Top 5 Most Googled Sex Questions Answered by Porn Star, Daizha Morgann

1. How can I reignite the passion in our sex life?  

Be spontaneous! Send your partner a sexy selfie and text detailing what you plan to do to them when they get home.  Have sex in a new place (whether it’s somewhere new in your house or somewhere else a little more on the wild side.)  I highly recommend the bathroom – mirrors, utilizing countertops of the shower. That feeling of the unknown and something so un-routine is just thrilling and will help build up anticipation. Experiment with new positions, as well as adult toys and games. After you’ve been in a relationship for years and years, it is totally easy for sex to kind of run flat and lose its once firesome spark, which is why it is absolutely vital that you work on keeping it new, fun and exciting!

2. I caught my partner watching porn, what should I do?

Watch it with them, LOL. I am a firm believer that porn can actually help couples develop a deeper sexual connection. Rather than feeling jealous or insecure over your partner’s porn stash, why not join them? Speak up and be open about what you’re seeing or what you want to see to turn you on. After all, this should be mutually beneficial for the both of you. Fun fact – about half of my premium XXX Snapchat subscribers are couples who tune in to indulge together!

3. What can you do to maintain a sex life after having kids?

It is absolutely imperative to make sex a priority!  As hectic as it is to run a household with children, it is so important to keep the flame between your partner alive – after all, you guys are the base of the family foundation. Hire a babysitter! Throw on something that makes you feel hot and enjoy a date night getaway.  Be husband and wife – not mom and dad. Learn how to date your partner and by that I mean let loose and focus on the moment rather than all of your serious life responsibilities. Master the art of the quickie. Frankly, sometimes these are the hottest sex sessions when passion is at a full-time high and time is limited, you just go straight in for what you both really want.

4.  I’m very stressed! I can’t focus when we have sex. What to do?

Roleplay.  Play a game where you can be anyone else you want to be – without a care in the world. You’re allowed (and totally entitled) to let go of your worries during your sack session!  After all, sex is a natural stress-reliever!

5. How can we overcome infidelity?

Allow yourself time to heal. Don’t be afraid to seek professional help. Counseling is totally the norm these days.  Make up your mind, you either want your marriage to work or you don’t. If you are vowing to move forward, move forward and leave the past behind. Talk openly with each other about your wants, needs, sexual desires and fantasies.  It will help strengthen and secure your bond.