{"id":101755,"date":"2024-06-03T08:45:35","date_gmt":"2024-06-03T08:45:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?post_type=web-story&#038;p=101755"},"modified":"2024-06-03T08:47:47","modified_gmt":"2024-06-03T08:47:47","slug":"assertive-ways-to-turn-the-tables-on-a-gaslighter","status":"publish","type":"web-story","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/web-stories\/assertive-ways-to-turn-the-tables-on-a-gaslighter\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Assertive Ways to Turn the Tables on a Gaslighter"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p><meta charset=\"utf-8\"><meta name=\"viewport\" content=\"width=device-width,minimum-scale=1,initial-scale=1\"><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ampproject.org\/v0.js\"><\/script><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ampproject.org\/v0\/amp-story-1.0.js\" custom-element=\"amp-story\"><\/script><link href=\"https:\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css2?display=swap&amp;family=Nunito\" rel=\"stylesheet\"><link 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2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">Recognize the gaslighting: Trust your feelings and perceptions.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><\/amp-story-page><amp-story-page id=\"d19ba79a-24a4-4ac2-8ec5-b4a2b79b8552\" auto-advance-after=\"7s\"><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-832d66a8-af66-4a3e-9589-7ecaa5e7e46f\",\"keyframes\":{\"opacity\":[0,1]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-f5d2308e-6ff4-4153-b543-a348cb4ecd21\",\"keyframes\":{\"transform\":[\"translate3d(0px, 99.72023%, 0)\",\"translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)\"]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 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