What is the point of marriage? Though the question is simple, the answers can be difficult and even controversial. A brief search turns up a plethora of answers representing a multitude of views from worldwide. These answers reveal no end of confusion and just present the perspective of many individuals.
Marriages are created for a variety of reasons. They exist for something more significant than satisfying personal needs.
If we realize that our relationship has a purpose greater than serving the needs of either partner – if it is more important than either one of us – then it will take precedence over individual needs.
Is it something we want? Or are we conditioned to believe in it?
We tend to plan our life ahead at a young age, where you are successful and settled. However, we fail to understand is that marriage isn’t a piece of cake, it needs continuous effort from each of the partners, and you need to make sure that you’re ready for it.
It’s not about the right age; it’s about being mentally prepared for sharing responsibilities, giving unconditional love and most importantly; compromise.
This does not mean that you won’t be obtaining anything out of it. Life is simply too long to make hasty decisions and continue to exist on your own. When you’re young and ambitious, you have got the energy, the stamina and hoped to conquer it all.
But as you grow old, you need someone to rely on. No matter how emotionally strong you are, one day you’ll break down and need someone to be there for you; somebody to tell you that everything’s going to alright.
Is it easy to find the perfect partner?
First of all, we need to realize is that nobody is perfect. Everyone has their own flaws and weaknesses. Our imperfections make us who we are. We can’t just love the good side of people, sometimes they are at their worst, and that is what we need to accept.
Most importantly, you can’t love anybody until and unless you learn to love yourself.
Every marriage brings challenges, often profound ones, and how a couple faces them could decide whether their relationship collapses or holds firm.
Not every day in your life is going to be happening. Sometimes things fall apart and so do you. Giving up may seem the easiest thing to do at that moment, but it does more damage than you can imagine. That is when you need your partner and your family.
Love is unconditional, but it would be unfair to keep one person on the giving end and cut them off from the receiving one which is why both parties need to be consistent in make things work.
Sometimes you may be having a hectic day at work or with your kids, and you didn’t have enough time to spend with your other half. The best you can do is to sit together for dinner and just hear each other out.
What should you be doing to keep each other happy?
It’s not merely about just making things work; your partner should also bring you happiness. Felicity is not always about focusing on big things like fancy dinners or exchanging expensive gifts. One should know what is important for their loved one. You can start by doing things that bring you closer, like cooking a meal together or watching a movie. Appreciate your partner for the little things that they do for your well-being. Pay attention to the little details about one another and cherish every single moment that you spend together.
Marriage is the beginning of a life-long commitment; its something pure, a connection between two people that is more emotional and spiritual than physical. It teaches you to be selfless; You care about people that surround you, the ones you call your family, your loved ones. It gives us a partner, a teammate as we overcome the challenges of life together. It may not always be easy, but the small things that come along with it will always make you feel happy and content.