Is your marriage healthy and happy or destructive and angry? Your marriage may be unhealthy if you rarely communicate, argue often, and do not spend quality time together. If you find out that your marriage is unhealthy, then it might be time to consult a marriage counselor for further advice. Take this How Healthy Is My Marriage quiz to find out how healthy your marriage is!
1. Have you ever thought about leaving your spouse?
A. Never
B. Maybe once
C. A few times
D. All the time
2. How often do you and your spouse spend quality time together?
A. Very often
B. Often
C. Rarely
D. Never
3. Have you or your spouse ever cheated?
A. No, never
B. No
C. Maybe emotionally
D. Yes
4. Do you and your spouse share a lot of common interests and hobbies?
A. Yes, lots
B. Yeah, just a few
C. Not really
D. No
5. How often do you and your spouse resolve fights?
A. Very often
B. Often
C. Rarely
D. Never
6. How often do you and your spouse argue?
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Often
D. Very often
7. How often do you and your spouse communicate in a loving, positive manner?
A. Very often
B. Often
C. Rarely
D. Never
8. Do you have financial troubles?
A. No
B. Not really
C. Kind of
D. Yes, definitely
9. How open are you and your spouse with one another?
A. Very open
B. Pretty open
C. Not open
D. Not open at all
10. Are there any trust issues in your marriage?
A. A lot of it
B. We frequently have it
C. Rarely
D. Not at all
11. Are there any financial conflicts in your marriage?
A. A lot of it
B. We frequently have it
C. Rarely
D. Not at all
12. Do either of you feel controlled by the other partner?
A. We both do
B. My partner often tells me they do but I don’t think so
C. At certain situations
D. Not really
13. Do you think either of you are staying in the marriage to minimize the negative effects on your family?
A. Definitely
B. The thought occurs sometimes
C. I am not sure
D. Not at all
14. You have an emotional affair with someone?
A. Yes
B. I think so
C. I just randomly like someone at times but I don’t entertain any such thoughts
D. No
E.
15. How often do you and your spouse engage in intimate activity?
A. Very often
B. Often
C. Rarely
D. Never
E.
