The age-old question, ‘What do women want in a relationship?’
People belonging to the world of Psychology and Literature are well-aware of the name Sigmund Freud. He once very famously said, “The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul is, ‘What does a woman want?’”
There are several articles and quotes taking a jab at women and their basic desires. How it always states that it is impossible to understand women. They portray women as an algebraic formula or any science experiment where one would dissect something or break down the compound.
So what do women want in a relationship with their partners?
1. To not a Superman
First thing is first when she is complaining about some incident at work or any family drama, until or unless she asks for your opinion, keep it to yourself. Let her vent out, let her cry at the injustice of the situation and just be there for her.
Contrary to popular belief, we do not want Superman all the time, sometimes a keen ear and a comfortable presence are all that we require.
2. To always speak the truth
Men tend to agree to things that they have no intention of seeing through. For them, it’s not a big deal, but for most women being true to one’s word is the epitome of being a decent human.
When a woman catches her man in a lie she starts to doubt every word you ever spoke.
3. To not just say “I love you” but to show it
Those cheesy ‘I love you’ will never be enough for a strong-minded woman. If you love her, show it. Be respectful towards her, be gentle, be attentive, be caring, and be soft with your words and not only with her but others as well.
Show her that you are a good man, a good person, a good human being.
Trust me, she will love you more than you think she was capable of, as to a woman there is nothing more attractive than a man doing exactly what he said he would.
4. To make her feel protected
Now, a lot of men tend to think about a damsel in distress whenever I point this little note to them. Sadly, what they fail to grasp is that most women are not talking about the physical strength of a man when they say that they did or did not feel safe with a certain someone. It is, almost, always about how they did not feel safe enough to open themselves up.
Women need to feel safe and protected before they can actually voice their opinion or desire to their men.
And it takes a strong man to listen and actually follow the advice of their better-halves as well.
5. To make her feel beautiful
There is nothing sadder than a woman believing that she is not enough.
Any man who, in any way or form, is unable to make his partner feel worthy does not deserve her in the first place.
She should not look at others and fear that you might change your mind. She should have enough confidence in the relationship to know that you are not going anywhere, and this confidence is bestowed to us by our partners.
In a nutshell:
- Nurture her and let her nurture you
- Let her be herself
- Boost her confidence
- Make her smile
- Pay attention to her
- Then watch her bloom
Every person has different priorities, and demand different things from their partners. The above handful tidbits are just the most basic pointers that can keep your woman happy. In the end, it is just you and your better half. Think about what means the world to them and do it, just for their happiness!
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