{"id":101819,"date":"2024-06-03T10:20:10","date_gmt":"2024-06-03T10:20:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?post_type=web-story&#038;p=101819"},"modified":"2024-06-03T10:21:04","modified_gmt":"2024-06-03T10:21:04","slug":"signs-he-is-playing-you-and-how-to-respond-effectively","status":"publish","type":"web-story","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/web-stories\/signs-he-is-playing-you-and-how-to-respond-effectively\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Signs He\u2019s Playing You and How to Respond Effectively"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p><meta charset=\"utf-8\"><meta name=\"viewport\" content=\"width=device-width,minimum-scale=1,initial-scale=1\"><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ampproject.org\/v0.js\"><\/script><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ampproject.org\/v0\/amp-story-1.0.js\" custom-element=\"amp-story\"><\/script><link href=\"https:\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css2?display=swap&amp;family=Nunito\" rel=\"stylesheet\"><link 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2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">He&rsquo;s inconsistent and unpredictable. Stay calm, seek clarity.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><\/amp-story-page><amp-story-page id=\"4e59d8d7-2158-4610-9144-e360e1748eb4\" auto-advance-after=\"7s\"><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-b3fd0531-f3b8-4e05-8d4f-cd4106bf6fd5\",\"keyframes\":{\"opacity\":[0,1]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-32131f23-b93c-4a0d-9229-320cffbf6a89\",\"keyframes\":{\"transform\":[\"translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\",\"translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)\"]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\" style=\"background-color:#bdaea6\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:-9.25926%;width:100%;height:118.51852%;opacity:1\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0\" class=\"mask\" id=\"el-cd79cc43-5e18-4957-b368-87e06288867b\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;width:118.36071%;height:100%;left:-9.18035%;top:0%\" data-leaf-element=\"true\"><amp-img layout=\"fill\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/3-13.jpg\" alt=\"3\" srcset=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/3-13.jpg 500w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/3-13-150x225.jpg 150w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/3-13-100x150.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1024px) 53vh, 118vw\" disable-inline-width=\"true\"><\/amp-img><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:64.40129%;width:100%;height:44.98382%;opacity:1\">\n<div id=\"anim-b3fd0531-f3b8-4e05-8d4f-cd4106bf6fd5\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:0;--initial-transform:none\">\n<div id=\"anim-32131f23-b93c-4a0d-9229-320cffbf6a89\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:1;--initial-transform:translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0;border-radius:0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% \/ 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548%\" id=\"el-a0b4a501-5b64-4926-93e3-67b425fd7976\">\n<h3 class=\"fill text-wrapper\" style='white-space:pre-line;overflow-wrap:break-word;word-break:break-word;margin:0.7689320388349516% 0;font-family:\"Nunito\",sans-serif;font-size:0.388350em;line-height:1.1;text-align:center;padding:26.699029126213592% 2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">He only contacts you on his terms. Set your boundaries.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><\/amp-story-page><amp-story-page id=\"d4307a24-fa5a-400b-b91a-bf6de9f1ec52\" auto-advance-after=\"7s\"><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-c98491e7-d2fb-4f60-927e-1067c0b193d4\",\"keyframes\":{\"opacity\":[0,1]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-f29f02eb-8a9f-4821-b8bf-141732e38bf0\",\"keyframes\":{\"transform\":[\"translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\",\"translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)\"]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\" style=\"background-color:#ab8979\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:-9.25926%;width:100%;height:118.51852%;opacity:1\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0\" class=\"mask\" id=\"el-5858a0ee-2e3e-4ecb-9d7b-ae6710f32f74\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;width:118.51852%;height:100%;left:-9.25926%;top:0%\" data-leaf-element=\"true\"><amp-img layout=\"fill\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/4-7.jpg\" alt=\"4\" srcset=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/4-7.jpg 500w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/4-7-150x225.jpg 150w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/4-7-100x150.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1024px) 53vh, 119vw\" disable-inline-width=\"true\"><\/amp-img><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:64.40129%;width:100%;height:44.98382%;opacity:1\">\n<div id=\"anim-c98491e7-d2fb-4f60-927e-1067c0b193d4\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:0;--initial-transform:none\">\n<div id=\"anim-f29f02eb-8a9f-4821-b8bf-141732e38bf0\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:1;--initial-transform:translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0;border-radius:0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% \/ 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548%\" id=\"el-f335b765-00bc-4da7-9d16-6fbefbcde44d\">\n<h3 class=\"fill text-wrapper\" style='white-space:pre-line;overflow-wrap:break-word;word-break:break-word;margin:0.7689320388349516% 0;font-family:\"Nunito\",sans-serif;font-size:0.388350em;line-height:1.1;text-align:center;padding:26.699029126213592% 2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">He avoids defining the relationship. Ask for clear commitments.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><\/amp-story-page><amp-story-page id=\"7d7141e1-feec-4bdf-923b-04e0b7250a13\" auto-advance-after=\"7s\"><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-e0d999ce-1808-4909-b970-9f4540d00d3f\",\"keyframes\":{\"opacity\":[0,1]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-cf630d7b-5d75-4157-bb54-7b9771399a31\",\"keyframes\":{\"transform\":[\"translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\",\"translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)\"]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\" style=\"background-color:#bb6d29\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:-9.25926%;width:100%;height:118.51852%;opacity:1\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0\" class=\"mask\" id=\"el-1401db16-6692-45d7-aab7-ab6abd665aca\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;width:118.51852%;height:100%;left:-9.25926%;top:0%\" data-leaf-element=\"true\"><amp-img layout=\"fill\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/5-7.jpg\" alt=\"5\" srcset=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/5-7.jpg 500w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/5-7-150x225.jpg 150w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/5-7-100x150.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1024px) 53vh, 119vw\" disable-inline-width=\"true\"><\/amp-img><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:64.40129%;width:100%;height:44.98382%;opacity:1\">\n<div id=\"anim-e0d999ce-1808-4909-b970-9f4540d00d3f\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:0;--initial-transform:none\">\n<div id=\"anim-cf630d7b-5d75-4157-bb54-7b9771399a31\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:1;--initial-transform:translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0;border-radius:0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% \/ 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548%\" id=\"el-ea6625eb-34c2-499b-b30f-629683fd67a7\">\n<h3 class=\"fill text-wrapper\" style='white-space:pre-line;overflow-wrap:break-word;word-break:break-word;margin:0.7689320388349516% 0;font-family:\"Nunito\",sans-serif;font-size:0.388350em;line-height:1.1;text-align:center;padding:26.699029126213592% 2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">He keeps you hidden from his life. Demand transparency.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><\/amp-story-page><amp-story-page id=\"1d93bb92-35d9-4987-8dec-c7fbb3582a66\" auto-advance-after=\"7s\"><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-077aff61-686f-4780-bb3a-8d6e397086c3\",\"keyframes\":{\"opacity\":[0,1]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-277a6daf-5bdd-4349-92d4-707317f44844\",\"keyframes\":{\"transform\":[\"translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\",\"translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)\"]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\" style=\"background-color:#cdc3c2\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:-9.25926%;width:100%;height:118.51852%;opacity:1\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0\" class=\"mask\" id=\"el-03dbf6d6-07bc-44d8-909c-88dfddac4411\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;width:118.51852%;height:100%;left:-9.25926%;top:0%\" data-leaf-element=\"true\"><amp-img layout=\"fill\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/6-6.jpg\" alt=\"6\" srcset=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/6-6.jpg 500w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/6-6-150x225.jpg 150w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/6-6-100x150.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1024px) 53vh, 119vw\" disable-inline-width=\"true\"><\/amp-img><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:64.40129%;width:100%;height:44.98382%;opacity:1\">\n<div id=\"anim-077aff61-686f-4780-bb3a-8d6e397086c3\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:0;--initial-transform:none\">\n<div id=\"anim-277a6daf-5bdd-4349-92d4-707317f44844\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:1;--initial-transform:translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0;border-radius:0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% \/ 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548% 0.7194244604316548%\" id=\"el-2b9ae2c9-4f68-4b0c-b749-415c2b4bb89f\">\n<h3 class=\"fill text-wrapper\" style='white-space:pre-line;overflow-wrap:break-word;word-break:break-word;margin:0.7689320388349516% 0;font-family:\"Nunito\",sans-serif;font-size:0.388350em;line-height:1.1;text-align:center;padding:26.699029126213592% 2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">He ignores your needs but meets his. Prioritize mutual respect.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><\/amp-story-page><amp-story-page id=\"93ef4255-842c-4393-9811-ca489b1342b7\" auto-advance-after=\"7s\"><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-4422aacc-388d-45c3-90bf-3692170d43e5\",\"keyframes\":{\"opacity\":[0,1]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-10d50117-7e34-43df-90c1-f43516017ecf\",\"keyframes\":{\"transform\":[\"translate3d(0px, 99.73901%, 0)\",\"translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)\"]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\" style=\"background-color:#b89d94\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:-9.25926%;width:100%;height:118.51852%;opacity:1\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0\" class=\"mask\" id=\"el-59a77213-7b34-4992-8fbb-974a2fbfb60e\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;width:118.67676%;height:100%;left:-9.33838%;top:0%\" data-leaf-element=\"true\"><amp-img layout=\"fill\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/7-6.jpg\" alt=\"7\" srcset=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/7-6.jpg 500w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/7-6-150x225.jpg 150w,https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/7-6-100x150.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1024px) 53vh, 119vw\" disable-inline-width=\"true\"><\/amp-img><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><amp-story-grid-layer template=\"vertical\" aspect-ratio=\"412:618\" class=\"grid-layer\"><div class=\"page-fullbleed-area\">\n<div class=\"page-safe-area\">\n<div style=\"position:absolute;pointer-events:none;left:0;top:61.16505%;width:100%;height:48.22006%;opacity:1\">\n<div id=\"anim-4422aacc-388d-45c3-90bf-3692170d43e5\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:0;--initial-transform:none\">\n<div id=\"anim-10d50117-7e34-43df-90c1-f43516017ecf\" class=\"animation-wrapper\" style=\"width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;--initial-opacity:1;--initial-transform:translate3d(0px, 99.73901%, 0)\">\n<div style=\"pointer-events:initial;width:100%;height:100%;display:block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;z-index:0;border-radius:0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% 0.48543689320388345% \/ 0.6711409395973155% 0.6711409395973155% 0.6711409395973155% 0.6711409395973155%\" id=\"el-7982413e-5ab9-4331-b79f-d024f5f5482f\">\n<h3 class=\"fill text-wrapper\" style='white-space:pre-line;overflow-wrap:break-word;word-break:break-word;margin:0.7689320388349516% 0;font-family:\"Nunito\",sans-serif;font-size:0.388350em;line-height:1.1;text-align:center;padding:29.126213592233007% 2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">He&rsquo;s overly charming but superficial. Trust actions, not words.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><amp-story-page-outlink layout=\"nodisplay\" cta-image=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/New-Project-2022-12-29T134040.157.jpg\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-he-is-playing-you\/\">Learn more<\/a><\/amp-story-page-outlink><\/amp-story-page><\/amp-story>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>6 Signs He&rsquo;s Playing You and How to Respond Effectively 6 Signs He&rsquo;s Playing You and How to Respond Effectively He&rsquo;s inconsistent and unpredictable. Stay calm, seek clarity. He only contacts you on his terms. Set your boundaries. He avoids defining the relationship. Ask for clear commitments. He keeps you hidden from his life. Demand transparency. He ignores your needs but meets his. Prioritize mutual respect. He&rsquo;s overly charming but superficial. 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