{"id":100909,"date":"2024-05-28T06:36:37","date_gmt":"2024-05-28T06:36:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?post_type=web-story&#038;p=100909"},"modified":"2024-05-28T06:37:31","modified_gmt":"2024-05-28T06:37:31","slug":"how-to-handle-breakups-that-hit-guys-later","status":"publish","type":"web-story","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/web-stories\/how-to-handle-breakups-that-hit-guys-later\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Handle Breakups That Hit Guys Later"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p><meta charset=\"utf-8\"><meta name=\"viewport\" content=\"width=device-width,minimum-scale=1,initial-scale=1\"><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ampproject.org\/v0.js\"><\/script><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ampproject.org\/v0\/amp-story-1.0.js\" custom-element=\"amp-story\"><\/script><link href=\"https:\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css2?display=swap&amp;family=Nunito\" rel=\"stylesheet\"><link 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2.4271844660194173%;color:#000000'><span><span style=\"color: #fff\">Journal about your emotions to process what you&rsquo;re going through.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p><\/amp-story-grid-layer><\/amp-story-page><amp-story-page id=\"51dad892-6509-4789-95c5-45b989c0c843\" auto-advance-after=\"7s\"><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-406b3d78-3aba-4f52-8c90-8f5ef3dbeb47\",\"keyframes\":{\"opacity\":[0,1]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)\",\"fill\":\"both\"}]<\/script><\/amp-story-animation><amp-story-animation layout=\"nodisplay\" trigger=\"visibility\"><script type=\"application\/json\">[{\"selector\":\"#anim-97e50ac2-9865-4c59-a27a-549b438207a8\",\"keyframes\":{\"transform\":[\"translate3d(0px, 100.79649%, 0)\",\"translate3d(0px, 0px, 0)\"]},\"delay\":0,\"duration\":600,\"easing\":\"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 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