs of a Toxic Relationship<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-can-you-tell-if-someone-does-not-care-for-you-and-is-emotionally-detached-from-you\"><\/span><b>How can you tell if someone does not care for you and is emotionally detached from you?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone does not care for you and is emotionally detached, it often manifests as a noticeable absence of warmth and involvement in the relationship. <\/span><b>You might feel a consistent coldness or disinterest from their side, which can be disheartening<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4786571\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> show emotional interdependence, where partners<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They may communicate less frequently, showing little interest in your day-to-day life or emotional well-being. <\/span><b>Emotional detachment is not just about what they say; it&rsquo;s equally about what they don&rsquo;t say and do<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"29-signs-of-when-someone-doesn%E2%80%99t-care-about-your-feelings\"><\/span><b>29 signs of when someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VApQA_td5_c?si=N9xtOu27EMcHnowr\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you share a bond with someone, be it a friend, family member, or partner, you expect a level of care and understanding. However, there are times when it becomes evident that someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognizing these signs can help you address the issue or reconsider the relationship&rsquo;s value to your life. Here, we have outlined 29 indicators of emotional neglect and indifference in relationships, providing insight into the subtle and not-so-subtle ways people may show a lack of empathy or affection.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. They don&rsquo;t ask about your day<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings, they often show little interest in the details of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If your partner or friend doesn&rsquo;t ask about your day or how you&rsquo;re feeling, it can be a sign of emotional neglect<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This lack of curiosity can leave you feeling isolated and unimportant in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. They ignore your feelings<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An uncaring partner might overlook or dismiss your emotions. If <\/span><b>you find that your feelings are regularly ignored or minimized<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, this indicates a significant emotional disconnect. This behavior not only hurts but can also make you feel like your emotions are invalid.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. They don&rsquo;t celebrate your successes<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A partner who doesn&rsquo;t care will often show indifference to your achievements. Whether you get a promotion or reach a personal milestone, <\/span><b>their reaction (or lack thereof) can feel like a cold shower in your warmest moments<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This lack of support diminishes the joy of sharing your successes with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. They never apologize<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An inability or unwillingness to apologize is a clear sign of a lack of empathy. When someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings, <\/span><b>they may refuse to acknowledge their mistakes, much less apologize for them<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This can lead to a buildup of resentment and hurt in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. They are always focused on themselves<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your conversations are predominantly about them and their issues, it could signal apathy in the relationship. <\/span><b>An uncaring partner often dominates discussions and disregards any attempt to shift the focus<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> toward your needs or concerns.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/christiana-njoku\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, LPC<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Emotionally detached partners are known for diverting attention to themselves because they do not even care about how you feel.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>6. They don&rsquo;t make time for you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings, they often show it by not making time for you. Whether it&rsquo;s <\/span><b>repeatedly canceling plans or showing a general lack of initiative to spend time together<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, their disinterest is a form of emotional neglect.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/hyper-independence\/\" title=\"What Is Hyper Independence in a Relationship? Signs &#038; Solutions\">What Is Hyper Independence in a Relationship? Signs &#038; Solutions<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>7. They don&rsquo;t listen attentively<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Active listening is crucial in any relationship. <\/span><b>An uncaring partner might listen to you speak without really hearing you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This could manifest as them frequently getting distracted during conversations or failing to remember what you&rsquo;ve told them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/322722211_The_Power_of_Listening_Lending_an_Ear_to_the_Partner_During_Dyadic_Coping_Conversations\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> examined how attentive listening during stress discussions affects relationship health in 365 couples. Findings revealed that good listening improves coping and satisfaction, while poor listening leads to negative coping strategies. This suggests that attentive listening is crucial for relationship interventions and education.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-101270\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/1055745626.jpg\" alt=\"Unhappy couple arguing \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. They don&rsquo;t share their thoughts or feelings<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A relationship involves a mutual exchange of thoughts and emotions. A lack of openness from one side can be a sign of emotional neglect and a lack of affection. <\/span><b>If they keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves, it can prevent the development of deeper emotional connections<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. They dismiss your problems<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone trivializes the issues you face or reacts indifferently to your struggles, it shows a clear lack of empathy. <\/span><b>An uncaring partner may respond to your challenges with dismissive remarks or overtly ignore them<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, making you feel unsupported.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. They rarely initiate contact<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are always the one to initiate any form of communication, this imbalance can signal emotional neglect. When someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings, <\/span><b>they often won&rsquo;t bother to reach out or check-in, leaving you feeling like you&rsquo;re chasing after them for attention<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. They show no interest in your hobbies<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing and participating in each other&rsquo;s interests is a way to show care in a relationship. <\/span><b>A lack of interest in your hobbies or activities is a form of indifference in relationships<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that can make you feel unloved and isolated.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. They don&rsquo;t comfort you when you&rsquo;re upset<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the most evident signs that someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings is their absence of comfort when you&rsquo;re distressed. <\/span><b>An uncaring partner may ignore your need for support<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or blatantly avoid you during tough times.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. They are insensitive to your needs<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone consistently ignores your needs or is insensitive to what makes you comfortable and happy, it demonstrates a significant lack of empathy. <\/span><b>This behavior not only undermines your sense of worth but also your trust in them<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as a supportive partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. They make you feel like a burden<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If expressing your needs or emotions results in them making you feel like a burden, it&rsquo;s a harsh sign of emotional disconnect. When <\/span><b>someone makes you feel guilty for having normal emotional responses<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it&rsquo;s a clear indicator of their indifference towards your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. They keep you out of their future plans<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-101269\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/2397430693.jpg\" alt=\"Couple having conflicts \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings, they may also exclude you from their future plans. <\/span><b>This could be as subtle as planning a weekend getaway without considering you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or as significant as making long-term life decisions independently.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>16. They don&rsquo;t ask for your opinion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A relationship should involve mutual respect and consideration. <\/span><b>If your partner consistently makes decisions without seeking your input, it reflects a profound disregard for your perspective<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and a lack of affection.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>17. They are emotionally unavailable<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional unavailability can manifest as a persistent barrier to connecting on a deeper level. When someone is emotionally unavailable, <\/span><b>they may avoid discussions about feelings, appear detached during emotional situations<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or be unwilling to engage in conversations about the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>18. They are not curious about your past<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Part of caring about someone includes an interest in their life story. <\/span><b>A lack of curiosity about your past<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, from childhood memories to past experiences that shaped you, <\/span><b>can indicate a disinterest in understanding you fully<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>19. They use sarcasm or cruel jokes<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using sarcasm or making cruel jokes at your expense, especially in sensitive situations, is a sign of emotional neglect. <\/span><b>This kind of behavior can be hurtful and is often used as a defensive mechanism<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by those who are unwilling to engage emotionally.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>20. They withhold affection as a punishment<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Withholding affection to punish or manipulate you is a manipulation tactic used by an uncaring partner. <\/span><b>This could involve ignoring you, refusing to speak, withdrawing emotionally whenever they are displeased<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and using affection as a tool to control the relationship dynamics.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>21. They don&rsquo;t consider your preferences<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>Ignoring your preferences<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, from small decisions like choosing a movie to significant choices like deciding on holiday destinations, <\/span><b>reflects a lack of consideration and empathy<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This disregard can make you feel like your desires and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/full\/10.1177\/2378023120924805\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">needs are unimportant<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>22. They don&rsquo;t defend you to others<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Standing up for one another is crucial in a supportive relationship. <\/span><b>An uncaring partner might not defend you when others speak poorly of you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or might even agree with criticisms, showing a troubling lack of loyalty and support.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>23. They don&rsquo;t make an effort to resolve conflicts<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoiding conflict resolution and <\/span><b>letting disagreements fester without an attempt at dialogue or compromise<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be indicative of apathy in a relationship. This behavior can lead to unresolved issues and ongoing resentment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>24. They do not celebrate special occasions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forgetting or showing indifference toward special occasions like your birthday or anniversary is a clear sign of emotional neglect. <\/span><b>Celebrating these moments is a way to express love and care<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and their absence can feel particularly hurtful.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>25. They don&rsquo;t follow through on promises<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-101268\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/1383681119.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple having conflicts \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A pattern of <\/span><b>not following through on promises or commitments can indicate that someone doesn&rsquo;t value your feelings<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or the trust you place in them. This behavior can erode the foundations of any relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>26. They are frequently critical without being constructive<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Especially without offering constructive feedback, continuous criticism is a form of emotional abuse that can severely impact your self-esteem. When someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings, <\/span><b>they may frequently point out your flaws without providing support or solutions<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>27. They seem relieved when you spend time apart<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If <\/span><b>your partner seems noticeably happier or more relaxed when you are not around<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it may suggest that they find your presence burdensome. This behavior is a painful indicator of emotional disconnect and indifference.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Christiana Njoku highlights that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If your partner always feels comfortable being alone, even when you are around them, this shows that they were never in a relationship with you in the first place.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video by Dr. Orion Taraban as he talks about deal breakers in a relationship and how you can talk to your partner about relationship problems:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/gdVOzt56694?si=s7MZgHj008unw1zk\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>28. They express boredom with your relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Expressing boredom or dissatisfaction with the relationship without making any effort to improve the situation can be a sign of emotional neglect. When someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings, <\/span><b>they may communicate a lack of interest in maintaining or enhancing the relationship<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>29. They tell you directly they are not interested in your emotions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, the most straightforward sign is when <\/span><b>they explicitly state they are not interested in your emotions or personal experiences<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This brutal honesty, while painful, clarifies their lack of empathy and care.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/why-husband-lies-and-hides-things\/\" title=\"30 Possible Reasons Why Your Husband Lies and Hides Things\">30 Possible Reasons Why Your Husband Lies and Hides Things<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In relationships, it&rsquo;s crucial to understand emotional cues that indicate how others relate to us. Here are answers to some frequently asked questions about emotional detachment and availability:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do you know when someone doesn&rsquo;t care about your feelings?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If someone consistently disregards your emotions, rarely asks about your well-being, or shows indifference to your experiences, it&rsquo;s a strong indicator that they don&rsquo;t care about your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do you know if someone is emotionally detached from you?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional detachment can be identified by a lack of enthusiasm for your life events, minimal emotional responses to your experiences, and a general absence of warmth or affection in interactions.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What does an emotionally unavailable woman act like?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An emotionally unavailable woman may avoid deep conversations, show little interest in forming an emotional connection, and resist sharing her own feelings or discussing the relationship&rsquo;s future.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What does emotional detachment look like in a relationship?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional detachment in a relationship manifests as a lack of interest in spending quality time together, minimal affection, and avoidance of conversations about feelings or the relationship&rsquo;s health.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"In-a-nutshell\"><\/span><b>In a nutshell<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As we better understand the signs that someone doesn&rsquo;t care about our feelings, we are empowered to make informed decisions about our relationships. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward seeking healthier interactions and emotional environments.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Moving forward, we can prioritize relationships that offer mutual respect, empathy, and support<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Whether this means setting boundaries, seeking counseling, or sometimes, making the tough decision to walk away, we are taking proactive steps toward nurturing our emotional well-being.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The future holds the promise of more fulfilling connections as we learn to value our own emotional needs and those of others.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C.S. Lewis once said, &ldquo;Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.&rdquo; This thought highlights how meaningful our emotional connections are to our overall happiness.&nbsp; Sometimes, however, it feels like these connections are one-sided, that our feelings are not being seen or returned. Realizing that someone might not care about our feelings as much as we care about theirs can be very upsetting. 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