There are a lot of personal tastes involved when it comes to sex, but every woman wants to be loved. If you can blur the line between having sex and making love, then you are guaranteed to satisfy her in ways they always dream about.
Like all things in life, it is easier said than done, but if you follow all the steps outlined in this guide. You will become a man who women will want to have sex with over and over again.
Here are steps to have sex that will make women crave sex from you-
Exercise, eat healthily and drink your vitamins
Foundation stage. None of the advice here will work if you are not physically able to have sex. Regardless of the motivation, intent, willpower, and desire that you have in you, If your body is in no condition to do anything, then it won’t do anything… not even something as pleasurable as sex.
Sex is a physical activity. Great sex is a strenuous physical activity.
So unless you want to drink that miracle Pfizer drug and have her ride cowgirl all night, then you will need a physically fit body to perform.
Plus if that’s all you do as a couple, then she will get bored and bad things to happen when women are bored.
Take it slow… Real slow
Having sex right away like horny teenagers are for horny teenagers. Quickies are a different matter altogether, but this guide is about eating your fill in three Michelin Star restaurants (It’s going to cost a fortune) and not a quick chow in a Hong Kong street. Granted both are filling, delicious, and satisfying, but three Michelin Star Restaurants will give you an experience you never forget, the bill included.
Let’s start the actual guide. Start with foreplay, lots of it. Do not underestimate its power, and unless you watch too much porn where the woman does most of the work, and do it that way, then you’re doing it wrong.
Foreplay is a man’s greatest weapon.
We will discuss this more as we go along. Explore her body, use your hands, your lips, your tongue, and your breath. Familiarize yourself with her erogenous zones. Keep testing different parts of her body from head to foot, listen to her reactions.
Her moans will tell you if you hit the jackpot. Places like ears, neck, nape, nipples, shoulders, spine, and stomach are your usual suspects. Some women also have erogenous zones in their buttocks, feet, thigh, and belly button, but this isn’t always the case, so explore.
Touch, massage, lick, kiss, and blow these parts until she begs you to stop and get on with it. Slowly do the same to every inch of her body in between those zones. Be careful not to touch (you can kiss and blow) her most private parts.
Talk and compliment her.
Do it in a soft voice and make it sound like it’s a great honor that she is letting you admire and desecrate her body at the same time.
Ask leading questions, especially on her tastes, and if she’s enjoying what you are doing. Do this in between the kisses and licks. Do not talk too much. Make her say the word “LOVE” a lot. This would help put things in perspective.
Do not talk dirty, but ask questions that would make her do so. Awaken her inner nymphomaniac by having her say naughty things. The dirtier, the better. Do not start penetration until she forces the issue, by then she is ready to receive you.
The choo-choo train method
Have you ever seen a choo-choo train? It moves very slowly and gathers speed over time. Penetrate her the same way. Junior’s head is the thickest part of your manhood… move slowly and have her feel junior’s head inside her. Like those old trains, increase your pace every few seconds, do this until you’re going as fast and as hard as you can.
Then go slow again. Talk to her more, give other parts of her body some attention. Change speeds often, Make her beg you for her own climax. If you notice that she’s having an orgasm or almost there.
Penetrate her hard and fast, do this every time she is having an orgasm, make sure you stop if you feel you have to do the same.
The next section would explain why.
Do the math
There are differences between you and your partner, but the woman is guaranteed to be able to have more orgasms than you. If you encounter a woman, who has problems orgasming, take this as an opportunity. If you can make her ejaculate 1-3 times, she will remember it for life.
Whether women can ejaculate a lot, or not at all. Make sure you mix things up with the choo-choo train (regardless of the position) and foreplay until she has had enough orgasms. Do this before you allow yourself to have one.
Multiple orgasms are your ultimate bacon
If your partner is the type who has no problems having orgasms, then you will have to endure holding it in and continue soldiering on until she has multiple orgasms. If she is the cold fish type that has problems with it, then you would have to do the same until her second one. Keep in mind that you will need 30 mins to an hour of continuous stimulation before the woman reaches this stage.
If you feel you are near blasting your load, go back to foreplay, clitoral stimulation (of any form) would do wonders at this point.
Entertain other parts of her body while giving junior a rest. This is why foreplay is a powerful weapon, after having a few orgasms, she will not consider it foreplay anymore. But you are really just resting.
If you are able to give her multiple orgasms, or a second one for those with ejaculation problems, then you can give her the finishing blow. I will leave that to your personal taste, imagination, and style.
Follow each step carefully, and like all skills, it gets better with practice. In case you haven’t noticed, the position, location, mood, is not important. What you need is time. So make sure it’s in a place where you and your partner are comfortable and not pressed for time. If you want to drink alcohol in between to help you rest, then go ahead and do. Do not get drunk and fall asleep or do something even more embarrassing.
Over time, you will be able to develop your own style and adapt to your partner’s tastes, but you still have to do the math. If you can reach the ultimate bacon every single time. We can guarantee she will beg you for more.
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