It might sound absurd to discuss the G-spot with your partner. There are many contrary beliefs regarding it. Looking into this matter, it isn’t that complex. The complexity varies from person to person and your way of explanation. There might be many mythical beliefs regarding it and this article is the solution to your query.
Here are the 5 things that you need to know before bringing up the topic with your partner.
But first what is the G-spot?
The G-spot or Grafenberg Spot is the erogenous area in the Vagina that leads to sexual arousal and orgasm on stimulation.
Typically placed 5-8 cm up the anterior wall of vagina between the opening and urethra.
Despite all of this, its existence has yet not been proven nor has the theory of arousal been. The contradiction lies in the demarcation of a distinct area under this heading. Simply, it can also be just an extension of the clitoris. May or may not be associated with orgasm and arousal.
1.Can it be felt?
Yes! A firm pressure on the front side of the vaginal spot is the ideal way of finding it. Might be an inch or maybe two, inside the vagina. However, what is advised is to consult your gynecologist for the location before you bring this topic up with your partner.
It is important to know that the exact location varies from person to person.
2. Any adverse effects?
Of course, this must be running in your mind that the pressure or even the stimulation seems unnatural. However, it’s not. Most women feel a strong connection between arousal and G-spot. However, it’s a vague concept until you’re looking into this matter from a studious point of view. No anatomical distinction has yet been given, therefore the hypothetical term doesn’t hold quite any adverse effects.
3. Does the age factor count?
Yes! It is believed that not all women are sensitive to it, therefore, there is a big chance of the stimulation proving out to be uncomfortable. Young women under 30 with high estrogen levels have thicker walls, therefore, it’s not that easy to stimulate this region.
The slight decline in thickness and a better stimulation after the 30s may become a reason of support to this statement.
4. Mutually accept this
It is not necessary to have a G-spot, therefore, stop focusing on this.
If you don’t have a sensitive G-spot that certainly is not a worrisome situation. The urethra and clitoris are other erogenous zones that can be stimulated.
There is a strong need for experimentation and seeking gynecologist help. This will stop you from reaching to conclusions any soon without each other’s consent.
5. Do men have it too?
The answer to this question is the easiest and simplest. Yes! The prostate. Located right below the bladder and in front of the rectal opening. The urethra runs through it. The reason for it to be called a G-spot as well is simple.
It comprises the same layers of tissues as the women do, therefore it is sometimes called the male G-spot. It is stimulated through the anus by pressing the front of the rectal wall.
6. Do you feel spotless?
This might be too much of confusing information. The main verdict to take from it is to stop looking for the G-spot for validation.
The key to a healthy relationship lies in communication. Be confident on your facts and yourselves. Looking for the right thing in the wrong area will do no benefit other than ruining what’s in hand. Lastly, there are chances of you not having a G-spot. Looking into different definitions won’t satisfy your need.
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